my bf broke up with me b/c he found out i was talking online with other guys and we cant get back together until i stop but i don't want to stop and i love him?
2006-12-15 02:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a very possessive guy to me and it will only get worse as you go. Do you want to end up not being able to talk to anyone; never being able to go anywhere because he'll be mad if you so much as look at someone. Smile at a waiter, he'll be mad. I'm talking from experience as a friend of mine went thru this. The guy even moved her outside the city limits so it would be hard for her to visit her own family. Be careful.
2006-12-15 02:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him but need the companionship on online men, something is lacking in the relationship. Take the energy you use online and commit to your relationship, if, you truly love him. And make him a part of this. Let him know why you need this and how he needs to fill this void.
Reverse the situation and see how you would feel if he were talking to other women online...just as Friends.
Your question, I'm sure, would be much different.
2006-12-15 10:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may come across an insecure, but he makes a valid point. If you are talking with other guys and not willing to stop, then there is a problem. He has standards, and you don't meet them. If you love him, listen to what his concerns are and work on things together. Unless you stop talking to other guys, don't expect him to ever get back together with you.
2006-12-15 10:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by TCO_25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get over himself, you love who you are online and if he loved you he should be able to accept that part of you.
its not that you do anything, its all imaginary, have him go online with you and maybe the two of you can experiment online.
If he cannot deal with that you should try to find someone more enlightened.
2006-12-15 10:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by yeaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if it is your bf and you like him so you should go and stop him if there is a point in your mind that he is not good or etc then go and search for anybody else i know it would be a difficult task but do it and please send me your id if you can
2006-12-15 10:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by noni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you talking with other guys and what about?
You have to make a decision as to what is important
2006-12-15 10:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you won't stop then find a new BF
2006-12-15 10:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really do love him then you'll stop.
2006-12-15 10:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by cassandra c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all have choices to make. decide if he or your chat friends is more important.
2006-12-15 10:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those are his conditions ...............take it or leave it
2006-12-15 10:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Mary Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋