Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

a while ago, i posted a question on here which was explaining a guy's actions and what it could possibly mean. the majority of answers that i received said that he liked me. (i like him too). when we were talking a few days ago, he said to 'talk on msn'. but since that day he hasn't been online... what am i to think? in our conversation on that day, he asked me whether i was going away and i said yes... so i'm just wondering whether the reason he's not online is because he thinks that i'm away? ahhhh i really need help with this...

2006-12-18 01:32:28 · 3 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Singles & Dating

should i marry him just cause i love him trust him and dont think i want any one else. i love him with all of my heart and none of my friends lik him at all. he gets along with women and i get along with men but my friends think that he hits on all of his friends that are girls but in all reality he doesnt. he has told them all about us being engaged and if i dont like one of his friends then he tells her that they cant be friends cause i dont like her and leaves it that way. the one wont quit calling his phone so he just quit answering his phone and lets me answer. i love him and he loves me and the kids. one is his and one is not and he treats them just the same. he sees my daughter as her own and gets mad at her dad cause he doesnot want anything to do with her. its not my guy friends that dont like him its my girl friends the few i have. i personally think that they are jealous cause i am so happy. he is my fiance know and i love him with all of my heart and dont want to let him go

2006-12-18 01:32:19 · 31 answers · asked by angie f 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a good friend at work about a year ago we had FWB relationship but found out she was sleeping with a few other men. One of them was unavailable and had a girlfriend but I told him she was sleeping around. She cut off contact with me.

Two months later I contacted her by e-mail and phone to say I'm sorry and ask if we could be friends, I have never and would ever threaten her or call her names as I care for her too much. Now she has reported me to anti-social behaviour team for harrassment.

She has also told them that when I rang her at home I frightened the kids, which could be true but they have met me once or twice. She has also told them that we never had sex. Any advice on what to say?

2006-12-18 01:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi there and Merry Christmas to all. I was wondering what a good gift would be for my husband? We just celebrated our anniversary on the 16th and my birthday today and now Christmas is coming. We have two children and all our money is for them for Christmas. I want to get him a little something but want it to be special. I had a dvd made last year with family pic.s and videos included and had music put to it, it almost made him cry. It was really sweet. I don't know how to top that this year. I am at a loss. We are on a tight budget and he said not to get him anything but I wouldn't feel right with him not having nothing to open and our kids would notice too and probably get upset b/c daddy didn't get anything. Do you great people have any suggestions? I've given cologne and clothes and movies and cd's.... Can you think of something special that worked for you? I do love him so much and want to give him a special present.....Thanks and ho ho ho

2006-12-18 01:31:54 · 13 answers · asked by justwondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

has to be fine send a picture.

2006-12-18 01:31:26 · 1 answers · asked by Ms.B_011 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known a guy for years. He has been trying to get me to give him another chance but I never trusted him and have been avoiding going out with him. He gets a myspace page and they see that a person on his page is saying that they are engaged to him but at the end of the little "About me section" it says "Aren't I a stinker X". When asked about it he says that she was just joking and pulling a prank on him and is just a roommate. He tells me that he is going to be coming to my location in about a month (he travels alot) and starts practically demanding that the I for once be avail. to go out with him. I check the girls myspace page again to find that he is not engaged...but in fact very recently married! I quickly told off the guy but know that with his history there are probably a few others that aren't quite so hard to get to that he may be screwing with.
Should I tell the girl about they guys intentions now when they can annul or whatnot, or let her find out years from now?

2006-12-18 01:30:14 · 20 answers · asked by Askinqs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 01:28:20 · 28 answers · asked by recidivist 2 in Family

We recently got a new laptop....and now I am not letting him use it whenever he wants it...
My hubby always has dominated over me on every new thing we get...its by default for his use and whenever he is not using it I get to use it...
Sometimes i feel i should just let him do what he likes...and let him dominate or whatever cos i love to see him happy
Sometimes i feel I am just taken for a ride and should do something bout it...
This is not just about the laptop...but about anything... Am i being selfish here??

2006-12-18 01:27:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 01:26:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oh and it has been in the fridge for a day or two....

2006-12-18 01:26:30 · 19 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

would you guls wanna have sex with a stranger? u dont no the person, seen him once he winked at you takes you to the corner and ***** you in an dogy style!

2006-12-18 01:25:40 · 19 answers · asked by bbxx 1 in Singles & Dating

why does evertone care about religion we are all human beings put on earth for a purpose and its not for our religion!

2006-12-18 01:24:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been best friends forever and we recently started dating.We are both 15 years old.He told me to just get him something like a funny t-shirt or a $5 BEST BUY gift card.He likes paint balling and he is getting a X BOX 360 for x-mas. But I wanna get him something that really says "i love you"

2006-12-18 01:24:03 · 6 answers · asked by ~bitchcake~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I gots a boyfriend!! what happens next?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!??

2006-12-18 01:23:35 · 14 answers · asked by Candie 1 in Singles & Dating

DO U HAVE THAT ONE PERSON THAT IS KINDA SLOW AND DOES NOT GRASP THE CONCEPT OF THINGS AT ALL? WHEN U LOOK AT THAT MAN/ WOMEN DO U WANT TO JUST YELL AT THEM FOR NOT DOING THEIR JOB RIGHT? DO U EVER GET TIRED OF TELLING THEM THE SAME SH** OVER AND OVER AND THEY NEVER GET? IM GOING NUTS FROM THIS CHICK!!

2006-12-18 01:22:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years
and i really love him but i feel like something missing sometimes
i think the main thing is for me, is that my dad left when i was younger and other familys, and i feel like he is just going to leave like the rest of them, so i feel i cant get to close, can anyone help me get over this? becuase i know if i keep having this gap between us he will move on and find someone else.

2006-12-18 01:22:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 01:21:03 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 14 years.We have never gotten along and latley things have just been boiling over more and more.I just cannot see myself staying here with him much longer.However there are 2 complications,my kids.They are 11 and 13.He threatens he will take them and not let me see them.I only have a limited income and I don't want him to use that against me.He tries to buy them off.Most of the time he is a jerk to all of us,unless he is trying to get on their good side,he will buy them things.He won't pay bills,he never has,he works,self employment,he makes good money in the summer but I have never known how much.He has his money and I have mine.He knows how much I have and I pay what I can.I just want him to leave so I can get the divorce started.He is not going to leave without a fight and I want to make sure I have custody of my kids when it all goes down.I have the papers filled out but for the kids I am waiting until after Christmas.If you have any thoughts please share!

2006-12-18 01:20:49 · 17 answers · asked by ~~Brandi20~~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going with my boyfriend for a year in a half. We would have a really good relationship if he didnt sleep alot. We are both the same age (18) . I work he doesnt . When i go to his house all he want to do is sleep. When he comes to my house all he do is sleep. He says he cant help it. Its getting to the point that sometimes I want to leave him because of his sleeping problem but Im not because I love him. What should I do?

2006-12-18 01:20:29 · 8 answers · asked by sincereshay 1 in Singles & Dating

Though my second wife is ready to live peacefully with my first wife and is ready to treat her as an elder sister. She is even ready to embrace my kids from first wife. I have tried to reason out with my first wife that I am doing what my religion allows me, and I am not Cheating with her. Our Scriptures have laid down strict guidelines if a man wants to take more than one wife and that is he should not be partial to any one of them even equal to a point of needle, in everything,i.e material goods, food and clothings and even sex. Because Allah knows that He has created male with a polygamous nature and HE does not want that man should indulge in casual sex. But she is not open to reason. Please advise.

2006-12-18 01:18:59 · 30 answers · asked by sherebabbar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 01:18:55 · 5 answers · asked by Neeti 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend and i have very regular sex. probably better than regular. one night she told me that she actually went back to her place and "did it herself". i took offense to it because we had been doing it so much that in my mind she shouldnt need to go home and do it herself UNLESS she was unsatisfied with the sex. she said she was just still horny thinking about me. is this normal for girls to do or do you think theres a problem here?

2006-12-18 01:18:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him- he is well enducated, with a good job, my kind of sense of humor, very nice and respect me.

I like him and feel comfortable to be with him

But i donot like his facial expressions ( he is not bad looking ), or the way he talks - there is no phisicail attraction, at least from my side

Should I give us a shot- or should i tell him the truth i don't have feeling of him ( i know him for a month now)

2006-12-18 01:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by confusedgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

ok girls do u really care about size, im a virgin right now and i guess like all guys im a little self concious about my size i measured it when i had a hard on and its 7 inches is that good size or am i a little short?

2006-12-18 01:17:26 · 25 answers · asked by HanginByAMoment 3 in Singles & Dating

Husband "CR" was having an affair and asked me to leave. He wanted to be with this other girl, who I'll call "T". I took our 4 yr old son and moved across the US to his mothers house.(She invited us) About 6 months later, I found out I was pregnant. "T" believes that this pregnancy was hidden from "CR" and has called my daughter "the baby that shouldn't exist" and has even questioned the paternity. I've always had a problem with my cycle and had taken home pregnancy tests which came up negative. Regardless, I don't owe her any explantions anyway.
My daughter was born 3 days ago. "CR" and "T" intend on flying out here next month to meet his daughter. I really don't want this woman around our daughter after what she has said about her. To avoid conflict. my mother-in-law does not allow "T" in our home. Besides, she doesn't care for her either. Is there anything I can do to stop "CR" from taking our daughter to see "T"?

2006-12-18 01:16:23 · 5 answers · asked by Chub-a-lubby 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 01:15:59 · 15 answers · asked by Joseph Manners 3 in Singles & Dating

the boy and girl are in the forest and forgot way
they are do come forest .
forest are very very darkness.

2006-12-18 01:15:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 01:14:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 01:14:03 · 9 answers · asked by sara85blue 3 in Singles & Dating

okay, so i met this guy in a convention, (im just in junior high school) we are both from different schools, and different places...he asked for my number while we are waiting for the seminar to start. Our school and theirs are like.. line-mates or whatever.. So yeah, we started sending text messages to each other since the day we met, and after a month, he told me that he has these feelings, that he couldn't explain, and he also told me that everytime he feels like that, he's in love. so yeah, i feel the same way about him, too, and i also told him. but he's so far away....like, we're both from the philippines but in different cities.
so yeah, like 4 hrs away from each other. We've been together for 2 months now. and im kinda having a hard time having communication with him because im here in japan right now. and i found out that his past gfs dumped him..wow...his bestfrnd told me that when my bf falls in love, it's really deep..i dunno if i should keep him wit me, or break up..help

2006-12-18 01:14:00 · 4 answers · asked by kireiicutie 2 in Singles & Dating