i am living with my fiancee and my dad cant stand him and my mom is out to state and she lyes to me over half of the time i talk to her what do i do?
2006-12-15 10:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My dad did not like my wife, my mother was full of crap like yours. I owe them nothing, they owed me. I grew up left and let them fend for their own. My wife's Mother was always trying to stir something up. I have now been married 38 years. What they are doing we do not know nor care.
2006-12-15 10:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jimfix 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you attempted to talk to them or is it them?? You need to make contact with them now, it doesn't matter who likes or dislikes who. It doesn't matter what is said even if it is only a hi. If they don't respond don't give up. When the day comes that they are no longer around at least you know you tried. And that time could be tomorrow. Please don't wait for them to make the first move. I am talking from experience. My dad died from a heart attack when he was 59. There was so much to be said and waiting never brought the opportunity. Run to them, send an email do anything. It doesn't have to be much and maybe better leave your fiancee out of it. It is your parents and mending will be better without saying anything about him. Good Luck!!
2006-12-15 18:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you only have one mother and father-make ammends the best you can. regret is a terrible thing. maybe they are just afraid of losing you and blame him for taking you away. one day they will probably warm up to him. as long as you love him and he doesn't abuse you or anything, they really have no say in who you are with. let them know you want to be a part of their lives and them yours, but that they are just going to have to face the fact that you are planning on being with this man so they need to give him a chance. family is so special hope yall can work this out.
2006-12-16 03:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by tc381mc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get married make right in G-D'S eye then call or go to them and ask for a wedding . take the money and say thanks. if wealthy
2006-12-15 19:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is right, it doesn't matter what everybody else says.
2006-12-15 19:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋