OK, Ladies! Women! Females! I'm almost 5'2" and 110 pounds. I've been dating a very sweet giant for a while now. He is 6'4" about 240 rock solid. Well, things were starting to get a little hot last night and that is when I noticed he basically has a third arm, and it's not in his shirt. I'm no newby to sex but I'm acutally terrified. Have you ever broke up with a guy because sized does matter? Please serious at least semi-serious replies only.
2006-12-15 02:38:28 · 8 answers · asked by Becky 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.... Go for it. I'm 5'1" and can't get my hand around my man. About twice as big as any guy I have ever been with (3 to be exact). If he is that big he will be used to going slow at first, but remind him anyway. I'd suggest you on top so you can do all the work. Well, maybe not all of the work but you can work up to it. Who ever said size doesn't matter was a fool.
2006-12-17 03:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by jessica a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, To be fully sincere right here... and that is what im doing! Size does topic. If u r a small girl, and kno (after tryn) that u cant accommodate him... u can rationale harm there. So many ladies say there is not any such factor as "TOO BIG". BS... Im five'three and wiegh a hundred and ten, my ex husband was once a foot taller.. and WELL endowed. It didnt paintings. No 2 ladies r alike, and sadly... a few r greater, smaller, deeper,or much less shallow. U will on no account recognise till u deliver the fellow a take a look at! If u discover it "uncomfortable", then u will stretch over the years. Don't simply anticipate that its now not feasible. If u "harm", see if u can potentially discover a extra accommodating function. Lying on ur again, or facet would possibly resolve the concern. Do now not take a look at "pup" or another positions wherein he's in the back of u till u kno what u can manage. If after three-four instances u hav no luck, u have to take a look at masturbating with a massive delicate rubber dildo till u can stretch urself out a little bit. If that does not aid... U could must take your next step. Talk to the fellow befor hand, or do what I did... hold relatively and scan the water. U recognise higher that any1 - what u can manage. And possibilities are - he recognizes the truth that he is massive. I severely doubt he is gonna take a look at it too tough or too fast the primary few instances..Good good fortune!
2016-09-03 15:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I am not a newby either. But, when I found out my new man had one bigger than I would have even imagine because truly...truly...truly...I would have never guessed even by just looking at the front of his jeans. That is how serious I am about it. Well, needless to say...I was pleasantly surprised at how gentle and wonderful the night turned out to be. Yes, I was sore for days but we don't do things anymore because we have decided to wait until we are married. But, point is....enjoy....take time, make sure you are well lubricated and have fun! wait a few days before doing anything again to keep from being overly sore and hurting.
Good luck and as they say...a BIG man IS hard to find!!
2006-12-15 02:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by T&E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very lucky you met a man who is very well endowed. If you're no newby to sex, you should realize doing it with a man who's packing should be quite exciting for you. If it's as big as you elude to, then this might be sort of like having your first time again.
I would most definitely NOT break up w/him because he's too big. If you DO, please send him my way!
Now if he was too small, that's a diff story.
2006-12-15 02:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I did not break up with him,but sex did hurt alot. It was not comfortable, word of advice don' t get on top, he will try to push you down it that is not pretty. missionary still will give you some space to push back or hold him back with your hands. Tell him your worries, I'm sure he knows what he has and you are not the first woman to hesitate.
2006-12-15 02:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.But if you tell him your worried about how things are going to work then maybe he'll take it slow and it won't be so hard on you(sorry no pun intended).But when that happened to me we had sex once and it hurt worse then when I lost my virginity so I couldn't do it again so I had to break up with him.But I was also young and didn't know how to ask him to be gentle.
2006-12-15 02:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess the only thing you can do is give it a try and if it just doesn't work then you'll have to decide where it goes from there.
Just let him know to take it slow, you don't want to be ripped in half.
2006-12-15 02:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Todd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter how big he is, as long as hes nice to you thats all that matters (unless hes a beater)
2006-12-15 02:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by LindsayLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋