to be honest i got nothing...i meet this GOTHHH girl this september and all we did together was smoke and drink, and we started to go out two days ago...and i told her we are going on a date on this friday...and i got nothing, absolutly nothing in mind...so any ideas????
2006-12-11 11:54:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, calm down. She's going to freak and run away if you are running up walls with nerves.
Second of all, do not smoke and drink on this date. Spend some quality time with each other, even if that means walking around the mall hand-in-hand. Invite her over to your house to watch a movie, or (depending on where you live) take a hike together.
And, of course, third of all, dress like you care! Show that you spent a lot of effort into making this date work. Open the door for her. Give her lots of compliments. If she really likes you, she'll do the same for you.
2006-12-11 12:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Fur and Fiction 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since all you guys did together was smoke and drink, change things up and take her somewhere nice or different. A dinner and a movie isn't bad!? Just anywhere that u two can talk and REALLY get to know each better.
2006-12-11 20:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Chic_46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you discussed and had fun disussing the things you would like to do on Friday. If you don't like Goth maybe you should choose a mutual place to meet. I think that she should at least meet you half-way. So maybe go to the Goth-Club and then
next time you go out she can go someplace that you like. If your going to be miserable though...maybe you should stay at home...
play strip poker or something. By the way don't sweat it
2006-12-11 20:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a nice long walk in your neighborhood park, look at the stars, swing on the cold metal swings, put your arm around her when she gets cold. Be thoughtful and considerate. Ask her questions about her. People like to talk about themselve. Don't contradict her and compliment her sincerely.
2006-12-11 20:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go somewhere relatively quiet so that you can talk. Go some place that serves finger foods and drinks. Sit and chat and get to know one another. Think about some things to talk about before you go so that you don't have those looooonnnng painful silences. Have Fun!
2006-12-11 19:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by cmfrtkeepr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a movie theater, and let her choose the movie. Also, get her something nice, but not too expensive. You can find unique and inexpensive things at www.etsy.com. Make sure it's tasteful, fits her style.
2006-12-11 20:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont smoke and drink, thats a turn off and when you stop/when she stops (if you do) youre going to look back on it and think "why didnt I help him/her/eachother" and youre going to feel dumb. Dinner and a movie.
double date (friends can play games)
picnic at a park
picnic
picnic in your car
bring her a rose (SMILE)
dont say anything dumb like "I love you" unless you really do.
dinner
*STAR GAZING! (My first date).....kinda romantic (just take her to an empty park at night with a blanket and pillows and look at the stars... then... kiss her!
2006-12-11 19:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by Audrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bowling & dinner
visit a museum
billiards
go kart racing
cook 4 her
miniature golf
a fancy dinner for 2 where u guys can just talk all night
NO movie. you're trying to get to know her better. why go to a movie where both of your focus won't be on each other
2006-12-11 19:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by wizeguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well how about just talk blubber, nothing nonsense continue smoking and drinking I mean why are you dating her if you want to marry her then lets go what are you waiting for?
2006-12-11 19:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by secret love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y a goth girl??? anyways take her to a place she would hangout at, so she'll have a good time. i dont know or talk to many goth people so i have no idea were that would be.
2006-12-11 20:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by confussed... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋