I really want to know what to do I am in the sevice and want to find a women that understands, has fun, and is just someone i can be in love with, I am definatly not ugly and of course not fat at all(if you workout harder then me then you are insane), i love to suprise women with roses at work and put my heart into gifts and do things outta the blue just becase i can make her smile. But being in the military i also am very busy and come home late and have to reschedule things for the life i live! I just want to know what to do ladys i feel like i just want to be loved and something in my life is missing. (im a 20 yr old Military man)
2006-12-12 09:36:07 · 18 answers · asked by US SOLDIER_LEO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you join the military yeahh that kinda does control your personal life too. you sound like a really greta man and im sure over time you will find the woman that is perfect to you and will be able to adjust to your military lifestyle.also don't worry! your only 20.you have time to find love.
much luck to you!
2006-12-12 09:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by xo marie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all before you can find that girl your looking for you have to date them. And when you go on a date don't put your hole heart into right away. She may not be the one. It might be the 3 or 5 etc...one.Don't go by flowers on the first date or l love yous, that will turn off a person. It sounds like to me your desperate to full in love. And that's OK, just be careful that you don't get played. And don't go by her jewelry the first month. If it's chrism as buy her some good chocolate candy. Your only 20 there's still a lot of life. when at home alone read ten stupid things men do to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger. You can learn from that book. and when you find that girl who you love and want to really be with and she feels the same you and her can read ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships by Dr. Laura
2006-12-12 17:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really sound like a lovely guy any girl would be mad not to hook up with you and because you love giving gift and making a girl smile and treating her right she should understand that you have a busy work life trust me when you find the right girl you will know but don't let them take advantage of you with all the gift giving she needs to love without all the gifts with love linz
2006-12-12 17:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsay D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so cute, me and you are a like, I want a man that can give me flowers out of the blue and make me feel like the most important person in the world, I know it might sound kinda corny but I am a very romantic person like that and I think since your in the army and stuff the lucky girl you get wouldn't mind while you are busy, she'll be expecting you when she least expects it and she'll love you even more. Lucky for who ever gets to be your girl. : )
2006-12-12 17:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lilmamasita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you would be a womans dream females like that stuff and you sound very romantic im sorry you havent found anyone yet you just need to keep looking and remember that you will find someone maybe you can chat with some girls or something and let them know upfront about your situation and that you dont want a one night stand but someone that is going to stick by your side good luck in your search
2006-12-12 17:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was seeing a marine for awhile and I totally understood him being busy a lot, we pretty much just hung out on weekends,which is totally fine. You sound like such a sweet guy! I know how it feels to be lonely, I've been single for two years and it totally sucks, but there is someone out there for you.Good luck! If you ever want to talk email me at clabarre81@yahoo.com.
2006-12-12 17:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by CHERYL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm saying..i am single!! and i like to be surprised with gifts!! LOL!! but for real, there are women that have a problem with dating a military man, but then again there are plenty of women like me that would love the opportunity to be with a guy that sacrifices so much for his country. bottom line, you will find the one you are looking for!!
2006-12-12 17:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by felita2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you will find the woman of your life and some one who can handle your hours and everything dont give up
2006-12-12 17:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like the perfect guy to me. I hope you find the perfect girl! It will happen when you least expect it.
2006-12-12 17:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your eyes and heart open and she'll cross your path when you least expect it.
2006-12-12 17:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah Leigh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋