Am I just a worry wart or should I tell her to stop. she says its not sex cause the clothers are on and it reminds her of growing up with her three jock brothers. sometimes on poker night two or three of my friends will wrestle with her at once. When I join in she gets mad. she says i am her boyfriend and she doent feel like i am one of her brothers. one time my friend was wretling with her and my girlfriends face got all red and her breathing weird and so i pulled my friend off her but she yelled at me and ran out the room. she says i should be happy she gets a long with my friends, but am i a worry wort???
2006-12-15 02:45:48 · 16 answers · asked by smarty_mcsmart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friends are trying to get with your girl, your girl needs to learn to keep her hands to herself. She don't need to be wrestling your friends all the time, and wont wrestle with you. I grew up with 2 jock brothers and we wrestled all the time, but I don't go around wrestling my mans brothers and friends and stuff. Sorry but your friends like wrestling her cause they can touch her and it not seem like it's a big thing.
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2016-10-15 00:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to let other men put their hands on your girlfriend, especially in a wrestling manner, then you better be worried and it should bother. Don't be foolish, she might enjoy all the handling and rolling around more than you think. Only you should be wrestling with your girlfriend. Try some intimate wrestling with her. If she doesn't like that, I would be concerned about her liking the other guys wrestling with her.
2006-12-15 02:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is totally innapropriate!! Lol, if shes your girlfriend then she shouldn't want other guys touching her!! Her three jock brothers?! Please...sounds like your girl is looking for excuses to let your friends feel up on her. She is way out of line! I would tell her to stop and respect your feelings, or find a new girlfriend. Good Luck!
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2016-05-17 16:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by richard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is a FREAK. I grew up with 3 older brothers and a very athletic dad. I NEVER wrestled with any of their friends. EVER. Find a new girlfriend who is happy to TALK with your friends and doesn't have the need to wrestle with them.
2006-12-15 02:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by heyhoppinchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her that even though she sees them as her "brothers" (which I DOUBT) that they don't see her the same and they are just trying to cop a feel. That is very inappropriate for her to be wrestling with your friends. Or maybe you should ask you friends to stop- maybe let them know the next time it happens you are going to join in for sure and it wont be pretty. ;)
2006-12-15 02:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i definatly think you have a right to worry!! if this girl truely wants to be in a relationship with you then she has no right to wrestling around with your friends especially in front of you!! its disrepecting you and the relationship and making your friends think they can mess with your girl. so you need to sit down and talk to her about it. tell her how bad it makes you feel to see her doing these things with her friends and her thinking she can't wrestle with you instead. thats why you have eachother!! so you can act goofy together and mess around!! tell her you are glad she doesn't think of you like a brother but she needs to keep the rolling around to the two of you. if she can't respect your wishes then i'm sorry but you need to let her go. it takes respect not just love to hold a relationship together and it has to come from both ends not just on your part. ask her how she would feel if you were always wrestling around with her friends in front of her, then maybe she will get the picture. let her know you love her and she means alot to you but you can't be disrespected anymore. and let your friends know as well that them doing this direspects your friendship too and your not ok with it!! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-15 02:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to grow up and stop. Your friends are not her brothers and she should go wrestle with them. Eventually they'll start wrestling and feeling on her and you'll be really pissed off. If she can't handle you wrestling with her then she should not be comfortable with YOUR friends.
2006-12-15 02:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would believe her that she does just see it as innocent horseplay. If anyone thinks anything sexual about it, it's your buddies. I'm not saying you shouldn't try to stop it, but I wouldn't bust out your girlfriend on it. I, too, was a girl who had pretty much all guy friends, so they didn't hide much about their perverted views of women around me. I'd tell your "buds" you're getting ticked.
2006-12-15 02:53:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋