Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

i've been talking to this guy since about August we go to the same school. we've talked a few times and we live in the same neighborhood. About 3 weeks ago we started flirting a lot and i thought i might have had a crush on him, but now i just found out that we are cousins? what should i do? just stop talking to him? cousins dating isn't that kind of looked down on by society?

2006-12-08 09:27:05 · 16 answers · asked by Sadie 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked my close female friend if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. More than just a friend. (She knows how I feel about her) She replied:

"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???

If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!

She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???

What she thinking\feeling???Will she speak to me again? What do I do now???

Surely as FRIENDS, she would let me know if there was no chance at all....NO???Is she scared???

2006-12-08 09:26:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When it comes to cheating, porn, addiction, compulsive
masturbation, fetishes etc.

Men seem to be the dominating sex.
And until recently women rarely if ever participated
in such behaviors.

Please leave detailed input
ESP on why this might be BIOLOGICAL : )

2006-12-08 09:26:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 09:26:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend loves to give me oral, but he is really bad at it. He has never made me come and sometimes I just get really frustrated. He really doesn't know what he's doing down there.

He is an amazing boyfriend and I don't want to hurt his feelings. How can I gently tell him he is not pleasing me and even give him some tips? I don't want to turn him off to the whole idea all together.

2006-12-08 09:25:51 · 14 answers · asked by gh25 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that I REALLY like, but I only have one class with him. We talk a lot, but I can't tell if he likes me, or if he's just friendly. He keeps giving me mixed singals and I just can't read him. We do have lunch together too, but I sit with my friends and he sits with his and there's just not a good opprunitity to talk or anything. I can't just ask him out because we have some of the same friends, so if he thinks i'm a loser for asking, he'll tell them about it and they'll all laugh at me.
I just don't know what to do.
=(

2006-12-08 09:25:43 · 3 answers · asked by amyx3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 09:24:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

omg, like all the guys in my class call me emo, just cuz the music i listen to. they say i slit my wrist and cry myself 2 sleep every night, but i dont! i dont want 1 of my teachers thinkin i really do, but i ask them to stop, ignore it, but they continue callin me emo and its annoyin. oh and the teachers see them do it, but they say nothin... wat can i do? im 15

2006-12-08 09:24:35 · 8 answers · asked by sydd vicious. 2 in Friends

I'm 17, male. My best friend went out with this girl off and on for about two years. She broke up with him about two months ago and he seems to have moved on. I still hangout with her sometimes, and while I don't see nor want a relationship with her, there is a mutual attraction, and if we were to hook up, would that be wrong?

2006-12-08 09:24:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I do leave them home all I can think about is how sad they looked when I left them.They are my every thing.

2006-12-08 09:23:55 · 12 answers · asked by jimbobob 4 in Family

2006-12-08 09:23:39 · 13 answers · asked by SongWriter16 1 in Singles & Dating

Why should I feel guilty for leaving my ex after he was the one who cheated and lied and abused drugs after 13 years I finally gave up,when I caught him on the phone with a 19 year old from our work, he was smoking pot with all the young kids at work, I just packed up and drove 2,000 miles!!!!

2006-12-08 09:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by wilma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering...I am not in the big "V" category...but years have past and I have dedicated my life to Christ. In this search I have dated and notice that all the women I am attracted to want too go a little too far. Maybe I am still attracted to the same women I was attracted to when I was active. The church women I meet and want to date scare me because some of them are to keen on being a perfectionist and expect me to be Jesus...I just want to know if there is a such thing as a fun Christ loving woman that is physically attractive, and beautiful in spirit?

P.S - if this is you, lets talk, lol ;)

2006-12-08 09:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by kingsolo_nc 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 09:22:46 · 2 answers · asked by Bella baby! 2 in Friends

Ok...so we were together, she moved away, did the long distance thing for a while, then she said she wanted to step back a bit and see other people. That was 4 months ago and she hasn't seen anyone. I have very recently. I told her I went out with someone when she hacked into my email and myspace account and found correspondances. I told her I wouldn't see that person again. She apologized for spying. Then 2 days later she finds a very casual message from the new girl after hacking my new passwords. Shes furious at me and me at her. Should I just be done with her or am I the bad guy?

2006-12-08 09:22:15 · 12 answers · asked by joshua m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a female friend who i've been cool with for a while. We are like good buddies. Recently she's been seeing this dude and i think he's verbally abusive to her which i don't like. He acts a fool over the smallest things and he calls her names. She's only been seeing this guy for about 4 months and i KNOW she can do better than this jerk! She says he's only joking but are you joking if you call your girlfriend a stupid b--ch? Or a fat b--ch? I know this bothers her but she tries to act like it doesn't. One time she was over his house and she cooked for him and washed the dishes and she told me he went off on her for using to much dish washing liquid and he called her a dumbass. Yet she seems to want to still see this nut and it really bothers me that she would let herself be abused like that. She is a nice looking girl and she is a little overweight and i think that's why she thinks she has to settle for this scum. I want to slug this guy myself. Any suggestions on what to do here?

2006-12-08 09:22:10 · 12 answers · asked by Cool Breeze 2 in Friends

I have a good friend that touched me a ton last night while at a meeting. She was sitting next to me, and by the end, she seemed to be melting into me with the touching. We are friends, but I have been wondering if she has feelings for more.

2006-12-08 09:21:38 · 20 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 09:21:01 · 4 answers · asked by Baby V 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 09:20:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Tell what comes first to your mind:
What do you think of a redhead girl??

2006-12-08 09:20:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm kinda shy when it comes to guys. But not all the time. Yet...I can't find anyone...When I'm on the internet just chatting...everyone says I'm really hot or beautiful yet I can't find that here. What's wrong with me? I have a good personality just a tough guard...

2006-12-08 09:20:16 · 23 answers · asked by Kortney 1 in Singles & Dating

Well,my Aunty June is staying with us until xmas! I was very tired today after last night and ive just woke up. Ive been drifting in and out of sleep thinking that i could hear drills and heavy machinery. I thought that it was just mother and Llama in the bedroom, so i didnt panic too much! I needed a wee so i thought i could get up and check on mother and Llama, he can be a bit rough sometimes! I started to put on my winnie the pooh nighty and all of a sudden i spotted a hole in the wall next to my head with a bright light shining through it. i bent down and looked in it it and all of a sudden i saw this eyeball looking at me! I knew it was Auntie June becouse i could smell her dirty litter tray breath! What shall i do now? Should i confront Auntie June? sent

2006-12-08 09:20:16 · 29 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay there is this guy, and he knows I like him. And we talk and stuff. So, why won't he ask me out!!!
I want him so badly!!!!

2006-12-08 09:19:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Evey one , you helped me a lot , I found what I was looking for , soThank you .

2006-12-08 09:19:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is she interested in me, romantically? Last week, my older female friend started touching me on my arm. Then, this week, she made comments on my clothes. Thought I looked great in white. Then, she wanted to know what I would wear at my upcoming job interview. Then, she made comments about the job interviewing clothes that they were perfect and that I looked great in it.
She never spoke about my clothes until now.

2006-12-08 09:19:18 · 3 answers · asked by carol 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently turned twenty and have found myself wondering why I'm single or at the very least why no one is interested in me.
I have long, dark hair, hazel eyes, im white, i'm 5'11" I weigh about 170 I work out 4-5 times a week. I am in a four-year university. I play drums, I can cook. I know damn near everything. I play sports, I do debate. I used to do improv for comedy troops, and have performed stand up so i think I am funny. I am confident without being cocky, in other words I know who I am. I also think I am very kind (I once walked an old lady home 10 blocks in the rain because she didnt't have an umbrella, unfortuantely my umbrella was not big enough for the both of us and I was soaked). umm.. I have good taste in clothing, I get compliments all the time on what I am wearing. I am ambitous and goal-oriented. I like art, philosophy, politics, reading the sunday paper. What more could a girl want?

2006-12-08 09:18:56 · 18 answers · asked by jazzman1127 2 in Singles & Dating

What if your heart tells you that your sister's husband is your soulmate?

2006-12-08 09:18:40 · 10 answers · asked by Raven 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm a conservative but not shy person.
I want to tell my fiance that I really cant wait to make love with him after we get married. Cause he keeps telling me all the time how much he wants to make love and etc etc ...
I want a non sexual way of saying the same to him
I want to make it sound dirty but in coated words.
hope u can help me

2006-12-08 09:18:25 · 25 answers · asked by Lal P 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok cos i want to buy chocolate for my friends for christmas. do u think thats ok or should i get different things for each of them? confused.

2006-12-08 09:18:03 · 3 answers · asked by abby 2 in Friends

if a guy that you have a crush on ( and knows that you do)says that he cares about you,what does that mean?is it a step away from saying that he has deeper feelings about you?sounds obvious but I just dont get how much he cares?thanx people

2006-12-08 09:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by pinkydinkydoo 3 in Singles & Dating