my boyfriend and i were having sex a lot, and just yesterday he tried to do something new with me, i pushed away, and he grabbed me. After a bit, i moved away and i didnt know if it was rape or not.. since maybe he couldnt control himself. i still love him but im scared to do anything with him now. I think he knew i didnt like it but said nothing about it. he acted normal and all and tried to make me happy but it did not work and after he left and we didnt talk yet
2006-12-11 11:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
how about you stop having sex with your boyfriend that much and you wont have that problem
2006-12-11 11:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Grammar B*@%h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question,it's a possible violation,unless you did'nt try enough to stop him.In that case,he may have thought you liked it.If you were not clear and firm with him,he may not be sure.If you were however extremely adamant that he do not do it,then he may be at fault.I hope you go to a counselor and explain more in detail to her.It would be a good idea to get a second opinion.
2006-12-11 19:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should NOT have done anything YOU didn't want to do. Don't try to cover it up with "he couldn't control himself". That's bullshit, and you know it, because you are uncomfortable now. If you feel you have been violated ,you HAVE. And he's an ignorant pig, and I'd dump him....now!
2006-12-11 20:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats rape no means no and theres no inbetween if hes forcing u to do things get away cause next thing ya know youll be on the floor
2006-12-11 20:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by kissfan1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has sex with out your consent then yes it was rape, and why did you not confront him, you silence has given him the idea that he didn, t do any thing wrong, its your body, and you have the control over it not him
2006-12-11 20:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what if you didn't want to do it he should've listened you and you shouldn't have let him treat you like that....because you never know he might do it again.....or he might get violent with you....it kinda sounds like he would be the type that doesn't know how to treat his girlfriend....and the type that would abuse of his girlfriend.....so i don't know you better be careful with him....
2006-12-11 20:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by worried 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋