Ok i will set the scene for you. A mother & daughter goes to bingo and another daughter walks in and they see her and then that daughter goes and sits down by herself and the mother does not even ask for her to come and set with them.
They are there in that building for 3 hours and not once does that mother come and ask the other daughter to come set with them. (Because daughter A does not like Daughter B should the mom be picking sides?)
The daughter that sat alone finally got up and told her mom that she was dirty for being this way to her and her mom was speechless and turned around and walked off. There was only one table in between the mother and the daughter.
What do you think of this? Should daughter B even have anything to do with her mom?
Thanks
2006-12-22 09:29:54 · 11 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The mom told another daughter the reason why she did not ask daughter b to set with them is because daughter a does not like daughter b (Let me remind you daughter B has done nothing wrong towards any of the family members and has always been treated like the black sheep of the family)
The mother did she daughter B and did not even bother to speak let alone ask did she want to join them.
2006-12-22 09:39:06 · update #1
Note to add: The mother has her picks among her kids. Is that even right?
2006-12-22 09:40:12 · update #2
Wow...sounds pretty disfunctional if you ask me...and since you did, that is my answer!
2006-12-22 09:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by tellme 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that both the mother and daughter B (ha ha) are at fault here. Why should either of them have gotten up and sat together. They should both come to each other. In any relationship, whether it's mother/daughter, boyfriend/Girlfriend, friends, it should be 50/50. And regardless of what your mother or daughter has done to you. That woman will FOREVER be your mom, the one that brought you into this world, and that girl will FOREVER be your daughter, no matter what she does. The mother should never pick sides between children. Sure some kids are more rebellious than others, but the mom should treat each child equally and with as much love as any other child regardless of what they've done.
2006-12-22 17:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they were sitting only a table apart, so if the mom didn't see her other daughter, then the mom definitely is picking favorites in the family. And, if the mom was speechless, it means she probably was ignoring her on purpose, or would have ran after her other daughter and apologize. I don't think the mom is treating her daughters properly, but both sisters have to learn to get a long as well.
2006-12-22 17:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like mom and daughter A went to bingo together. Then it sounds like daughter B shows up to try and start sh*t because she is jealous. Maybe daughter B should mind her own business and make plans with mom that don't involve daughter A. Poor mom did a poor job of raising a couple of spoiled brats. Poor, poor mom.
2006-12-22 17:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Daughters should keep in touch with their mother's. If the mother is playing favorites and allowing her daughter's to be separated, she is wrong and irresponsible. The sisters are all each other has. What happens when the mother dies? Will her dying wish be that she wished she had two daughters who love each other?
2006-12-22 17:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the daughters should be ashamed of themselves for acting this way and putting the mother in this position...she can't make either of the girls do anything...she was in a no win situation and the girls are blaming her....grow up...
2006-12-22 17:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't know the reasons they're not speaking I really can't say.
2006-12-22 17:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever. thats just typical broad stuff. Women shouldnt even be allowed out of their cages much less going to bingo.
2006-12-22 17:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Helenp 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ohh sounds like my family!
2006-12-22 17:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, your family is really messed up. i would run away and get into porn
2006-12-22 17:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋