Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

We rented a room to a guy who used to live next door. he paid his rent Nov 1 and moved in. a couple of weeks later he slipped me a note asking if I wanted to sneak into his room at night for sex. I NEVER gave him any reason to think I was attracted to him I'M NOT! I politely said no, I loved my husband etc. subject dropped. But he only paid $50. of $500 so far this month, and sneaks food at night. (not included in rent) now he is borrowing things. My husband feels sorry for him and when I talk to him about it he says I pay the bills etc and won't do anything. I bet if I show him the note he won't feel so sorry for him. He was living with his daughter before so he won't be on the streets. My elderly mother lives with us also and he is asking her for cigarettes now. When I ask when we will get the rent he says fri, then it's mon then tomorrow. I'm tired of the bull. Should I show my husband the note?

2006-12-10 16:25:41 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Over and over and over again, I sense REAL attraction from white males, however, they never make a move. They seem to be content with just being friends...regardless of the attraction. What's the hang up?

2006-12-10 16:25:29 · 16 answers · asked by sharonvania 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 16:24:58 · 31 answers · asked by kymmi 2 in Family

What kinds of things would go nicely in a gift bag without costing too much...budget of about twenty dollars for 5 people.

2006-12-10 16:24:23 · 11 answers · asked by sally_that_girl! 2 in Friends

Is it a good sign if your ex tells you that he misses you and misses you being around?

2006-12-10 16:24:09 · 9 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 16:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by jaymegibow 2 in Singles & Dating

we have an 8 month old baby of our own right now, but everytime i see pictures or anything else that connects with his past, im jealous, and hurt.. its insane but i cant help it.. when i asked why did they separate, he said that his previous wife wanted it.it didnt answer my question as to why did it end.. he just told me that even he upto now dont know the reason as well..whenever i get the courage to ask, i become afraid he would misinterpret and get annoyed..what should i do?

2006-12-10 16:23:41 · 19 answers · asked by i cant 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 16:22:54 · 6 answers · asked by bond pol bond 1 in Singles & Dating

What do u do when u are dating someone but u may still be in love with ur ex?

2006-12-10 16:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by shika_shay06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 16:22:04 · 21 answers · asked by ••• 2 in Singles & Dating

I've really liked this girl for a year now, and was able to talk to her easily last year (give cards). I've always wanted to tell her my feelings, but I feel there's a few problems.
- Very small, but I'm 9 months younger than her (I'm 15, she's 16), as I skipped a year (due to coming from Scotland and moving to Canada). I am taller though... does this affect me?
- When I was about to ask her (and I asked what she thought about relationships) she said she doesn't know as she's not into that kind of stuff. So I decided to not ask, as that might have been a sign she knows.
- As of late, I notice some weird things going on with another guy and her. For one, he writes on her hand, lies on her desk, and she doesn't mind. They even whisper stuff to each other... do you think they like each other?
- I try to start conversations - But people (and her) either think I'm mumbling, or aren't talking to them, nod there head, or I freeze. What should I do?

Do you think I should tell her? When?

2006-12-10 16:21:54 · 3 answers · asked by Nova 2 in Singles & Dating

I can give advice!

2006-12-10 16:20:36 · 5 answers · asked by aria19_lovely 3 in Singles & Dating

What if nobody else knew? ;-)

What if you knew you could sneak around and get by with it and no one else would be the wiser? ;-)

What if she was a good dancer and knew how to make a nice breakfast? ;-)

What if she had a nice hottub? ;-)

What if she had a Lexus LS-430 that she would lend you no questions asked? ;-)

What if she liked Scream II ? ;-)

2006-12-10 16:20:26 · 7 answers · asked by Middy S 2 in Singles & Dating

he will not answer my friend if hill go out with her or not. then she calls and asks what the answer is and he says hes not going to tell her! what is he meaning bye iam not telling u? is it that he dosnt want to hurt her or something or what?

2006-12-10 16:20:18 · 12 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 16:19:50 · 10 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl and we have great chemistry. We've been on a couple of dates. She has hurt someone in the past and has seen relationships end in the demise of friendships and doesn't want to go through that hardship herself.

I know that she wants a family but she says she isn't ready for a relationship now.

I completely understand her stance on this topic, but I also know that it doesn't make sense to hide for fear that something isn't going to work out, when there is a good chance that it might and something great might also come of it.

What do I do?

2006-12-10 16:18:51 · 7 answers · asked by dowboy98 3 in Singles & Dating

At a party a couple nights ago, after too much to drink, i ended up sleeping with a friend. actualyl more like an acquaintance. we have class together, in a small major together, and have some mutual friends. i would like to continue seeing him, but i really dont want anything serious. i would prefer to just keep up the fun we had that night. should i mention it to him, or just leave the whole thing along?

2006-12-10 16:18:48 · 19 answers · asked by coldsownfall 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my boyfriend broke up well because i just did not feel very confertable around him for some reason that i do not know of.And after about 10 or 20 weeks i started to get jelouse well because way deep down in my hart i still love him and he does not know how i feel about him and all.Well my best friend asked him out and now they are going out and i just feel jelouse i just don't know why i feel very jelouse?Im really confused.And my best friend does not know how i feel and i do not know how to tell her about her going out with my ex boyfriend and how i felt jelouse i just don't want her to get mad at me.What do you think i should do please help me?And only nice answers only no mean answers!Please help me.And try to understan my queshtion the best as you can ok!And thanxs for ya all avice.And me and my best friend promise echother that we both will not go out with echothers ex boyfriends.Well she told me not to go out with her ex boyfriend and i told her not to go out with my

2006-12-10 16:18:21 · 6 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Singles & Dating

i asked my gf's friend to ask my gf if she was ready to kiss me cause shes kinda shy and i dont want to get slapped and all she said was "i dont know" so is that a yes or a no? PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-12-10 16:17:49 · 14 answers · asked by K.M. 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe that there is a girl out there that is just perfect for you...I know what do u think. tell me I you believe in fairy tales and if yes how is your dream story?

2006-12-10 16:17:05 · 12 answers · asked by CHICK 1 in Singles & Dating

I only want serious answers. I really don't have any other choice besides public approaches. I don't know any other women I could ask out and my friends don't have anyone they could fix me up with.

2006-12-10 16:16:19 · 7 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I hardly talk, only aroud family, and people I know. Not only am I shy around people, but I usually hardly have anything to say.

2006-12-10 16:16:06 · 13 answers · asked by ut_texas_17 2 in Friends

can i write this off as a business expense??

2006-12-10 16:15:42 · 11 answers · asked by hydrobudsinfl 1 in Singles & Dating

when you have a contact in msn messenger or even yahoo who never replies when you message them,
1. do you delete them from you contact's?
2. keep them until they decide to talk

2006-12-10 16:15:10 · 3 answers · asked by carlosdavid 5 in Friends

2006-12-10 16:14:10 · 20 answers · asked by brian wallace 1 in Singles & Dating

I have no intentions of dating this guy but yet somehow we keep messing around, and i think he is truly falling for me. I am being mean just messing around with him like this?

2006-12-10 16:14:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It just doesn't seem natural to me. I have been in a long term relationship that ended almost a year ago and I have been out of the dating seen for quite some time. My friends and family are really pushing the online dating scene and I just can't get into it. They all seem like a bunch of FRECKS to me. What happened to love at first sight? The fireworks from accross the room?

2006-12-10 16:13:08 · 10 answers · asked by Blue 1 in Friends

ive had an ex cheat on me and also ive had guys tell me that all guys cheat...but that women wont figure it outif they do it right. This has me kinda freaked out, any ideas?

2006-12-10 16:12:37 · 21 answers · asked by i need help 1 in Singles & Dating

do you find rude and obnoxius to ask people very personal questions such as, if they have a relationship, how much do they earn, if the do sex, and many other... without knowing them? many people do this to me. I find it rude! I'm I the only one?

2006-12-10 16:12:32 · 8 answers · asked by carlosdavid 5 in Friends

my best friend likes this girl and she lieks him cause of his looks but hes not smoothe at all. im alot more popular than he is and i try to give him pointers but he seems liek its impossible to get over his shyness and habit of being extremely talkiative for no reason when hes nervous and trying to compensate for his shyness

2006-12-10 16:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by toreyjw1 2 in Friends