Family & Relationships - 16 December 2006

OK so my ex- boyfriend is 25 and I'm 21. We dated for a month then HE ended it saying that he's "busy". Our relationship was very innocent, it never went past kissing cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. Neways, we both go to the same university, I'm an undergrad while he's a grad student. I was crossing the street and he called my name and we talked for a bit. At the end of the conversation he asked me "to give him a shoutout if I ever wanted to "hang out". I said said bye & walked away. That was a month ago & he never brought it up even on msn, thus I thought it was just fake. Today I got the biggest surprise, I logged on msn and he said hi right away. He asked me my plans for the winter break & I did, then he told me that he's gonna have a long break & travel. Then he said "we should meet up". I said sure & he asked me when was good for ME, I did, & now we're meeting up next week.He said he'll call me the night before. WHY does he wanna see me now?

2006-12-16 06:15:58 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

Although romantic, it seems like kind of a selfish thing to do. It's supposed to be the bride and groom's special day, when it's supposed to be all about them. To make a big commotion by starting YOUR engagement right then and there seems wrong to me, so i would never do it. What do you think?

2006-12-16 06:14:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What is the best way for a guy to get your attention at a club?It always seems that us guys usually ask a girl to dance and if she does we think that she likes us.Ive learned that this is not ussually true.Ive also told my friends that just cause a girl doesnt want to dance doesnt mean that she is not interested.Is this true for you?Would you rather a guy ask you to dance or try to talk to you without rushing you out onto the dancefloor.Should we offer a drink or will it seem like we're trying to hard or just trying to get you drunk?Im single again and trying to meet new people.I guess I've had it too easy with my last two relationships because they persued me.So what do you think would be a good conversation starter at a club?Is asking your name to forward or should we try to say somthing funny?Should we catch you alone or when your with your friends?Please be Honest.

2006-12-16 06:14:47 · 7 answers · asked by Sincere923 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i broke up about a week ago and i need someone to tell me how long this will hurt, cause right now i feel like im dying

2006-12-16 06:14:10 · 15 answers · asked by gingerb 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and he is really cute. I want to let him know I like him, but I don't know how to flirt. After getting to know him, I might ask him out. The ? is how do you flirt?

2006-12-16 06:14:09 · 13 answers · asked by angel_in_pink 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 06:12:27 · 6 answers · asked by Gerard C 1 in Family

Would u ever want to go out with other girls at the same time but dont?

2006-12-16 06:12:11 · 11 answers · asked by C Fallis 1 in Singles & Dating

Answer 1:
Let's start with biology. The human body ( i.e. the female one) aborts 95 % of all perceptions by its own will!
By pure euthanasia! A stronger kind of genocide even Hitler decided!
It only counts errors in the genome, dificulties in acceptance and so on. No one can save a pure, holy, sniff, sob, yawn, crick, child from distinction, if the body decides: You, never ever!

Answer 2:
A child in the wrong environment wont have any chance at all, are you a sadistic ******** that lets his unwanted children suffer and die on the streets by a bullet, hunger, AIDS, drug-abuse, or pressed to prostitution?

Answer 3:
As there is no religion that is worth the dirt unde rmy fingernails, there is even no truth in all of them!
The moan if you abort a child, because it is then lost for their fund-raising. Nothing else!

Answer 4:
My god is the Universe in itself.
It declares: Go ahead and tell anybody that only the best ones will survive, those who are not fitted with the best genes will be e

2006-12-16 06:11:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to be able to lock my door,but my parents dont agree with letting me and the lock is already on my door but i cant use it and sometimes when they make me mad i want to lock it so they will stay out. what do i do?

2006-12-16 06:11:36 · 7 answers · asked by smiley_miley03 1 in Family

There's this one girl that I went to a party with a few weeks ago. But since, we've only talked twice, and when I try to talk to her, she ignores me. I want to know why she's so mad at me. But I also want to know....... am I free to date other girls or do I have to break up with her, or what? The party was our first 'date' and it was not even an hour and a half long. I didn't ask her out per se, but i just asked her if she wanted to go to that one party with me, and then I would ask her out afterwards, but now......... I don't know what to do. Suggestions?

2006-12-16 06:10:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Pros: smart, witty, always smiling/joking around and laid back when not in class or work, empathetic, leader, quick on her feet, talkative, energetic, versatile, honest, spontaneous

Cons: can't easily forgive others, sometimes sarcastic, a bit inquisitive, pick fights sometimes over little things, overanalyzing at times

2006-12-16 06:09:50 · 20 answers · asked by India 1 in Singles & Dating

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-16 06:09:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 06:08:27 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 06:08:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this boy that i know for a 1 year now. the thing is we use to go out when i fine out that he was two timeing me so i brokeup with him. but i was in love with him.he said that he was sorry and that he really care bout me.so i had sex with him fool i know but i did not know whot to do. now all we do is have sex an after sex he never call i know all me want for me is just sex and i should stop but the the is i don't know how to cuz i still have feelin for him. what to do help.

2006-12-16 06:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by bossy 1 in Singles & Dating

and put both legs over my head.

2006-12-16 06:07:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

August I met up with a old friend who I dated back in high school. He is in the Army. He use to be marriage but he no longer marriage. We had a lot in common now that we both are grown and have expericed life. Before he left to go to Afgahanistan everything was cool. We talk everyday about everything. The weekend before he left I talk to him that friday night and I havn't heard any thing from him. His father havn't heard anything. even on the weekend he came home to spend time with his family only his mom seen him. He didn't call to say bye or anything. We didn't have a argument or nothinglike that he just didn't call . I just would like some feedback on this. Anybody think he will contact again.

2006-12-16 06:06:19 · 5 answers · asked by teb 1 in Singles & Dating

- and I dont want to bring it up because people start asking questions and it gets so uncomfortable.

2006-12-16 06:03:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

weve went out to eat, bowled, watched movies...all the top things you do.. i cant think of something different... and something a guy would really injoy. please help. i wanna be creative..but i honestly cant think of somethings thats really interesting.

2006-12-16 06:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by amii. 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found out at work by one of my co-workers that my husband had an affair with her sister -in-law in the past. She mentioned that he never told her that he was married and had a child. He also had another affair with another women and decided to move out of state to be with her. He told my daughter and I that he was being trasnfered. My issue is that he has never fiancially supported my daugther in the past. I'm looking into filing for a divorce. He doesn't know that I know about these other women. We have been separated for a few years. He now calls me like nothings happened and get upset because my daughter doesn't care to communicate with him. He blames me for her actions. Should I confront him? or should I just file for divorcce without telling him anything? I'm just affraid that he will come back to TX and cause my daughter and I problems. He is a very controlling man with a short temper.

2006-12-16 06:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

any proffesionals out there?

2006-12-16 06:02:42 · 3 answers · asked by tadpole 2 in Singles & Dating

The guy I like wants to hang out this weekend and I'm excited, but his best friend asked what we were planning on doing (watching a movie at one of our houses) and he told me not to expect him to ask me out afterwards unless we hooked up. He said that's the way it works, you hookup first then go out and well, apparently the guy I'm supposed to hang with is expecting this but I have no idea.
I'm 16 and confused! HELP! What to expect?

2006-12-16 06:02:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone liked you, whether or not you liked her back, do you think its less akward to have her friend tell you she likes you?
Like younger highschool guys.

2006-12-16 06:01:13 · 3 answers · asked by Femi 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know how much more I can take.
My sister is the cruelest to me. She tells me
she hates me. She wishes I would die, she continuously beats up on me. She tells me how
basically that I am the equivalent of ****. If I get a compliment from a guy she laughs and says the must be blind. Anything I do is a mistake in her eyes and I don't know why. Honestly, I'm not trying to sound heavenly but I do nothing to her. I can ask her a question about the weather and she would rant about how much she hates me and how much I annoy her. She is the only person I know that has something negative to say about me and I have no enemies. When she hurts me I don't do anything back to hurt her and I'm fed up. I already have low self-esteem and I'm going through depression and Im recovering from cutting and she tells me Im crazy. And what hurts the most is I love her and care more about her than myself and she values material items and treats other who are mean to her better than me.
What can I do?

2006-12-16 06:00:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and how would you like me to do it?

2006-12-16 06:00:15 · 12 answers · asked by CoCo 2 in Singles & Dating

the way teen girls are dressing changes all the time. But why do girls want respect from guys when they are telling them ,by the way they dress, that they wish to be treated in an inapropreate way? Guys are stimulated visualy, so why do we get so confused when a guy treats us with disrespect or dont want to have a meaningfull relationship with the girl that they where showning so much attentiont to?

I know us girls want to look cute(for the most part)
but what do you think?
i have an answer in mind an im wanting to see what others have to say.
thanks

2006-12-16 06:00:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how many people have reported man by now?

2006-12-16 05:58:29 · 5 answers · asked by Zhukov 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok first off I want to say I have what is known as a "hypnofetish" I get really turned on when I watch someone being put into a hypnotic trance. You know the whole "Your eyelids are getting heavy thing" For some reason that is a huge turn on. Not the mind control part, just the sleep incuding. Ok..well I was talking with one of my friend who I work with as a tutor and we got to talking about hypnosis. She really wants to be hypnotized and wants me to do it at a party (I've studied it a lot) we are having next week. The question is should I do it? She has no idea about my fetish and i worry it would be like taking advantage if me hypnotizing her turns me on. I also have a bit of a thing for her, shes smoking hot. All I would do would be some fun routines, (forgetting her name etc) amd then I would wake her up, but it feels dirty if I am turned on by it.It would be like if I had a thing for feet and gave her a fott rub. So..what should I do? If you need more info just email me. thanks

2006-12-16 05:58:02 · 2 answers · asked by johnnycobracage 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-16 05:57:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girlfriend turns the thermostat up so high that staying in my own house becomes unbearable? Is it hormonal or what? Isn't it nice to feel a little cool?

2006-12-16 05:57:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating