It seems that I did not explain myself better the first time so let me explain again.
My question was: Would you say the truth comes out when an individual is angry or are they speaking how they feel?
Given scenario: A girl likes a guy for 2 months. They were friends with benefits. She asked him out, he said yea then no, and she was sad. Later she though he was still into an ex of his cause he was talking to her and was willing to beat up a current boyfriend of hers for doing something to her. Then she acts funny around him and seems like she was playing mind games. He doesn't call for a month and a half. She calls but he forgets who she was again until she said the last name. She calls back, moments later, angry and tells him that she didn't like the sex and she hope he jumps off a bridge and she felt like she was a therapist when she would talk to him. Was she telling the truth?
Funny thing: 2 years later she apologises to the guy and wants to be friends.
2006-12-15 10:45:59 · 18 answers · asked by tika ukie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No she was just hurt and lashing out.
2006-12-15 10:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sippy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you hurt her by not remembering who she was, so she hurt you by saying she didn't like the sex. Sometimes people say things to cause hurt when they're angry, it doesn't mean what they say is true. My advice would be to choose friends and partners that treat you better than this, but leave it with her on good terms.
2006-12-15 18:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words said in anger are rarely the truth. When I'm angrey, I just want whoever I'm angrey at to be hurt right along with me. I saw vicious things, even if they are untrue. I would believe someone when there is an honest conversation going on, not when they are angrey.
2006-12-15 18:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by rainthatwalks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is both your's and her fault. She shouldn't had called and said those things. You should have been considerate of her. I don't think she was telling the truth, but she most likely was somewhat drunk or pissed off. And she apologized, which was nice. But, if you don't want anything to do with her, be kind about it. Cos, you already pissed her off.
2006-12-15 18:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like someone that got hurt in a friends with benefits situation. Most of the time someone always does.
2006-12-15 18:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes depending on the person they have to let go of their feelings and sometimes they express them in the wrong way. As in the story with the girl she didn't mean it it just hurt her feelings that he forgot all about her
2006-12-15 18:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by jasmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't understand all the FWB stuff...it is totally foreign to me...and sounds like a program for the desperate.
2006-12-15 18:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they are angry!
it's kinda like being drunk! Your true feelings are more likely to be blurted out in anger
If you are speaking about your feelings to someone else,.. more than likely you are trying to manipulate a situation
2006-12-15 18:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by hailey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
immature stuff! beating up people, jumping off cliffs? she's a nut case...but maybe she's improved over the past two years.
watch out!
2006-12-15 18:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... she was telling the truth.
2006-12-15 18:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋