2006-12-10 16:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by jaymegibow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes but we all do it anyway.
:) the only problem with the test drive theory is when there were 27 other men who test drove your future wife.
Not a nice thought.
2006-12-10 16:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by elisioloyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you give up your self respect and cause another to lose theirs. Premarital sex puts you and your partner at risk of pregnancy (there is no 100% safe sex), STDs, and loss of reputation. You end up with guilt, worry, and fear of everything from getting caught to health concerns. Not only that you put your emotional, psychological, and financial life on the line. Some put their education and maturity on the line.
Sex inside of marriage is guilt free, worry free, and commitment oriented. Sex inside of marriage is entered with thought, not just spur of the moment. Birth control is considered, not an afterthought. The couple can take their time, choose their place, and their method and nothing wrong is thought of it. It IS safe sex. . . emotionally, psychologically, financially, educationally, and bathed in maturity.
Premarital sex is rushed, unplanned, risky, and frequently unsatisfying for both parties. It is still frowned upon for the most part by the main stream of society and in the case of teens at home definitely not approved by the parents of the teens (who might end up raising another child after they were nearing the end of raising their own. . . they are trying to stabilize their finances at that time).
Besides all that. . . do you want used goods? I didn't (and I didn't get used goods).
2006-12-11 00:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes! If you believe in God and you should save yourself for a the one who is welling to spend the rest of his/her life with you, it really is not much to ask compare to that.
2006-12-11 00:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by CHICK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-11 00:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by argylemoose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes...it just leads to things like unwanted pregnancies, STDs, and greater heartbreak if the relationship fails. But that's just me!
2006-12-11 00:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by *ladybug* 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is.. but there is no such rule in every govt policy.. it is a family rule (before)
2006-12-11 00:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about love and caring. If you love the person and care about them deeply than no it isnt....but if its random...yes
2006-12-11 00:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by wishicouldswish789 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes dont do it .....sex is for marriage and when you give it up if you do please protect yourself...... its 2007 you cant trust everyone.....
2006-12-11 00:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope...you test drive a car before you buy it
2006-12-11 00:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋