She hates when I preach to her about how she's smarter than this & she should get help before things get so bad she's in over her head. It's just really hard. Ideas?
2006-12-12 09:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by MiLLER! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She will stop when she's ready to stop. Just accept her for who she is. If it bothers you and you don't want to be around her when shes stoned, then tell her that you don't want to be around her when shes stoned. But dont judge her, its not your place. If you do this and she gets to a point where shes not into it anymore then you will probably be the first person she calls to get sober. Just be the best example of who and what a sober person is and has to offer.
2006-12-12 09:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to a school counselor without mentioning her name and they may be able to shed some insight. also, maybe there is a free teen hot line that you could call. my friend was on pot and i got really scared of her. people started to shun her. luckily she moved so i didn't have to really get into the situation. however she's gonna be back next year...
2006-12-12 09:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Chels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly she wont take help until she wants help to quit... and wouldnt it better if she never spoke to you again rather than smoking marijuana?? have you thought about telling her parents? ... pretty soon if you dont smoke with her she most likely wont be your friend anymore anyway... so I would say do what ever it takes to help her quit :o(
2006-12-12 09:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she's seriously harming her health and she's seriously damaging her inner organs and stuff. Try to make her realize that she's hurting herself. Hopefully she'll understand.
Basically tell her the negative side effects of marijuana.
Good Luck !!!!!!
2006-12-12 09:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So it comes down to whats the most important -- her health and well being or you losing a friend.
2006-12-12 09:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by Haven17 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people who have the same problem. If you really care about her more than you care about herself, you would get her help. If not, don't do anything. It's not your problem: it's hers.
2006-12-12 09:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell someone who can really help. she may be mad at you, but at least she won't be high and doing stuff that could get her into serious trouble.
2006-12-12 09:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by Fuzzyglasses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and... shes your friend?
one question... are you sure?
Cause friends "respect" the opinions of their friend ( even if they won't take it) and if she's ready to not be your friend cause you care about her... then END IT. (but first... tell her how you feel)
2006-12-12 09:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her mommy even though shell prolly hate you itz better than her dying right
2006-12-12 09:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by lilgbitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you try smoking with her.. then once you're addicted.. you can have fun together
2006-12-12 09:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋