theres this girl who ditched one of her best friends to sit with us and we dont like her. shes loud and annoying and also impolite. ( plus our table is already full ) its not like she doesnt have friends because she does. wat should we do??? wat should we say???
2006-12-22 09:39:53 · 15 answers · asked by Lowlow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ignore her.Then she'll get the point.If not move 2 a different table if u can.Then fill up your whole entire table,and ignore her.
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2006-12-22 09:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ luving animals ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're a tight group and you don't have any room for anyone new. She may be a bit hurt by it but not as much as if you tell her she's loud and annoying, lol.
On the other hand maybe you'd be doing her a favour telling her she's loud and annoying as it might get her to work on that, although this would be more hurtful. It's your choice.
2006-12-22 17:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by EZSum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my!
Havn't we all had a situation where we're really nice to someone then God pays us back my making her turn out to be an increadibly annoying guirl who spits when she talks!
Well i think you should tell her that it was really mena of her to just ditch her friend like that! ( dont gang up on her now) and maybe you should suggest that she try and make things better with her friend! if that doesnt work, then i suggest that you just tell her, not that you dont like her but that you feel that your personalities dont mix well, or if you dont really care about her feelings ( i know this is mean but, well ya know some times they just need to hear it straight up, or you might just feel like being a B ****) anyway tell her you dont like her!
Hope i helped
BYYE <33
2006-12-22 18:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by briacass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are if u tell her face to face she might feel embarassed/ offended cause u might not use the right words or tone of voice so i suggest that u write her a little girly note and state all the things you guys don't like and suggest that she goes back to sit where she normally sits ( let every1 at the table sign it so she doesn't think it's a personal issue) be sure to write on the front " READ B4 LUNCH" so that u'll be sure she won't be joining u
2006-12-22 17:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by REALITY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that friends do not ditch friends, that she need to go back and make her with her friend. You may want to add that with a friend like her, who ditches her best friend, what makes her think you would want to be her friend.
2006-12-22 17:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tactfully but it sounds like she is trying to impress yall. If she has friends she has some good qualities about her, maybe you just need to talk to her and let her know that what she is doing is not impressing but actually annoying.
2006-12-22 17:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody clicks with everybody. People don't need to take it personal,but you and me just don't seem to be on the same page.Please find a better page to sit with
2006-12-22 17:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by mdbeauf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make it obvious that you are not interested in having her around/ Hopefully she'll get the hint
2006-12-22 17:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by MuZzZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just not talk to her, but then again thats rude and this question is rude. What makes you so popular?
2006-12-22 17:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, talk about stuff only you and your friends know about, don't speak to her about anything, she'll get bored.
2006-12-22 17:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by BBaller25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋