Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

i dated a guy for 4.5 years. he took me on alot of trips, bahamas 2 times jamacia once, newhampshire 3 times louisianna,niagra falls, thousand islands oh yeh and he bought me a car.. he broke up with me every xmas ,every trip we went on and every new year.every time i begged him to keep our relationship together and each time he came back after putting me thru hell. i told him in october when he was ready to leave me at 2 am on bourbon st in louisiana i would never beg him to stay with me again. 2 weeks before xmas he says he thinks we should break up and leaves me not to be heard from for a week.by the way that was my birthday when he left me. my son knows him as mr crabby pants.anyway i was finished regardless of the material crap.and i have met someone that is as crazy about me as i am him.i cant believe it can be possible to feel like this for anyone so quickly. i just wonder if it could be real. maybe i am dreaming after all the crap i am a bit reserved and dont want to mess up.

2006-12-15 10:49:54 · 5 answers · asked by kathynala 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok...Im sure there are gazillion questions exactly like mine but I want to type my sad little story out for everyone to hear. Ive known this girl this semester. I was introduced to her through my friend at church. I knew instantly that she was so cute and my type. I didnt really get to know her until about 2 months later when I went with her to the movies with 2 others (almost set up like a double date, but it wasnt). It turned out that me and her talked a lot and started finding out how much we have in common in our lives. I took her to a concert recently and there were times where she wasnt too attentive, but other times she was leaning into me whispering in my ear because the band music was loud and she would but her hand on my leg very lightly. Not provocative like. She smiles and she laughs a lot around me. We seem to have lingering eye contact a lot too. Im so anxious! Ugh! however, she i guess is trying to test me when she says some guy is "hott". Is that bad? I get annoyed

2006-12-15 10:49:41 · 2 answers · asked by wblack528 1 in Singles & Dating

Wut duz "Friends with beinfits" mean

2006-12-15 10:49:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

does anyone else think xmas is getting out of hand? i know it`s nice to give as well as receive but i have a friend and every xmas we always say we will not give one another anything as we have both got kids and other family members and the price of things as well, but last year she made me feel so bad as she came to my house at 10-30 pm with a gift for me and i felt real bad cause i never got her anything as we agreed not to, and at 10-30 xmas eve all the shops are shut , but i did feel terrible

2006-12-15 10:47:26 · 29 answers · asked by MAD FEMALE 4 in Family

It seems that I did not explain myself better the first time so let me explain again.

My question was: Would you say the truth comes out when an individual is angry or are they speaking how they feel?

Given scenario: A girl likes a guy for 2 months. They were friends with benefits. She asked him out, he said yea then no, and she was sad. Later she though he was still into an ex of his cause he was talking to her and was willing to beat up a current boyfriend of hers for doing something to her. Then she acts funny around him and seems like she was playing mind games. He doesn't call for a month and a half. She calls but he forgets who she was again until she said the last name. She calls back, moments later, angry and tells him that she didn't like the sex and she hope he jumps off a bridge and she felt like she was a therapist when she would talk to him. Was she telling the truth?

Funny thing: 2 years later she apologises to the guy and wants to be friends.

2006-12-15 10:45:59 · 18 answers · asked by tika ukie 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 50!! a ky woman!! no bar fly!! lonely!! looking for real love!!

2006-12-15 10:45:55 · 18 answers · asked by mouse c 2 in Singles & Dating

i am living with my fiancee and my dad cant stand him and my mom is out to state and she lyes to me over half of the time i talk to her what do i do?

2006-12-15 10:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Family

This man works for a different agency and is the liaison for my project. He works in a different city. In the last 5 months we have gotten close and have acknowledged we are very attracted to each other, but because I just got out of a relationship I did not want to get into another one. After flirting for a while I finally said I wasn't ready to date yet & so we stopped flirting. Now he no longer returns my phone calls on work related issues. When I call him to follow-up, if he answers his phone because he can't tell it is me that is calling, he always says he was busy. He has done this for the last five times I have tried to contact him on a work related issue. I find it hard to believe he is that busy because before we got involved he always called back on the same day. Could it be that he is really that busy & he can't call to say he is busy? Or is it more likely he is avoiding me?

2006-12-15 10:45:15 · 8 answers · asked by j t 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 10:43:53 · 21 answers · asked by doggypaws32 1 in Singles & Dating

can i be friends with you to.

2006-12-15 10:43:45 · 6 answers · asked by Angelica M 1 in Friends

to try new foods? especially cheese pizza!?!?

2006-12-15 10:43:10 · 4 answers · asked by go figure 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this beautiful girl at school that is fun to flirt with. We spend a good bit of time together(School,church). She is a little shy though and I don't know if it would work out if we started going out. I really want to give her a chance, but I'm scared that we wouldn't talk much, and I can't stand going out with a girl that won't talk to me. So plz give me some mature answers.

Thx for your time for reading this,

Jake

2006-12-15 10:42:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she has these pics of her and three guys "playing" around..2 guys and her at a time while the other guy took pics and then they would switch..by the looks of it..I talked to her bout it and she confessed that she used to be a "freak"...I'm really not sure what to think bout her past..but I was turned on by the fact I got a "freak" and said that we should do some "freaky" stuff, to which she kinda laughed and said that shes not like that anymore...what the hell??? Am I wrong for wanting to get freaky too??? should i be mad??

2006-12-15 10:41:58 · 2 answers · asked by kneelandbob69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-15 10:41:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My partner comes in and within minutes he's switched it on and he's away in his "other" world. He talks loud, shouts, swears, gets really p!ssed off, ignores me and our three kids. then has the cheek to wonder why the kids never go to him for cuddles and other stuff. he will sit playing it until 6-7 in the morning. then sleeps all day because he's tired. it's really starting to get to me and i was wondering if anyone else has the same problem or if anyone else feels the same?
please let me know because if it's just me then i think i'm gonna go crazy!

2006-12-15 10:41:51 · 8 answers · asked by acemum 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is horrible. She only wants my brother at a certain time of the year...like CHRISTMAS, or Her BIRTHDAY, or PROM...all she ever does is take. And she never gets him anything. He got in trouble by the law with her...because he went hanging out with her and her friends, and their not the greatest of people. They do stuff that he wouldn't usually do...And he acts rude when shes around. He had to do community service because of her and she dumped him and went out with someone else, through the whole time. Once his community service was done she was hanging out with him again. She doesn't support him. And yet he wants to go to the movies with her tonight...whats with him? I'm not trying to run his life...I just don't think he deserves to be treated like dirt. If you have anything to help me with please do!

2006-12-15 10:41:12 · 12 answers · asked by Me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Your teenage daughter has brought home a group of friends and they start trying out your clothes, accessories, shoes etc without your permission. What's the difference if you bring home friends and they start running through your daughter's clothes and let their children try them out??

2006-12-15 10:40:57 · 7 answers · asked by jumbo_dumdum 2 in Family

Anyone says, the one will come when you are not looking or focusing on something else. Well, I have tired both of those ideas and he hasn't come. There is this one guy that I know for almost certainly likes me. But, when I think he has gotten my hints that I am interested, he doesn't talk to me very long. I hate it when everyone says this. I am so ready for a relationship.

2006-12-15 10:40:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 10:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by Megan S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 10:39:41 · 6 answers · asked by Alaina 1 in Singles & Dating

If your male friends invited you to a "guys only" night to see a movie -- but you knew that the movie you were going to was one that your wife wanted to see -- would you accept the invite?

2006-12-15 10:39:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my dad said all i think about is myself but i don't and it really made me sad what do i do my mom
never called me mean names help

2006-12-15 10:38:53 · 9 answers · asked by zanreah 1 in Family

Personally, I feel that it is a little more accepted today than it was when my parents were kids but there are people in the world who still don't think that races shouldn mix but really can't give a valid reason why they shouldn't. What do you think?

I want answers from mature adults...pls no rude and/or offensive answers.

2006-12-15 10:38:52 · 12 answers · asked by Kokolicious06 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 10:38:25 · 4 answers · asked by mamapepinos 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay this is the deal, i'm married with a daughter but my husband has been gone for a yr for personal reasons, and i just found out my ex is in jail and i haven't heard from him in a long time he was like my first love and i want to write him to see how he is, but if my husband finds out he'll be upset. but then what are the chances he finds out and it's just a letter, what should i do?

2006-12-15 10:38:24 · 13 answers · asked by juicy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It's the holidays and I'm in a giving mood.

2006-12-15 10:38:06 · 26 answers · asked by ConstElation 6 in Friends

If your girlfriends invited you to a "girls only" night to see a movie -- but you knew that the movie you were going to was one that your husband wanted to see -- would you accept the invite?

2006-12-15 10:38:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

one guy seems shy and is always staring at me when he think i'm not looking and the other one smiled and stares at me.

2006-12-15 10:37:14 · 1 answers · asked by xcrunner3393 3 in Singles & Dating

my mom?

2006-12-15 10:36:39 · 20 answers · asked by beach_babe971 1 in Marriage & Divorce

(READ CAREFULLY) my friend (colleen) told me she likes dis guy (Marcus)...and if i can ask him out for her so i go to him and his friend(jerome) pulls me aside and asked me to go out with him ... the next day im in class and my friend (sasha) tells me that Marcus wants to ask me out but he doesn't know how.....WAT DO I DO
should i juss switch schools??

2006-12-15 10:35:49 · 13 answers · asked by Cutie_pie 1 in Singles & Dating