2006-12-22 09:13:41 · 21 answers · asked by erindeckmen5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys that break up you usually do it because they found someone else to be with. They move on quickly because they are already started something with another girl before they break up with you.
2006-12-22 09:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well guys just hide their feelings much better than girls. I think we are built with the same heart and same emotions. We all hurt the same. Our society just demands guys to be tougher.
Guys seem to move on so quickly as an unconscious way of saying that "we don't hurt". But that's far from the truth.
Irregardless of the gender, male or female, if there's not much love in the first place, ANYBODY CAN USUALLY MOVE ON QUICKLY after a break up.
2006-12-22 09:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Amazo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do but most don't unless they know you and think a lot of you from the beginning and have known you for a while. Those who do move quickly think they have a chance with you and want to take advantage of the situation and never think of your feelings. Usually these are the ones to avoid unless you are drawn to them at the time. Girls who are on the rebound are vulnerable and guys know this and know that for the most part they can take advantage of the situation and the girl finds out too late that she did not want to happen what just did happen. Know what I mean? Before you know it she is having sex with the first guy who shows her any kind of affection after things have gone sour with her previous boyfriend or husband or lover. Thus the quick move by the guy who nitices her and her vulnerability.
2006-12-22 09:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Dear... =)
Well.... Every time a relationship has ended for me (even in death), the best solution I could come up with was to move on. The alternative is a very dark place, full of self pity, loathing, and self-destruction.
You can go there, if you're a guy, but it's not a good thing for most of us. Women can go there, and come back, virtually unscathed, it seems. Men are not so strong.
So, it's back on the horse that threw you, so to speak.
Happy Holidays, and Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-22 09:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have to take their mind off of the break up, so they look for a way out. Or he could had the person all a long, that's what my ex did. Don't worry about it just move on, that's all you can do. Another thing men aren't the only ones that move on fast, so do women.
2006-12-22 09:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does one boke up? I've never heard of that term before.
2006-12-22 09:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they can't handle being alone cause it kills them. like if they saw u a couple of days later and u had a bf and he didn't have a gf it would kill him, because he would be so jealous, but this way they move on and make u jealous and sooner or later they forget about u but u are always the one still in love with him, and that's why guys move on faster then girls
2006-12-22 09:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Katleen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general,relationships take time to fall apart. Chances are he was moving on before he told you he was done with you.Oh,it's not only the guys who do this,girls lie too!
2006-12-22 09:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in their genetics. A male is driven to sex, not relationships. He only has relationships to get sex. Also, he might not be moving on, it might be that he was never really with you in the first place.
2006-12-22 09:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are too scared to deal with their feelings so they move on hoping the next woman will stroke their egos, along with other things.
2006-12-22 09:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋