i asked my gf's friend to ask my gf if she was ready to kiss me cause shes kinda shy and i dont want to get slapped and all she said was "i dont know" so is that a yes or a no? PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-12-10 16:17:49 · 14 answers · asked by K.M. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here is a little test that will let u know if she is comfortable with her kissing
If I've been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she's ready to be kissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make a comment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of it.
If she smiles and likes this, I'll reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time Ill get a little closer and also glance down at her lips and back up to her eyes a couple of times. If she lets me keep touching her hair, I know that she's ready to be kissed.
By using “The Kiss Test” I've been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven't given her anything she can object to. I now have a way of knowing if she's ready to be kissed that NEVER gets me rejected—and I know within 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to figure out...
i dont suggest u ask her directly because as u said she is shy so even if she wants to she will feel a bit disturbed by your question.
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2006-12-10 16:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask if you can kiss her, normally 99.9% she will tell you yes ..But since your gf is shy, so spare the tongue fight.
If you belong to the 00.1% who got the no answer, then ask her why nicely, so you have a better idea how to advance and ATTACK!!
2006-12-11 00:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ho S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have already kissed her on the cheek then try kissing her on the lips...nothing to passionate but just a quick peck. if she enjoyed that then start making your kisses longer and more passionate. don't immediately start making out with her! you might get slapped then...might... maybe then you should ask her if she wants to go farther. then maybe your tongue will be in her mouth!
2006-12-11 00:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by closetman341 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look's like your girlfriend don't trust you much.Build up the trust then take it to the next level by giving her a small kiss then make it longer as time passes.
2006-12-11 00:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shenlong The God Dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I think that your GF will tell you when she is ready and that you should just practise with an apple or something. Don't push. It will come when its right
2006-12-11 00:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to kiss her and see what happens. If you try and she turns her head then she is not ready. Pretty simple.
2006-12-11 00:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask her. Ask her politely, "Would it ok if I kissed you..." And then she will tell you.. And don't have your friends asking her.. Girls hate messengers! Or at least I do.. She's your girlfriend...so don't be scared of asking her..
Good Luck! :)
2006-12-11 00:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by Me8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u and how old is she? Anyway, nothing like talking to her about it. Get used to talking to each other and discussing things. It helps. Its always good to act while knowing what the other's likes and dislikes are.
2006-12-11 00:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try it at first with a little peck on the lips... and if she doesn't back away, try to go a little further. But when she says to stop, stop.
2006-12-11 00:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your girlfriend then kissing shouldn't be a problem should it?
2006-12-11 00:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋