Family & Relationships - 11 December 2006

My ex and I broke up two weeks ago, but its obvious that we still like each other. My best friend is a big flirt and everyone knows. She tends to go out with a guy then break up with him a day later. She knows I still like my ex. She told me today that she hated him and thought he was gross and would never go out with him. She also said that she was flirting with him and said she was sorry. Before we started going out she used to like him and decides to tell me after we started going out. And she's been telling me ever since we broke up the first time that he said he liked her. What do I do when my best friend likes my ex, but I still like him?

2006-12-11 12:01:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi guy's how you doing?
I finnaly got in touch with a girl i
like, you see its hard for us to talk cos swe'r at school and shes in the year below. but anyway, i recently got here number and was wondering if any girls had tips on how i should go about things, u know, being myself, laughing with her, what els?...

thanks alot

2006-12-11 12:01:28 · 14 answers · asked by Rambo 1 in Singles & Dating

YOU SUPPORT IT?

2006-12-11 12:01:13 · 13 answers · asked by PROTEUS 3 in Family

i need to no

2006-12-11 12:00:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you go down on the female, do you like it if she is shaved? totally bald or some hair down there? I totally understand you don't like a big bush either!!

2006-12-11 12:00:43 · 8 answers · asked by sabrescraze 2 in Singles & Dating

I have not seen my father since i was 6, I was told that he died in 1984 but I am certain i encountered him in 1998. I contacted a private investigator and he found that his social security number that i know was his wasn't in ssn death index and that it had been used four times after 1984 as recent as 1990. There was no other identity attached to it and so the pi, a reputable one, informed me that it had to be him based on that fact, it wasn't someone trying to falsely obtain credit. He informed me the next step in finding him was to contact local municipalities, voter registration, etc. I'm not even sure where he lives, what city, can only guess as to where... can any one out there help me, i dont have any money because I'm sick and on disability, how can I find him?

2006-12-11 12:00:21 · 3 answers · asked by sam s 1 in Family

Why do guys LIE?
i posted few question of guys of girls...like the requirments.
if they had to be beautiful
smart funny..
the answers from the guys were"beauty is only skin deep...what really matter is the person in side"

but...you guys do care about girls looking hot and pretty.you dont pay attention to whats in side.
you dont look if shes not beautiful.
you dont give them a chance if shes ugly
so...everything i heard from you guys were lyes?
or is this just reality?
beacuse my dad told me"guys relie on there eyes."

so...what do you think?
girls have stronger trust on guys then guys on girls.
those slut and bitchy girls ...forget them...

but why do you guys lie?
why so apathetic?

2006-12-11 12:00:18 · 53 answers · asked by Grack 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 11:59:46 · 3 answers · asked by Salsa 2 in Singles & Dating

Alot of times I talk to my sister on the phone. About all she ever wants to talk about is what she's either getting for her home or she already has for her home. I would much rather be healthy for the rest of my life than have material things.Another thing, you can't take it with you when your gone. Most people don't stop and think about this.

2006-12-11 11:59:05 · 13 answers · asked by Nancy M. 4 in Family

gave my superviosr more details because he asked me :"Precisely what health problems were you having - you seemed fine yesterday"
My supervisor was questionning the validity of my day's sick leave. I told him I was having a particularly bad period.

So I told him that I was having bad cramps and he looked like I

was lying so I began to tell him that when I stood up from my seat on the bus I had left a large red stain mark and that even though I was wearing super super plus press-on towels the blood was streaming down my legs...so I thought abut the office furniture and turned back and went home. .
Ironically he went bright red himself - hopefully he got the picture. But why the embarrassment - surely he must know that women mensurate?

2006-12-11 11:59:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he told me that he likes me because im cute and really nice..how can i make him like me even more?please be realistic!!thanx!<33

2006-12-11 11:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in love iwth this guy and he always flirts with me and i seem to never get any where with him what do i need to do i already act like a hoe around him???

2006-12-11 11:58:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy i like... A LOT!... likes me too and wants to ask me out but everytime my friends tell him how much i talk about him and how many times i have had a bad day cuz he didnt ask me yet, he says " i will ask her but i never see her"... we are in a class together, we eat near each other at lunch and we email each other all the time! i have no idea what i am going to do! PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-11 11:58:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELPPPPP ME PLEASE.......!!!

i had an awesome way but my a**hole of a friend used it!!! HeLp!!!

2006-12-11 11:57:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well there this guy at school and we both like each other..i want to ask him out but i dont want to say "do u want to go out with me?"i want to ask him to be my bf..and i dont want to say do u want to be my bf or do u want to go out wit me..wut else can i say that means the same thing?i want to try to ask him out tommorrow if i can..so please answer as quick as poosible!!thanx!<33

2006-12-11 11:57:17 · 2 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf wants to do a "taste-test" to see how men are different in taste. She loves mine (finally) and wants to see what other men are like. Please advise

2006-12-11 11:56:35 · 8 answers · asked by alan 1 in Singles & Dating

Friday we picked up stepdaughter (s/d) and her boyfriend came to our house until one in the morning watching movies . Saturday s/d went to party with boyfriend for church. She was told to be home at six. She calls at 5:30 and tells dad that she is going back home because her mom said she could stay at the party until ten. S/d comes back to get her things at our house and her father told me to tell her boyfriend to leave because his daughter wasn't leaving....so I did..s/d comes flying through the living room and wasn't yelling at me and trying to push me away from the door to leave. Dad was yelling at her to stop and he grabbed her to restrained her she got away from him and punched me in the face. I called cops, for nothing because s/d got to go to the party and back to her moms. Should I have let the cops arrest her that night? Cops said I could for assualt but dad said no. Her parents are not going to punish her or get her help for her anger. What do I do to help this child?

2006-12-11 11:56:17 · 12 answers · asked by honesty l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

to be honest i got nothing...i meet this GOTHHH girl this september and all we did together was smoke and drink, and we started to go out two days ago...and i told her we are going on a date on this friday...and i got nothing, absolutly nothing in mind...so any ideas????

2006-12-11 11:54:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If ur g/f was raped by 2 friends and then they came up to her the next day and tried to talk to her like nothing happened, Would you tell them to ***** off?? My b/f did, I want to see how many other decent guys there are.

*Yes I reported the 2, got counsuling, and have moved on since.

2006-12-11 11:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I really like this girl and she says that she likes me. The problem is that I left for a few months and I come back to hear that she has had sexual relationships with more guys than I have fingers on my right hand during that time period. Should I believe that she really likes me or should I just don't give a f*ck and stop talking to her.

2006-12-11 11:54:00 · 7 answers · asked by gvjvjhv 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex (he broke up w/ me 2 months ago) went out for the first time the other day.

At the end of the night we shared 3 very long hugs. He kissed me on the head. We told eachother that we missed eachother and told eachother to call the other whenever they wanted.

If he was interested in me again how long after that meeting should I expect a call?

2006-12-11 11:53:59 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-11 11:53:50 · 24 answers · asked by tanyasiv 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Since I won't be here till saturday, I wanted to post it now. I am so happy! I'll be 41 this thursday.

2006-12-11 11:53:42 · 8 answers · asked by alizelatina41 3 in Family

Okay... there is this girl who I like a lot. today on aim, she says that her boyfriend broke up with her. Than you know i comforted her a bit, made her laugh, forget about the subject. And when she said bye, she added xox. Its the first time she did that and we have been talking for a very long time. Does that mean she likes me or is she just saying that?

2006-12-11 11:53:26 · 21 answers · asked by chunkyhomer1992 1 in Singles & Dating

here's a weird one.. i've often wondered if guys actually enjoy going down on girls. they act like they do and my guy says he does but i've actually heard guys complain about it and say it's gross and disgusting. What do ya'll think of it? gross or not? and if not do you find it ok or do you actually enjoy it yourself?

2006-12-11 11:53:14 · 21 answers · asked by Bethany 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey, when you create a community lot, how do ou put people in the place to work, or are they put automatically.

2006-12-11 11:53:01 · 3 answers · asked by chocolate tea 3 in Friends

I'm a christian, and I like this guy that's not a christian, do you think it would be right to get into a relationship with him?

2006-12-11 11:52:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What's it all about?

2006-12-11 11:52:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i were having sex a lot, and just yesterday he tried to do something new with me, i pushed away, and he grabbed me. After a bit, i moved away and i didnt know if it was rape or not.. since maybe he couldnt control himself. i still love him but im scared to do anything with him now. I think he knew i didnt like it but said nothing about it. he acted normal and all and tried to make me happy but it did not work and after he left and we didnt talk yet

2006-12-11 11:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated this man for about 6 months. We broke up about 2 years ago but we are still good friends. Now I am in the relationship that is pretty serious and my ex still still calls me every so often. Our conversations are pretty innocent. He just finds it easy to talk me about things that go on in his life. When he has things on his mind that is when he generally calls. I have not seen him face to face in over a year. But my man now does not know this. I seriously did not think about it until my ex just recently called me. I do not know if I should just tell him that I am in a relationship and not to call me or to tell my man now about the situation. I have no desire for my ex at all. He is cool, he is just not for me. He has not given any indications that he would want anything else from me other than conversation. I just don't know what the right or the wrong thing to do here.

2006-12-11 11:51:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating