i dated a guy for 4.5 years. he took me on alot of trips, bahamas 2 times jamacia once, newhampshire 3 times louisianna,niagra falls, thousand islands oh yeh and he bought me a car.. he broke up with me every xmas ,every trip we went on and every new year.every time i begged him to keep our relationship together and each time he came back after putting me thru hell. i told him in october when he was ready to leave me at 2 am on bourbon st in louisiana i would never beg him to stay with me again. 2 weeks before xmas he says he thinks we should break up and leaves me not to be heard from for a week.by the way that was my birthday when he left me. my son knows him as mr crabby pants.anyway i was finished regardless of the material crap.and i have met someone that is as crazy about me as i am him.i cant believe it can be possible to feel like this for anyone so quickly. i just wonder if it could be real. maybe i am dreaming after all the crap i am a bit reserved and dont want to mess up.
2006-12-15 10:49:54 · 5 answers · asked by kathynala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like the guy you were with before was a real @**-hole, please don't ever think about him again!
As for this new guy, it is totally possible to fall in love in such a short period of time. I think the first night I had a conversation with my now husband, I fell in love. I moved in with him in about a month, and got married 2 years later. When it's right, it's right.
2006-12-15 10:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by jayne_galaxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In just 3 days, you can't really know a person, so what you're "head over heels" for is your fantasy of who he is. Can it be real? Not yet. Could it turn into something real? Maybe, if you give it time to get past the infatuation stage, and to get to know each other as real people over time. Right now, it's either infatuation or lust, or a combination of the two. If it lasts, it's real.
2006-12-15 18:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by SL_SF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only possible but very common. It's called initial infatuation. It will last a few weeks or months or maybe a year. When it wears off you will know if there is really anything there.
2006-12-15 18:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible. But you have a son? I'd take it slowly because you don't just have yourself to worry about but also a child.
2006-12-15 18:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by leanne82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally possible go with your heart
2006-12-15 18:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋