Please tell me your opinion please!!!?

Question

my man of five years always goes over his boys house to chill which dont bother me and his boy that lives there just had a baby a year ago by this girl that lives at the house to. Her and her b/f arent in a good relationship with each other. So she talks to my man and telsl him all of there relationship problems and he helps her out with them. I confronted her about it and asked why does she have to find in in my man to talk about her problems with. She told me that her and my man are becoming good friends because she can talk to him about her problems but she said she didnt like my man there just friends. She texts him about it and talks on myspace about it. But see he erases the messeges and i never get to see them. She says that her man sees all the messeges that they send and she said nothing is going on. But its really bothering me that she finds kind of confort in him to talk to him about her problems alot you know? I dont know what I should think! HELP PLEASE!!!

I have known her for four years and didnt think that she would try and take my man, but now I just feel by my man helping her out like that she is going to start feeling something for him and he feels bad for her thats why he helps her, but see if i talked to one of his boys about my problems he would go crazy and wouldnt alow it. He tells me that he is aloud to have a girl as a friend but if i didnt it he wouldnt let me. But he goes over the house all the time and she is always there and she tells me how she talks to him and stuff like tahat but he goes there to hang out with her b/f brother. Can you please tell me what to think about all of this. Do you think something is going on??

Answer 1

I think your bf is probably flattered that a younger woman is so friendly with him. If something more is going on with them you should be able to tell if you watch how they interact with each other. Arrange a get-together; invite her and the son over for supper or do something as a foursome together. Observe how they interact with each other. Do they find reasons to touch? Do they laugh at each other's pathetic jokes? Just watch and see if your women's intuitiion kicks into high alert.