Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

My fiancee wants to spend Christmas with his family bc he hasn't seen them in a year, and I want to spend Christmas with my family because we are moving soon. This is our first Christmas together, and I don't want to be apart. We are moving in May to live where his family lives. I feel like this is my last Christmas at home, and our first Christmas together, so we should stay here. I have no problem with him going to see his family before or after Christmas, I just want him here for that day, but he doesn't want to dissapoint them by not being there ON Christmas. I feel like I am leaving my family so he can have the rest of his life with his, and he should give me this one day. He thinks I'm being selfish bc he hasn't seen them in so long, and he's staying here until May, not January like his family thought. I want us both to be happy! Please help me! Any suggestions you have would be great!

2006-12-12 09:42:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

They can get laid anytime they want. All they have to do is breathe. I guess somewhere along the line I signed up for this 'man' thing.

2006-12-12 09:41:40 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked a girl out and she said maybe. worst thing ever. maybe usually means no. i asked why and she said she thinks of me as a friend. i've only known her for about 3 weeks though. i know she doesn't want to go out with me, but whats up with that.

the two things that burn a guy the most are the words maybe and friend. whats so hard with just saying no.

and why is it that some girls want to be friends and then date and then others don't want to be friends first, but a guy can never use the right stradegy with the right girl?!?!?!?!

2006-12-12 09:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by billywxyz 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know if you have fallen for someone online? Is it just me????

2006-12-12 09:40:43 · 29 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

Things to look for to know if a guy likes you: FEEL FREE TO ADD MORE
Keep an eye on how many times you catch him staring at you
Does he smile at you a lot
Does he focus on you in a crowd
Has he taken more interest in your friends
He finds reasons to call you to hear your voice and then he hates to hang up
He teases/gives you nicknames
Remembers little things you said
Eye contact when he talks to you?
He finds ways to be closer/near you like sit close
Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say?
Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello?
You say something unfunny and he starts laughing as if you're the funniest girl ever
He's always pleased to see you and probably misses you when you're gone.
He says you're just friends but if he wants to be your boyfriend he will be that 24/7 friend and a good shoulder to cry on. If you want to give him a friendly hug he is still being close to you and he will enjoy it

2006-12-12 09:40:33 · 9 answers · asked by India 1 in Singles & Dating

go into detail

2006-12-12 09:40:13 · 10 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello, back last month I had decided to take a trip home. I had planned this trip for about a month & 1/2 I mentioned this too my sister. Later my sister informed me some friends of hers were having a Anniversary party and she was thinking of going. I postponed leaving so she and I could go home together.

I asked my sister several times what were her plans, she kept putting me off with excuses ie: I can't leave until my son gets out of school, I can't do this, I can't do that etc, she finally said she not leave until friday, I was leaving Thursday as it takes 8 hours to travel to Ohio. On the day I was leaving I called her, and she asked me to wait, she was at work and could possiblely leave at 12:00, she had not packed she had not rented a car..nothing.

I was very frustrated and finally left and yes I left my sister at home. Should I now aplogize, for she accused me of "leaving" her and that this was "her" trip?

Remember, I was already going home.

2006-12-12 09:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Barbie doll lover 4 in Family

do u like to have your girls to be aggresive, shy, sweet, or wat?

2006-12-12 09:40:06 · 6 answers · asked by binky 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my cuz has two guys who want to talk to her but she doesn't know what to do what can i tell her. can she be both or pick just one???

2006-12-12 09:39:05 · 11 answers · asked by gisselldalatina 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, i'm one of the popular people in my school (ONE! of the popular) and I like this girl, but I'm afraid of what people might think about me and her if I make a move. What should I do I like her but it's like her or another girl.

2006-12-12 09:38:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Latley ive been blushing like MAD, and i never seem to do any work in class anymore....i just like to sit next to him!! I smile when he comes in the room, i like to ask him about things alot...i only get up the courage to talk to him right before the bell rings and can never carry on a convo..i go to his hockey games, i like to stand near him, i look at him a lot.....CAN HE TELL? that i like him. I am thinking about asking him to hang out sumtime...but would he be majorly weirded out by this? if he knew i liked him that much? is it just too much for him?

2006-12-12 09:37:31 · 10 answers · asked by kat 3 in Singles & Dating

Joking aside, my friend asked me tonight if I had found any man of late, both attractive and interesting, my answer was no! We are all good looking and independent in our own ways and interested in literature, film, eating out, politics and sport. Any ideas where we can hang out to meet eligible bachelors? We are from 24 - 27 years old and are pretty easy-going.

2006-12-12 09:36:54 · 13 answers · asked by misseliggett 1 in Singles & Dating

my roommate, former bf......he want's to touch me all the time, he tries to kiss me, he loves holding me, watching tv with me, always want to watch a movie and cuddle, looks me in the eye in a daze, initiate sex all the time (we havn't had any since moving in together now 3 months), he get's jealous when i mention some other guy...including p diddy, he said he loves when i cook potatoes, he likes hanging around me, but, he says that i am boring to ride with in a car.....what does that mean? and do u think that he is falling for me? do i have him

2006-12-12 09:36:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are so dramatic, and are just so demanding. This is my plan: I want to live alone, so i don't have to deal with nagging and little kids. I wouldn't want to share everything with someone else and live with someone else, because that is so creepy. Who would actuallyt want to share a bed with someone else? It is my life, and is about me, and not someone else. Love is gushy and embarassing, and is just pathetic. I am going to live my life in Hawaii and have a mansion and drink, so I can enjoy my own life. I will laugh at my friends when they get married and have kids and they are complaining. I don't see why people actually want to be in a relationship. It is just nothing but a bad commitment. I don't need sex, and it is not necessary for me. Love sucks. Ha ha. And I'm not 12 years old.And I gave up looking for a woman years ago, after I realized I didn't feel like asking a woman out. I had no confidence and I don't feel like fixing that. What is so fun about being with a woman. All i

2006-12-12 09:36:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to know what to do I am in the sevice and want to find a women that understands, has fun, and is just someone i can be in love with, I am definatly not ugly and of course not fat at all(if you workout harder then me then you are insane), i love to suprise women with roses at work and put my heart into gifts and do things outta the blue just becase i can make her smile. But being in the military i also am very busy and come home late and have to reschedule things for the life i live! I just want to know what to do ladys i feel like i just want to be loved and something in my life is missing. (im a 20 yr old Military man)

2006-12-12 09:36:07 · 18 answers · asked by US SOLDIER_LEO 2 in Singles & Dating

i need good news, or a comment or sumthin man i am going nuts here!

2006-12-12 09:35:57 · 22 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Singles & Dating

im 14 years old and im moving to ireland(dublin) i live in ny now. any suggestions?

2006-12-12 09:35:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This is the same girl I was referring to in my "Should I ask her out ?" question so read that if you want background information. Basically I just wanna know, cause she isnt the most outspoken person I kno so how exactly should I ask her because I never get much reaction from her on some things so if I ask her out, I need to kno how to phrase it. Since we hang out all the time, it would mean anything to her if I said "Let's hang out soon." or somethin.

2006-12-12 09:34:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband had an affair that lasted for 3 months. He left so many obvious clues, almost as if he wanted me to find out. During the 3 months he was a very depressed man. Always slept, lashed out and me and the kids, never ate. Since all came out he has never been a more awesome husband. He suggested marriage counseling and we have been going, and he has been very open to the counselors suggestions. He has been spending more quality time with the kids, helping me around the house I couldnt ask for anything better. However, Im still having a hard time dealing with the fact he went outside our marriage and told another woman he loved her. We are working on trust, but its hard. He is in the military and will be leaving soon for 8 months. Is it possible for me to get over the hurt? Do marriages really survive this?

2006-12-12 09:34:38 · 34 answers · asked by wiredangel24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think arafat was a real hero against us

2006-12-12 09:33:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey people.

me n my mum never have a day without arguing and shes the one with mood swings its like she has a dumb personality disorder one minute shes fine and the next she just argues over sumthin trivial n silly n she ends up makin it worse n i jus get rlly angry n start swearin at her.

i never use 2 ever swear infront of her but lately shes just been on my back for any little thing, for example if i tell her the night b4 ill b goin out somewhere , nxt day she'll be like where? u neva told me!! and then it all starts off!!

i rlly dont knw what the hell is up with her. once its been my fault and so thats y shes had a go at me, but its usually bcos shes jus ... i dunnoo she seems childish!! and it rlly annoys me that my mum doesnt even talk2me like a human being and i just cant stand being around her.

sori2take loads of ur time but its not like im gonna sit down with her with a cup of tea and talk2her, wont work!

any advice would b kool guys n girls.

2006-12-12 09:32:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my ex broke up with me recently about 3 weeks ago stating that he doesnt have time for a relationship. we have been on & off for the last 2years everytime he states that he doesnt have time for a relationship and that he has to many other things. he always ends up calling and we talk & then we will start hanging out again and end up back together. what does this really mean he doesnt have time for a relationship? should i just forget about him and move on or should i give him his time again & wait for him to come back to me again?

2006-12-12 09:32:05 · 24 answers · asked by x 1 in Singles & Dating

Like bad and now you can't bee happy because at that?...

2006-12-12 09:31:35 · 9 answers · asked by nena_en_austin 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my Fiance for 2 and half years and we both love each other. We have lived together pretty much the whole time. I have been faithful and loyal to her. I betrayed her trust by installing a key logger software on the computer and I found out that she was flirting with an ex-boyfriend on the internet as well as asking a co-worker out to lunch. She thinks that I cheated on her so for the last 4-5 months we have been trying to work through everything which has been a constant battle and I have been trying to do everything possible to show her ho much she means to me and how much I love her but nothing seems to work. It seems to me that at this point, she wants to end the relationship. I don't want this
because I love and care for her very much. Please help.

2006-12-12 09:31:01 · 6 answers · asked by troubled 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-12 09:30:45 · 20 answers · asked by kate 1 in Singles & Dating

...va-gina and pen-is at the same time, would you want it?

2006-12-12 09:30:37 · 10 answers · asked by june crow 1 in Singles & Dating

i had some friends that moved to oregon somewhere and i am not sure exactly where. is there some way i can search for then and find them, preferably without having to pay?

2006-12-12 09:29:40 · 2 answers · asked by anabelle 2 in Friends

Whenever someone asks a question about their husband or boyfriend looking porn, it seems as though it's not a big deal to anyone. I'm not saying I have never looked at it or I will never look at it again, (it can be quite enjoyable) but at risk of sounding like a hypocrite- watching porn is not a good thing.
When a man can sit in front of his computer and fantasize about women whenever he wants, what happens to his ability to relate to his wife or girlfriend in real life? I'll tell you what happens: A man loses his imagination, creativity, discernment when it comes to treating his wife or gf. Instead, he becomes insatiable. His wife or gf becomes less attractive and she's never in the mood (because a woman does not come with a mouse and keyboard). But those of you who wish, keep thinking its "normal" sit back, relax, and watch your relationships detiorate. No way can anyone convince me that porn will evolve a person in a positive way. What is everyone else's take on the subject?

2006-12-12 09:29:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with a man for 3 months. We are exclusive. We have tons in common. We have great conversation. We have great sex. The one problem is I just don't feel "IT"....I have warm feelings towards him and he is as sweet, lovable and loyal as I could ever ask for. He loves me dearly. Can this "spark" grow over time? I want to love him....I truly do.

2006-12-12 09:28:47 · 18 answers · asked by Genevieve 3 in Singles & Dating

She hates when I preach to her about how she's smarter than this & she should get help before things get so bad she's in over her head. It's just really hard. Ideas?

2006-12-12 09:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by MiLLER! 1 in Friends