(READ CAREFULLY) my friend (colleen) told me she likes dis guy (Marcus)...and if i can ask him out for her so i go to him and his friend(jerome) pulls me aside and asked me to go out with him ... the next day im in class and my friend (sasha) tells me that Marcus wants to ask me out but he doesn't know how.....WAT DO I DO
should i juss switch schools??
2006-12-15 10:35:49 · 13 answers · asked by Cutie_pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive been friends wit colleen for 6 years
i kinda like Marcus(hes really hot)
JEROME is hot too but hes so stupid
2006-12-15 10:46:05 · update #1
Stay true blue to your friend, Colleen. It's the right thing to do.
2006-12-15 10:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Big gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't betray a girlfriend's trust for ANY guy. Chances are, you'll date Marcus for a month or two and realize he's just an adolescent guy. You will have ruined a long-term friendship with a good friend. Guys are NEVER a good reason to ruin a friendship. Trust me on this one girlfriend!
2006-12-15 11:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is why being a guy is so much easier. Take the same situation except switch sides. Your boy likes this girl and you go try to make it happen for him, meanwhile her friend likes you, then you realize that the other girl likes you too. You tell your boy what's going and take one for the team, because you can date the friend in the short term, and then hook up with the other if things don't work out with your friend. My advice, do as the boys do.
2006-12-15 10:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by exqueezme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm... toughy... first u tell ur friend colleen wat jerome and sasha sed... den ask her if u can ask him if she wants to go on a double date... (but u huv to bring a guy dats just a friend and doesn't like u) and so u go wit ur friend colleen nd dat guy (say) Jerome comes nd u say that you nd Jerome are goin to get something ditch and leave Colleen and Marcus. But remember if u are going to do this. Tell your friend Colleen and Marcus first. So that she doesn't get mad. Just don't tell Marcus. hope it works Good Luck!
2006-12-15 10:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh the highschool drama...
you need to ask your friend colleen if she cared if you went out with him...if she has a problem with it you guys should just forget him and both move on..
No boy is worth losing a friend over....trust me..
Boys come and go but friends are there forever!!
good luck
2006-12-15 10:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow thats tough lol....hmmm. I would say talk to Marcus and secretly found out if he is interested in your friend. If he asks alot of questions about her to you, then you know he is interested. But if he is not interested in her, go after him for yourself. In the event that he is indeed interested in your friend, well then you have a problem lol.
2006-12-15 10:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by dude wheres my car 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
both guys want to date you so choose the one you like better but jerome seems like less drama since your friend doesn't like him
2006-12-15 10:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by breastfed43 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Switch schools for dudes? Don't make sense...ask her out for your friend, cuz you'll hurt her if you go out with him after she asked you to hook her up with him. Also, she'll hate you.
2006-12-15 10:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a 3 way.
2006-12-15 10:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well......if you friend is a good friend then yes friend,but......IF THE BOY IS HOT THEN GO FOR THE BOY !!!!!!! lol
2006-12-15 10:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by Yolexi C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋