I just found out at work by one of my co-workers that my husband had an affair with her sister -in-law in the past. She mentioned that he never told her that he was married and had a child. He also had another affair with another women and decided to move out of state to be with her. He told my daughter and I that he was being trasnfered. My issue is that he has never fiancially supported my daugther in the past. I'm looking into filing for a divorce. He doesn't know that I know about these other women. We have been separated for a few years. He now calls me like nothings happened and get upset because my daughter doesn't care to communicate with him. He blames me for her actions. Should I confront him? or should I just file for divorcce without telling him anything? I'm just affraid that he will come back to TX and cause my daughter and I problems. He is a very controlling man with a short temper.
2006-12-16 06:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First things first, get the divorce rolling and get temporary custody or HE can come back and take your daughter and nothing can really be done. Let it go if u have enough evidence just let it go, there is no need for confrontation it will not solve anything. If you want him to know write him a letter detailing all of the information that you now have and express your desire to have nothing more to do with him! If anything happens after that you may have grounds for harassment.
2006-12-16 06:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce and get full custody especially if he hasn’t paid you anything the court frowns on that. Don't look back. Move out of state leave no forwarding address unless it against the law. But don't let him know where you are just a phone number.
2006-12-16 06:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you and him have been seperated for a few years,confronting him would do no good. you already know what a looser he is,I mean look how pathetic he is by not supporting his own child. I would file the divorce,and continue to go on with your life with your child and continue being the bigger and better parent.
2006-12-16 06:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by sr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
after you file for divorce, and custody/child support, THEN if only for closure, you choose to confront the cheating dog- be careful. I believe the judge who does divorces also can issue order of protection/ restraining order. good luck
2006-12-16 06:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl soCal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything walk away from this man, free your self file for the divorce, nothing this man does matters but you and your daughter... so if he did 100 women a day forget it and move on be happy and enjoy the peacefulness with your daughter... good luck
2006-12-16 06:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by mariposa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just file the papers. his affairs will not come up in the divorce so you need not make an issue of them. good luck.
2006-12-16 07:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get divorced and get custody of your daughter. Then let him know what a cheating son of a b***** he was when you were married. It'll give you closure. Make sure you get as much child support as you can. Hit him where it hurts the most.
2006-12-16 06:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
File for divorce and get temporary custody. Then, he can't take your daughter from you. If need be.........get a restraining order too.
2006-12-16 06:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lori 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and cuss him out good. Let him know you have a temper too and don't blame you cause he's a loser.
2006-12-16 06:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him. divorce works too,do both. move on.
2006-12-16 06:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by crazy b*tch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋