i get on well with all my children they are 13 16 and 18 she wont let me see them to be spiteful i used to have them evryweekend i still see the oldest to0 but she doesnt kno tht she is now remarried i havent seen my youngest for 3 yrs and i have done nothing wrong please help
2006-12-22 09:46:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's horrendous - do you think she has pressure from her 'new' jealous husband?
Tell her you made the children - nothing can change that and you are robbing the children from seeing their proper Dad.
Say that if necessary you can make things unpleasant but would rather not for the sake of our children.
2006-12-22 09:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Isabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is in violation of a court order or visitation agreement, petition the court. If not, the children are now old enough that a court advocate to represent them can be appointed to evaluate what the wants and needs of the children are. Check the internet for the family court in your area and call or visit. You should be able to peition without paying for a lawyer and the advocate representing underaged children should be at no cost. The kids are old enough to be interviewed by the judge.
If there is a domestic violence, drug or criminal history , or a restraining order against you, you may have to approach it a different way.
2006-12-22 09:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two oldest can make there own mind up so make it easy for them to see you,
If you live in the same town make yourself easy accessible i.e. say I will be sitting in this cafe every Friday from 4 til 8 if you wanna come for a coffee and a chat.......send them bus fare just make it easy for them........if they don't turn up something must of offended them....
As for the youngest you will need to go to court but even then if she does not want to see you how do you force her at 13 years of age..........
I think the mum is disgraceful for doing this, she obviously have not got the children's best interests at heart.....
Remember teenagers a very busy people just be there when they are ready..........
2006-12-22 09:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats Not Right unless the court tells you that you cannot see your children which I think is Still Very Wrong Because every parent should have the right to See their Kids. I'm Not So Sure But I bet If you go to the court and tell them that She's Not letting You see your kids,.. they will inform her saying that she HAS to let them see you. =D I hope everything works well =DD
2006-12-22 09:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♦Its•Possible•But•Not•Logical♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry to hear this from you, you must be devastated. If you see your oldest is he happy with you? If he is then just have a word with him. At the age of thirteen your youngest can actually request to go to court and demand that he either visits you or lives with you. I did this with my daughter-in-law, sadly she got pregnant at the age 14 with my son. She wasnt happy with mum and dad because they wanted her to get rid or give the baby away. I took her in and her father came and threatened me my son hit him but the police came and talked to me and her and said there is nothing we can do if she is warm fed and safe. Just have a word with your oldest and explain to him and perhaps your youngest just may come to you. Good luck.
2006-12-22 10:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop moaning and go to court then!!
Tell your eldest to tell the other two kids that you miss them and you are taking steps to see them soon by going to court.
And that's that!!! The court will not deny you access to your children. They are at the age where they can refuse to see you so you need to make primary contact through the oldest child so they know you miss them.
2006-12-22 09:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately the law wins in this one. If you really want to see your kids just go to court. Show her that u care about those kids and you want to see them. Yes it's unfair what she's doing but the law is on her side. Just go to court and get whatever permission it is u need to see them. Because in the end the kids will think that you just never wanted to see them. She's not going to admit to them that she just didn't let you see them.
2006-12-22 09:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Court or wait another 20 years.
2006-12-22 09:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there could be two sides to this story. Why don't you want to go to court? They're old enough to say what they want, anyway. Write them a Christmas card and ask them to get in touch.
2006-12-23 01:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should go to court and tell them whats going on .if i couldnt c my daddy i would tell da court myself!or u could have a talk wit ya baby-mamma and tell her how u feel about da situation!u a father that loves ur kids u should have da da chance 24/7 to have time wit ya kids.If i was u i would ignore da woman and spend time wit my kids and be a wonderful father as u r!
2006-12-22 09:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by alexis f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋