What does everyone think about the way i feel right now?

Question

around a month ago i came home to my house and realised everyone apart from me was at it , and while sex doesn't bother me so much the fact that i am and always have been due to circumstances alone bothers me i don't always agree with my housemates on everything we're very different pepple and with 9 of us sometimes it feels very much like i'm being ganged up on, but i'm so sick of being alone all i really want is that bit of human kindess that one person we can go to anytime just to be told its okay because they feel the same too...like sometimes i wish i just had someone to sleep next to just to know i'm not alone



i am straight btw and do have some friends just not people i can go to 24/7

Answer 1

There are nice partners out there, they are just few and far between. I found a nice woman and married her. You can do the same. Bypass the superficial stuff and search for someone with a kind heart.

Answer 2

Hebert

It can be tough being homosexual in a house of straight men. Have you tried gay bars? Or those adverts you see on TV with the hunk exercising his biceps and chatting up some guy on the telephone? I hear that the gay scene is very sex orientated, but some men do manage to have meaningful relationships.
What ever you do, DO NOT ask to share a bed with one of your male housemates when you are feeling in need of a cuddle, if they know you are gay they may think that this is a come on.

Good luck - I am sure that there is a man out there for you somewhere.

Answer 3

This is going to sound corny, but it is very much true, call your Mom. She will always be your best friend, unless she is a smuck type of mom, or, hopefully not the case, has passed on. She could give you some insight into how you can move yourself out of this position in life. She would know how you came to feel this way, and the best way for you, as an individual, to get out of it. You are in a rut.

How about moving in with other people that have a few more moral values and don't just copulate all the time?

Answer 4

omg, Sexykitten, I hope your answer was a joke...

Herbert, dude....

Your feelings of loneliness are normal. Happens to the best of us. Your "social" housemates activities are only going to misguide you. Rest assured that when they are done with their fun in their respective rooms, if they aren't with a person they actually care about, they too will experience that same need for companionship that you are now. The best thing for you to do is live your social life like you normally would, assuming you aren't a recluse. Eventually you will meet someone you can care about and who will return the sentiment. Just don't rush because you're lonely now. Two bad things can happen... you will settle for someone who isn't worthy or you will move too fast and scare them off. Just relax, share your feelings with friends so you don't bottle them up, and let stuff like this strengthen your character.

Answer 5

Isn't it a stupid world where there are millions of people like yourself who are single and want to find someone special but it never happens?

I know loads of single people particually guys who are finding things really difficult, 2 of them very successfull with their own house, nice cars, etc yet they just can't meet the one.

These are nice genuine blokes, decent looking, i just don't know what's going wrong for them.

You just need to recognise your one of all these millions and get yourself on the market, try and go to pubs, clubs, take an evening class, just anywhere where you might meet people.

Here's a good idea if you have the guts and that's just saying to friends (particually females) that you are single and looking to meet someone, do they know anyone who you would get on well with?
Suddenly all these names will come out from nowhere, dinner parties arranged, nights out with a group of people where the prospective partner has been invited.

I've just split from my wife and could see myself in this position one day, i also have friends but no best mate anymore after moving so many times. It makes a huge diffrence to have someone you can rely on as support and get you back out there.

I think i'd go for it on dating sites too, just to see what could happen as there seems an awful lots of single girls trying to meet mr right too.

Answer 6

Oh! sweetheart, how you must feel, it doesnt just happen to young people babe, I am nearly ready for getting my pension and feel so lonely, I am not just some old biddy, I still feel 21, I love a laugh, a drink, everything. Someone will come your way babe and you will laugh at what you are going through now. We all need to talk to a special person and someone to cuddle up to and love. It will happen for you babe, in the meantime if you want to chat just chat to me, I can laugh and tell jokes everything, [e-mail]

Answer 7

Do you know that loneliness is a form of torture. It's one of the reasons they put people in solitary confinement in jail. I used to have anxiety attacks whenever I was alone. I know this might sound a little cheesy to some but I started going to church and I found that even when I thought I was totally and utterly alone w/ no one in the world to care for me or even mutter my name, I really wasn't alone. I was never alone.

Answer 8

oh my god
hit a chat room or go to the nearest street corner and get a girl just find something else to post about some of us are serious yahoo q+a holics and we need fresh questions to justify being up till 4am1

Answer 9

oh bless you, i know how you are feeling trust me i've been thro it before. It will get easier, try not acting so desperate and i promise u will find the 1 soon. good luck babe and don't worry too much k x x

Answer 10

yes