I don't know how much more I can take.
My sister is the cruelest to me. She tells me
she hates me. She wishes I would die, she continuously beats up on me. She tells me how
basically that I am the equivalent of ****. If I get a compliment from a guy she laughs and says the must be blind. Anything I do is a mistake in her eyes and I don't know why. Honestly, I'm not trying to sound heavenly but I do nothing to her. I can ask her a question about the weather and she would rant about how much she hates me and how much I annoy her. She is the only person I know that has something negative to say about me and I have no enemies. When she hurts me I don't do anything back to hurt her and I'm fed up. I already have low self-esteem and I'm going through depression and Im recovering from cutting and she tells me Im crazy. And what hurts the most is I love her and care more about her than myself and she values material items and treats other who are mean to her better than me.
What can I do?
2006-12-16 06:00:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The problem isn't you, sweetie...it is her. She obviously has some issues concerning you and might be jealous of you in some way. Siblings can be so hurtful to one another. The thing you need to remember is this....You are a person. You have the same needs and feelings that others do. I believe that you should sit down privately with your parents and discuss this situation with them. Let them know how much this is hurting you. You will not be able to deal with her on your own. Your parents is the first place you should be looking for help. I assume since you have mentioned that you cut, that you are someone that has problems with depression already. Sweetie, if this is the case, maybe you should talk to your parents about getting some help outside of the home. Until you can speak with them about this, just try to avoid her and avoid conflict with her. You are giving her what she wants by reacting the way that you are.
2006-12-16 06:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she's jealous of you, and insecure about herself with regards to how she "measures up" to you. And the only way she can feel better about HERSELF is to knock YOU down.
Don't let it bother you. I know it's hard, but they're only words, and they only have the power to hurt you that YOU give them.
Realize that it's NOT about you. What she is saying is how she perceives HERSELF, and she's expressing her low self-esteem and self-loathing by taking it out on you. She's trying to convince HERSELF that she's worth something, and the only way she can do that is by making her seem "better" than you are.
2006-12-16 06:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well thats harsh but u should go 2 the conculer @ school and tell them but if nothing works then i would stay away from her for a REALLY long time just adovide her but if that dosent work either then mabye u should try running away BUT HEY DONT TAKE MT ADVISE IF U DONT LIKE IT but always remember dont give her what she wants be ur self
2006-12-16 07:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its obviously her with the problem... she seems to be jealous of you. Look NOTHING is worth cutting yourself. Dont let her get to you... i know your probably thinking "easier said then done".... but try.,... tell your parents and her.. maybe sit down and have a family discussion...if it is bothering you that much then let them know. take care..
2006-12-16 10:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by cleo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is the one who needs help. Dont ever let anybody make you feel bad about yourself, you should feel sorry for her.
Join church and pray for her. Try to stay away from her.
2006-12-16 09:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Caramel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can only hurt your feelings if you allow her to do it.Believe in yourself more then you believe her ranting.
2006-12-16 06:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents. Ask them for help. Don't let your sister do that to you.
2006-12-16 06:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feel very sorry for you...talk to your parents
2006-12-16 06:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by ashwin_hariharan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she always mean to you?
no one is closaer than family
2006-12-16 07:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sir. ChatsAlot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋