i felt really hurt recently by a bloke who finished with me. anyway, i had some problems getting over it and a friend said just forget him, and someone said something to me that hit me, she siad he must be really important to you. then i thought i am making him important and he is not really, so i stopped moaning on, but i remember somone said about my mother, that men were very important to her, she got hurt alot and was always giving men her attention, more than me, i don,t want to be like her, so why do i do it. i do tend to make a big fuss about someone who is not very important. my mum always spoilt my brothers more they could do no wrong, she used to sleep around. someone once said i was dependant upon men what did they mean. for attention to make me feel good. i don,t know i just know i don,t want to be like her because she got hurt alot and made a fool of herself and people have said to me i don,t value myself and she never did either. i dont, want to be like this .
2006-12-22
09:40:24
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denise g
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