I have a friend who says they love me, but they have a significant other.?

Question

My friend says he "Loves" me. but While he's saying this he has a girlfriend. I love him back... but I don't know what to think about his girlfriend... What should I tell him?

Answer 1

Simple. Tell him to get serious. If he actually does love you, then he needs to break up with the girlfriend and be honest about the situation. If he can't be honest about his feelings for her to her, then how would he be honest with you? If he can't choose, he needs to step back and stop gaming. Life is about choices and unless you guys have some kind of 3-some thing working he apparently needs to get with the program and make one. Also, is he insecure? Why does he need you to accept his advances BEFORE he is willing to part ways with the other girl? Maturity isn't a factor of age, it's how much integrity you have when confronted with adult situations.

Answer 2

Run! If he says he loves you while he's with another person, what's to stop him from loving someone else while he's with you? That's assuming of course that he DOES break it off and you get what you think you want.

I say run as fast as you can from this guy. Find that someone who can be honest AND faithful. One isn't much good without the other.

Answer 3

Tell him that you're not looking to get caught in a love triangle so he needs to break it off with his current gf before you two take it any further.

Answer 4

Tell him to be single for a few months that way you are not the rebound girl and not give you mixed messages

Answer 5

I think he probably wants to get down your pants. or he loves you but doesn't really know who he loves more, you or her. you should ask yourself if being number 2 is something you want.