Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

I have my relationship (engaged) with my bf. He's from the states and I am from dominican Republic. we gonna get marry next year ( :
well, as his wife i will become, he wants me to go the states and live with him. For that, we need a marriage visa. he had been working alot and me too for save up money. Yesterday we were talking about the spends it requires for succeed the marriage visa which is kinda expensive ($600-1000 dls). he told me what we gonna do is to share the spends (each of us will pay the half-to-half). I didnt offended by that, but im just wondering if in the future things will be this way. Is this correct? I mean i'm not a spoil who wants everyhing-i-wish and neither I dont have any problem sharing.

is this a good sign of a good marriage? i mean,... the fact of know how to share things with your couple... can someone clear up this to me?

I will appreciate even more answers from experience ppl, thanks in advanced!

2006-12-02 03:14:36 · 15 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy friend told me that he likes me and I'm not sure how I feel about him. I like him a lot as a friend but I don't know if I really feel 'that way' about him. I'm not sure what to do.

2006-12-02 03:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can i do to make it more enjoyable for my partner?

2006-12-02 03:13:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-02 03:13:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

here's the problem.just 2 days before,i told my 3 month crush that i like him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i don't want to be in a relationship right now & i like someone else".

bear in mind that i was planning everything to the last detail & ALL my friends knew abt it(my friends are his friends too).it was supposed to be special cos mainly i thought he liked me too,by the way he behaved around me.

today,i just got to know that almost all my friends knew abt this 'other gal he likes' & they never even told me abt it.not even a hint(while all the time,i was constantly talking abt him).

i mean,i'm not a person who likes regretting,that's why i always tell a guy if i like him.but this REALLY hurt me now.i can't believe my friends knew abt this all along & never told me.

did i Really make a fool out of myself this time?

thanks.

2006-12-02 03:12:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bestfriend is having a affair with my boyfriend but,she does know that i know.what should i do?

2006-12-02 03:12:51 · 21 answers · asked by tamara 1 in Singles & Dating

Non-smutty answers only please!! I have told "him" I love him and he has thanked me for the support I give him. I only wonder if I do enough. He means the world to me and I never take him for granted. Just wanted some male (and female) opinions on this.

2006-12-02 03:12:41 · 7 answers · asked by Little One 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 03:12:18 · 11 answers · asked by seaurchin 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not an over the top religious woman, but I do believe in marriage and the commitment before God, and ethics in general.

Anyhow, my sister in law who I love dearly, lacks ambition in life, and wants free ride, she lives off other people and if it isnt enough of her mooching . She leaves her husband for another man. Which screams in my mind how any God form man or woman could cause so much termoile in a family and in a home is beyond my state of thinking.

I really an not thrilled with her judgment period., I cant even think how on earth I assosciate with ehr at this point. I am so against all her decisions.
To me she is a kind hearted friend, we laugh togheter and share together. But everything in me does not like what she has done, do I disconnect her from my life, and tell her why?
this is really unsettling.

my husband, her brother, is so angry with her life decisions, but he loves her too much to say anything.
what would u do?

2006-12-02 03:12:14 · 8 answers · asked by Make u 2 in Family

we fight all the time,very often,one day after another,etc. i hurt her alot with my words,actions,and emotions.when we fight at school,we makeup after a few hours.then if we fight on fridays,we usually call each other up and say we're sorry.she takes up for me,and i never really have the guts to tell her thanks,she keeps my secets and i do keep hers.one thing,shes a little bossy,she says that she does it cuse she takes up for her self,{by the way,im a girl,with a bff,that is a girl!}

2006-12-02 03:11:39 · 8 answers · asked by broken_heart_of_an_angel 2 in Friends

My family has put so much negitive thoughts on me about men and love how it isnt real all they wanna do is use you for sex but i try to block it out but i notice that everytime i meet someone now im thinking that allthey want is wham bam thank you mam ... what do i need to do to stop this ? Is this ruining the outlook on life for me .?

2006-12-02 03:10:52 · 8 answers · asked by I_luv_my_kids<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a woman, a librarian. She is sexy, and beautiful. We spoke
for the first time yesterday. She talked about her Thanksgiving,
and I talked about mine. She said that as long as I got a piece
of my pecan "pie", that was OK. Referring to the other folks
who tried to steal some, on the job. I left it in the fridge.....
What do you think she really meant by that ?

2006-12-02 03:10:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 03:10:11 · 17 answers · asked by Keavondre M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 03:10:02 · 11 answers · asked by Lonez 2 in Singles & Dating

let her ride or be a rider?

2006-12-02 03:09:11 · 13 answers · asked by boogyman 1 in Singles & Dating

Sorry just some questions that question the feminity of a tomboy, require a counter question. I think girls become tomboys because alot of stuff that is fun to do has gotten "associated" with being a "boy" whereas people traditionally expected a girl to just be pretty.

Still feel free to answer my question.

2006-12-02 03:09:06 · 2 answers · asked by rostov 5 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to determine what percentage of males and females were to blame for the breakdown of marriages on account of infidelity.Please give your personal experience if possilble.

2006-12-02 03:09:03 · 10 answers · asked by cayetto 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I left with our children(2) Sept.1,2005. He moved in with her the begining of April. He is an alcoholic and was never home. Mental abuse was nonstop.. Could not stay in a marrige with no love no affection nothing. He say's there is nothing wrong with him moving in with the back stabber I am devistated. Am I wrong?

2006-12-02 03:08:35 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 03:08:18 · 52 answers · asked by sassy! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok for all yall that need to know my boyfriend does not hit me. ask before assuming things!!! anyway he didnt ever hit me not once. its just we argue when he have a bad temper and i dont know what to do about it. i am not going to leave him because i love him i just need a way to let him know that he cant do that?dont get it twisted he doesnt hit me he just say off the wall things. if u respond to my question with something negative i will report abuse if u want to help someone be smart about it dont try to hurt their feelings thanks for your time!!

2006-12-02 03:08:11 · 3 answers · asked by ki-ki 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this really sweet bf and he is really talented and hott. HE plays for Varsity football team and is really popular. He asked me out 3 weeks ago and we both really love each other but a lot of other girls like him too. He never flirts with them, but I hear a lot of rumors. We are really close and we always have a lot of fun together. He is the sweetest guy but what do I do?

2006-12-02 03:07:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and it is 4pm in the afternoon.
I was out Christmas shopping earlier but fancied an hours kip
at lunchtime but ended up having 4 hours.

Should i end up coming home 4 hours late when i go out with the lads tonight to make up the 4 hours i lost today???

2006-12-02 03:07:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

More background of the man.....grew up in a household environment where there was a lot of cussing, at the kid (him) also! He thinks it is ok (he says he grew up with it) to cuss at his 8yr old daughter! I mean the harsh kind, i.e., "get the F*** out of here and if you miss your ride, don't come the F*** back in here - You better walk the F*** to school!" He was angry at her (I think he's just an angry person - but only to the people he's suppose to love - the neighbors get talked to better - they get jokes, smiles, flirts, etc.) His temper is short and out of porportion to things. He's too defensive, too suspicious, has trusting people issues - particularly women, gets too hostile, he's too confrontational, too damn hard! Even on his minor daughters to which most dads get soft (they may cuss you and me out, cuss like a sailor, but not to or around daddy's baby) I don't like it, I told him and we had an argument! It's alway an argument if I disagree with him! His threats -just words?

2006-12-02 03:07:16 · 5 answers · asked by HotSista 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hiya, have had a few problems with my bf who is a kind hearted person but very niave to the real world, anyways when i try to tell him what i need from him to help make our relationship work, he see's it as a personal insult and says to me it's gotta be your way has it... LOL HELP,, how do i explain the difference i have tried so many ways, he's so pigheaded..

2006-12-02 03:06:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 03:06:44 · 7 answers · asked by icy 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf seems too attached to me we have been going out for almost two weeks what should i do

2006-12-02 03:06:20 · 5 answers · asked by softballengend 1 in Singles & Dating

im so bored and i have 6 more hours at work. they have a lot of fun sites blocked so that i cant do anything fun. So what are some good sites to play games, quizzes, and anything else intresting that might not be blocked to entertain me?

2006-12-02 03:06:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 03:05:39 · 3 answers · asked by Jujeaux 6 in Singles & Dating

here's the problem.just 2 days before,i told my 3 month crush that i like him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i don't want to be in a relationship right now & i like someone else".

bear in mind that i was planning everything to the last detail & ALL my friends knew abt it(my friends are his friends too).it was supposed to be special cos mainly i thought he liked me too,by the way he behaved around me.

today,i just got to know that almost all my friends knew abt this 'other gal he likes' & they never even told me abt it.not even a hint(while all the time,i was constantly talking abt him).

i mean,i'm not a person who likes regretting,that's why i always tell a guy if i like him.but this REALLY hurt me now.i can't believe my friends knew abt this all along & never told me.

did i Really make a fool out of myself this time?

thanks.

2006-12-02 03:05:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you are going to be there forever, one person is very passionate and loving and one hates the opposite sex and well kill you the minute they see you. They don't live together and you don't know who is who, would you take the chance to find a lover or would you decide to remain celibate the rest of your life?

2006-12-02 03:04:45 · 27 answers · asked by sweetsmile 2 in Marriage & Divorce