dilemma with a nice guy?

Question

I met him- he is well enducated, with a good job, my kind of sense of humor, very nice and respect me.

I like him and feel comfortable to be with him

But i donot like his facial expressions ( he is not bad looking ), or the way he talks - there is no phisicail attraction, at least from my side

Should I give us a shot- or should i tell him the truth i don't have feeling of him ( i know him for a month now)

I want to get married , so thus he- but whenever i thought this is the guy i am ending up with , i am scared

I do still like the other guy , who i have too many chemstry with but i do not think he share the same goal , like marriage , with me

I am young but not too young - so very scared if i miss the first guy , i will miss the boat forever

Answer 1

It seems to me that you think he's too good to be true, so you're looking for a reason not to like him.

You have to admit, not liking someone's facial expressions is pretty weak. What if the shoe were on the other foot? You find yourself liking on this guy pretty hard, and when you express yourself, he say, "I'm sorry, l like everything about you, except how you move your face." "Oh yeah, your voice sucks too." I don't think you would like that.

If those are the only reasons you can give, you really have no reasons. IF you don't want to be with the guy, just don't. But don't make weak excuses.

Answer 2

Maybe you just met a good friend, not everyone you meet has to be a date.

Answer 3

and there you have it folks.

LOOKS....

THEN personality.....

Are you that vain my dear?

I hope you aren't the type of woman whose husband goes bald and leaves him cuz of it. If you get along with him, and he's a cool guy... how could his face repel you so badly?

Answer 4

He is not for you move on.Plenty more fish in the sea

Answer 5

He may be millionaire superman. If the spark isn't there, then it isn't there.