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Ok...so we were together, she moved away, did the long distance thing for a while, then she said she wanted to step back a bit and see other people. That was 4 months ago and she hasn't seen anyone. I have very recently. I told her I went out with someone when she hacked into my email and myspace account and found correspondances. I told her I wouldn't see that person again. She apologized for spying. Then 2 days later she finds a very casual message from the new girl after hacking my new passwords. Shes furious at me and me at her. Should I just be done with her or am I the bad guy?

2006-12-08 09:22:15 · 12 answers · asked by joshua m 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

if she's your ex then it shouldn't matter to her. but if your sill going out hen you shouldn't be seeing anyone. it's a tough question, though

2006-12-08 09:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not to sound too "Friends" but it sounds like you were not committed to her at the time. I think her hacking into your account is very controlling. I would say you need to decide if you want to work through her issue of being controlling or not. If you do not want to do that ( and it will take a lot of time) then you should probably back off and get a new email address.

2006-12-08 17:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by epaphras_faith 4 · 0 0

Well I would let her go, if she can't trust you (regardless if you did still talk to the girl after saying you wouldn't) then she isn't worth the time. She is the one who mentioned the "step back" in the first place.

In my opinion she has absolutely no respect for you if she is hacking into your email and myspace. I would say end it, be friends and move on.

2006-12-08 17:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just be done with her- that is ridiculous! If she had ANY respect for you, she wouldn't be hacking into your personal accounts. You probably should have told her the truth about the "semi-dating", but on the other side, you AREN'T dating so you don't have to update her on your life. Be done with her-- she's not worth your time or worrying.

2006-12-08 17:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Co 1 · 0 0

Unfortunately the fact that you're even asking this question means you still have feelings for your ex. You are definitely NOT the bad guy here. As they said on "friends",you were on a break for goodness sake.
So, do not apologize. If she realizes, or if you can convince her, that she was wrong to evesdrop, then you need to decide whether you still want to see her again. If you do, re-negotiate the terms.

2006-12-08 19:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by firefly 6 · 0 0

Man, you both need help. Decide which one you want keeping in mind the physco keeps hacking your stuff...

2006-12-08 17:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by lbuajlw 4 · 0 0

Be done with her, she is the one who wanted to see other pep she can't get mad at you for doing as she suggested

2006-12-08 17:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by TR 3 · 0 0

Uh, anyone who disrespects your privacy that much needs to be kicked to the curb. What a jerk she is!

2006-12-08 17:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0 0

Kick her to the curb. She is being ridiculous.

2006-12-08 17:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think you should call it quits, it sounds like both of you are really not seriously into each other.

2006-12-08 17:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0 0

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