Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

I went to my buddies office to take him to breakfast and talk about the coming business year. His secretary (neice) hands me a box and says happy holidays! I thank her and then in the car I open the box and its a picture of her butt naked and a invite to call her for a "GREAT TIME"!
What do you suggest?

2006-12-15 02:47:42 · 8 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 02:47:05 · 8 answers · asked by seek 1 in Singles & Dating

The divorce process started in October and will end in a month. Meanwhile, my Mom has left the country with me and my brother. She has just found a boyfriend (which is NOT the reason she divorced, supposedly). She's asking for us to keep it a secret from my Dad and grandparents. My mom says it's because she doesn't want to hurt my Dad's feelings, but I'm not so sure. I really really want to tell my Dad because I hate it when we have secrets. I also want to prove that I still love my Dad even though my mom has a boyfriend. Next week I'm going to spend a week with my Dad, and my mom has asked me not to mention anything about the boyfriend. My questions are: Should I tell my Dad? and If I told my Dad, would it make a difference in the court and all?
And just to make it worse, my mom left my Dad because he had a girlfriend. So it can't be that bad if she has one before the divorce process is complete, right?

2006-12-15 02:46:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 02:46:17 · 31 answers · asked by skyking331961 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm kinda seeing this one girl, and on our first date we talked non stop. but when i call her, and i've called her like 3 or 4 times, she just doesn't say anything. everyone tells me she likes me, and she said she did. i just wanna know why she doesn't say anything on the phone.

2006-12-15 02:45:51 · 9 answers · asked by final_blink_fan11 1 in Singles & Dating

Am I just a worry wart or should I tell her to stop. she says its not sex cause the clothers are on and it reminds her of growing up with her three jock brothers. sometimes on poker night two or three of my friends will wrestle with her at once. When I join in she gets mad. she says i am her boyfriend and she doent feel like i am one of her brothers. one time my friend was wretling with her and my girlfriends face got all red and her breathing weird and so i pulled my friend off her but she yelled at me and ran out the room. she says i should be happy she gets a long with my friends, but am i a worry wort???

2006-12-15 02:45:48 · 16 answers · asked by smarty_mcsmart 1 in Friends

We have been having a debate about spouses cheating. I believe that generally speaking that a woman will not cheat unless she is unhappy in her marriage. Most people seem to agree. However, about men, I keep getting conflicting answers. Some men say that all men will cheat if given the opportunity whether they are in a happy marriage or not. Others say that they would not cheat unless they are unhappy at home. So, what is the truth? And if the truly happy man will cheat, WHY???

2006-12-15 02:44:39 · 36 answers · asked by jacemo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 02:44:23 · 7 answers · asked by seek 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

in either the giving or receiving side of a "mercy" screw"?

How did that make you feel the next day?

2006-12-15 02:44:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAT DO I DO?

2006-12-15 02:42:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 02:40:03 · 53 answers · asked by Peace 2 in Singles & Dating

my man of five years always goes over his boys house to chill which dont bother me and his boy that lives there just had a baby a year ago by this girl that lives at the house to. Her and her b/f arent in a good relationship with each other. So she talks to my man and telsl him all of there relationship problems and he helps her out with them. I confronted her about it and asked why does she have to find in in my man to talk about her problems with. She told me that her and my man are becoming good friends because she can talk to him about her problems but she said she didnt like my man there just friends. She texts him about it and talks on myspace about it. But see he erases the messeges and i never get to see them. She says that her man sees all the messeges that they send and she said nothing is going on. But its really bothering me that she finds kind of confort in him to talk to him about her problems alot you know? I dont know what I should think! HELP PLEASE!!!

2006-12-15 02:39:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I deal with my mother in law and her gossiping ways? She's not trying to hurt people on purpose because she's also shared her personal problems to everyone, but it bothers me that she gossips (even the bad things) about my future brother in law and his girlfriend and her parents, etc. and everyone else to me. My mother always told me that if someone is gossiping to you about someone, they are doing the same to you behind your back. I fell for her "you can talk to me anytime about anything" and had me and my fiance's business spread throughtout the whole state of LA. We've worked out our problem months ago, and she's still bringing it up to people! I've overheard her myself. I don't tell her my problems anymore, I'd rather come on here and vent if I have something to say or talk to my fiance'. He's very quiet and reserved, so am I. How can I let her know(respectfully), that I don't want to discuss or hear about anyone's business (especially if it's bad)??

2006-12-15 02:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by Valentine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for a very long time. Through the years my wife has done and said some screwed up stuff both emotionally and financially. Right now I'm devastated by some things she's done with our money, without out my consent. It's not just that but LOTS of other stuff over the years. I would leave her tomorrow but I don't have the $$ to afford a lawyer. When I think it's getting better she does soemthing else. I don't want to be an old man looking back on my life and regretting all of this crap. I love her because she is my wife and we have kids together. But besides that there have been times when I never cared to see her again. This isn't like me because I'm a easy-going peaceful person who want's more out of life. There are about a hundred scenarios I won't go into but this has gotta end. I don't think I'm being selfish. Everyone is entitiled to peace of mind and happiness. In a divorce I'll probably lose my shirt. But the way I feel, it'll be worth it.

Any Advice

2006-12-15 02:39:23 · 18 answers · asked by Nash M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm going on a trip to the beach with my new girlfriend (3 mos) and she bought me a speedo for the trip.

Should I wear it? I have always thought that speedos were a no-no. It gets worse, I have a SMALL Package, so the speedo would only make me look worse!!

What should I do?

2006-12-15 02:39:02 · 23 answers · asked by superfastbob 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I decided to tie the knot after getting a sweet little babygirl. She invited me to move in with her family since she has a steady job in her hometown but I am still trying to get a transfer. Her Dad detests my stay there and often sneers at me, even mumbling some invectives within my earshot. He's really getting on my nerves but my wife says that that is his usual attitude towards people he's not used to, and that eventually he'd get used to my presence. How should I deal with the situation?

2006-12-15 02:38:59 · 10 answers · asked by ari-pup 7 in Family

OK, Ladies! Women! Females! I'm almost 5'2" and 110 pounds. I've been dating a very sweet giant for a while now. He is 6'4" about 240 rock solid. Well, things were starting to get a little hot last night and that is when I noticed he basically has a third arm, and it's not in his shirt. I'm no newby to sex but I'm acutally terrified. Have you ever broke up with a guy because sized does matter? Please serious at least semi-serious replies only.

2006-12-15 02:38:28 · 8 answers · asked by Becky 5 in Singles & Dating

I just don't get it.

2006-12-15 02:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by godiva 3 in Singles & Dating

I am not really that good at giving a guy head but my Boyfriend always wants me to do it. what can I do to improve and make it more pleasurable for him? I am just not sure of myself in that department.

2006-12-15 02:37:22 · 10 answers · asked by Sexy Blonde 1 in Singles & Dating

I talk with this guy everyday mostly e-mails and some phone time. We have had a sexual encounter after talking on the phone and emails for a month. Now we talk even more and hes running up hundreds of dollar phone bills.. When i try to ask him something like to u miss me or something he changes the subject. Its messing with me mentally. Can anyone help me here? does he like me or is this a man thing? to try to get u in bed

2006-12-15 02:37:00 · 2 answers · asked by brandala 1 in Singles & Dating

For example...if your at a bar with your bf and another guy hits on you? Is it sexy if a guy fights for you?

2006-12-15 02:36:15 · 16 answers · asked by smithduq 1 in Singles & Dating

See He calles me atleast 5 times a day when I'm at home and about 10 when I'm somewhere with my friends.It's really beginning to get to me and I've tried to tell him but he's very sensetive and I don't want to hurt his feelings.What should I do?

2006-12-15 02:36:05 · 6 answers · asked by Dannylvr 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 02:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf broke up with me b/c he found out i was talking online with other guys and we cant get back together until i stop but i don't want to stop and i love him?

2006-12-15 02:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think about my girlfrein all day long ....but we are togheter just from 2 day's ago . How do i know that is it love ?

2006-12-15 02:33:44 · 7 answers · asked by Zero Cool 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 02:30:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee suggested me yesterday not to do a wedding reception considering our budged (2,000), we made a guest list 2 months ago & ended up with 100 guest most of them common friends, I have no family alive, just 2 uncles and a cousin all I have for family is mostly my friends, he will have his closest family (mom, sis, bro) in town that day. He suggested just family going to a nice restaurant after, I understand his point and I would like to agree with that but I also would like to spend at least some time with my friends also. If we are getting married in the beach is it OK to invite 100 people just to a ceremony? would that sound rude to them? What is the best I can offer them a public beach? can I bring cocktails? or should I just strecht 2000 into a reception?, I would like to be close to my friends that day and have them enjoy it with me even with no reception and do something nice that I will remember forever. What should I do?

2006-12-15 02:28:50 · 24 answers · asked by Marisa 2 in Weddings

Story, please.

2006-12-15 02:27:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it has to be something she could really like (she's mexican)

2006-12-15 02:27:45 · 16 answers · asked by Cecilia H 1 in Friends

I'm an attractive guy with a great career but I will only date women with who have sexy feet...If they aren't into this passion of mine ...the relationship is doomed for failure
What do think?...nuts or what?

2006-12-15 02:27:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating