Single for three years and counting...?

Question

I recently turned twenty and have found myself wondering why I'm single or at the very least why no one is interested in me.
I have long, dark hair, hazel eyes, im white, i'm 5'11" I weigh about 170 I work out 4-5 times a week. I am in a four-year university. I play drums, I can cook. I know damn near everything. I play sports, I do debate. I used to do improv for comedy troops, and have performed stand up so i think I am funny. I am confident without being cocky, in other words I know who I am. I also think I am very kind (I once walked an old lady home 10 blocks in the rain because she didnt't have an umbrella, unfortuantely my umbrella was not big enough for the both of us and I was soaked). umm.. I have good taste in clothing, I get compliments all the time on what I am wearing. I am ambitous and goal-oriented. I like art, philosophy, politics, reading the sunday paper. What more could a girl want?

Don't worry bout me getting offended. I laughed at the pecker jokes and found the "stop looking in the mirror so much" enlightening--reading it over I guess I do sound a little cocky.

Answer 1

What do I say? I say that your spending too much time realizing you own characteristic. And not enough time looking for your perfect match. stop sitting at home doing whatever you're doing. And get out there. Be more outgoing. Maybe you should actually try to get a date yourself. If you just sit there hoping someone will ask you out. Beggar can't be choosers. He that lives hoping, will die hoping. Maybe you should try to ask, not the hottest girl, but an average looking one at best. Then, just work your way up. Build your dating reputation. Your perfect match is somewhere out there just waiting for you. You just have to look harder to find her. Good Luck!!

Answer 2

it really isn't any longer fantastic that once 3 years of being with someone that you're feeling extraordinary. thoroughly common, i'd upload. even with the undeniable fact that, in case you only broke issues off very last month yet dated for 3 years, you quite might want to spend a at the same time as with your self. of route it's going to look quite lonely before each and every thing, yet imagine about it. you've been with some different person for an quite lengthy time period, now's the time that you'll also discover time for you, bypass out and performance relaxing. some different person will come alongside quickly sufficient and also you'd be only advantageous at the same time as that day comes. have relaxing and good luck.

Answer 3

If it was me, I would say, cut your hair..it gives the impression of unclean, lazy and no self worth if he doesn't want to take care of his appearance.

Sorry I am just not a long hair guy person. Besides, I think it will pull your hair out of your face so people can see you smile more and you will probably get more attention to your eyes. Woman read men's eyes first and far most to see what their true personality is. If they are destracted by some other feature such as long hair..then they will never look into your eyes and they would pass you up.

Answer 4

It really sounds like you are totaly on the right track and only 20 too. Maybe without trying you are being a little to overconfident, giving off the message that you are not interested in a relationship right now that can scare off women too. Try flirting with a couple of them that you find interesting and see what happens.

Answer 5

I think we are looking for someone who is not in the mirror as much as we would be. My suggestion is tone it down a bit and get to know the women first. I know you didnt say that but I got the gut feeling that you talk alot about yourself. Confidence sometimes is best left on the inside of you and when its allowed to come out and not forced out it looks alot better on everyone.

Answer 6

Well I'm 19 and I've been single for two years now and I'm enjoying not being attached, so should you enjoy it too while it last. But anyway, you'll find a girl who will appreciate you. I bet that most likely there are girls at your school who find you interesting and attractive, but may not know how to approach you.

Answer 7

Sorry.. but you seem cocky. And just because you helped a lady cross the street does not mean girls should fall over you. Try to consider this, that it is just the people around you that are not interested or maybe they are but you have not given them a chance.

Answer 8

Just keep putting ypurself out there! The right girl & you havent met yet. Think about this girls kiss many frogs before they find their prince ;( Maybe you are one of the lucky ones, who doesn't have to date around. The first one will be yours for the rest of your life!

Answer 9

Why do you need a girl? Sounds to me like you "like" yourself enough for two people. LOL (Just kidding) Just hang in there someone will come along when the time is right.

Answer 10

maybe, since it seems like your so near perfect, girls are just too shy to talk to you. If i saw a man of your description while walking down the street, I wouldnt know what to say, except 'pheww'...