Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

I have been on here the last couple of days posting everything that is going on with me and my ex. Well last night was the last straw. She said she would call and I figured she would because tonight is my companies X-mas party... well she didnt. I mean I just believed that she would. I know she is kinda seeing somebody else(says it is just a friend) but I thought our love was stronger than what it is. I put more on it than she did... and now I am sitting here hurt feeling like a fool. And she is out and about with her friend enjoying life without me. How can it be so easy for her to move on... well I guess that doesnt matter, cause she has. After living together for 2 1/2 years it is just over... no trying to work it out... no her calling me telling me she misses me... nothing. And a couple days ago she was on the phone saying she doesnt thikn it is over between us... gosh am I the fool. How do I fel better and move on.. without thinking there is a chance?

2006-12-02 03:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 03:51:28 · 15 answers · asked by Rachel N 1 in Singles & Dating

he used to date a gal 12 years old but smaller than me so i just dun get why he still doesn't like me even after they broke up and since i ever became a better person. if his best fren used to like me, why can't he like me? this is unfair to me. every one in my year class hates him but i supported him. does it mean i did all these things for him is a waste? it looks like he never apprieciated me. i guess he really hates me.

2006-12-02 03:50:30 · 1 answers · asked by Kate38 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 03:50:03 · 19 answers · asked by Albert J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sister in law is best friends with her sister(my wife). Sister in law has too much influence but wife denies & denies she is in competition with her sis. Sis puts her needs above our needs at our expense. ie: sister is buying a 450K house... so we should build NEXT door to her so my wife can spend more time with her sis and nose into our business. Sister in law wanted to go skiing in CO in 05" but I did not...she convinces my wife, parents, etc to go for x-mas...we end up going b/c I do not want to be viewed as the jerk. Sister in law has two small kids and is pushing us to let our 10 wk old spend more time with her and her husband. I am a stay home dad doing a home business. Sister in law makes cheap shots about my parenting skills until I told her off. I am concerned she is manipulating our life to take away my kid and my wife away from me. Is this some sinister motive? You would think this was some child trying to break up a marriage? Any thoughts. Give me some truth. Thanks.

2006-12-02 03:47:39 · 11 answers · asked by Denny C 1 in Family

He told me about a week ago that he did not want to exchange gifts for christmas and he was sorry that could not get me anything for my birthday because he needed to save all of his money for her. Her b-day is the 16th mine is the 18th. he got upset at me when I told him I was hurt and I should be more understanding because he does'nt have her in his life 24-7

2006-12-02 03:47:26 · 6 answers · asked by dental_dame 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 03:47:08 · 11 answers · asked by snoringblackdog 2 in Friends

i normally dont shop for guys and all so i dont know what I should get my boyfriend. I was thinking about giving him a ipod because he wants one and is using mines at the time, but doesnt really know how to use them. So should i still buy him a $200.00 plus gift if he doesnt know how to use it. Another idea was a watch because he needs another one but i dont want to get a cheap one , what is good. any other gift ideas for guys like cologne , whats is good.

2006-12-02 03:46:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

married for 8 years, two children, 5 and 4 years old. have the habit of putting things in the washbasin and taking them. he is 38 years old. first noticed this when newly married and lost in touch with this. again noticed before two days.

2006-12-02 03:46:15 · 16 answers · asked by kaj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What ideas do you have for a wedding night?
do you want like candels, roses and things?

2006-12-02 03:46:05 · 25 answers · asked by Lucy 3 in Weddings

2006-12-02 03:46:01 · 5 answers · asked by snoringblackdog 2 in Friends

what attracts you most to someone. how they look. talk. smile. how rich they are. how kind they are. who they are. i think that honestly, we all look on the outside first and say "hey theres someone who looks like a person who i want to be around alot" and then we get to know them more. and then we decide if theyre really as cool as we thought and sometimes theyre not and sometimes theyre awesome. do you agree?

2006-12-02 03:45:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I would like to meet single muscular women so that I could go biking with them and other stuff like that.

2006-12-02 03:44:22 · 14 answers · asked by ericfaul2003 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We are completely sure that we love each other very much. We met in high school when we were both freshman, now we are in college with a bright future. We've been planning to get married but We are students with part time jobs and we can't afford a fancy wedding!! Will i regret marrying him in a court house, or in the beach or anywhere by ourselves..no family? Has anyone ever married someone in that conditions?....help..

2006-12-02 03:44:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my husband and i spend just about every weekend with 2 other couples this weekend the other 2 couples decided to play tennis did not ask us but asked us to join them later in the evening for drinks i think this is a bit tacky and i'm a bit hurt not sure what to do

2006-12-02 03:42:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I came to Arizona 3 months ago to stay with my father and work for a little while until I got my own place. My boyfriend/father of my child came to visit us about 3 weeks ago. But last night my boyfriend and my dad ended up getting into a fist fight and my father went to jail because he hit my boyfriend first. All I remember was that they both started arguing, got in each others faces and then my dad hit him. Now I am being made out to look like the bad guy because of what happened. I didn't make anyone put their hands on anyone so how could I have stopped it? I tried to calm the situation down but male egos and tempers took control. Plus,they were fighting all over the place and the only person I was thinking about was the safety of my daughter. Someone please help. What should i do?

2006-12-02 03:41:23 · 19 answers · asked by chloerochelle102887 1 in Family

My friend hooked me up with this guy that was attending college in my hometown.I was attending college in a nearby city. Long story short, we both cheated and admitted it, but we decided to work it out. We agreed to forgive each other and move on. I thought we had been successful. We eventually moved in with each other and later got married. Once we were married, he wanted to know my whereabouts at all times. If I told him I was going to hang out with friends, he would call me constantly. I was the total opposite, I encouraged him to hang out with people. He even made some female friends and we all hung out. I was not concerned about him cheating. Now, six years into the marriage, he tells me that he never got over the cheating while we were dating. Maybe that explains why he has been making my life a living hell. If we both cheated and it was before the marriage, why is he still holding on to it?
Should we just call it quits?

2006-12-02 03:40:58 · 14 answers · asked by Twilight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you like that song by taylor swift tim mcgraw???? it rocks!! i love the video too!

2006-12-02 03:40:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need a name for the product.

Shout is already a trademark from LULU so can you suggest a name please?

2006-12-02 03:40:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how do u know if she wants to?

2006-12-02 03:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by ren6529849587345 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had a friend who i've been really close with for a while now, and I thought our friendship was fine and out of nowhere she writes this blog and posts it on myspace for everyone to see about how i'm such a horrible friend, Idon't make time for her, etc.I always thought I was a better friend than she was. she was always asking me to do things to help her out and I would always drop what I was doing and help her, yet I never asked for anything in return. So after she posted it, I wrote her a letter saying that I thought that was immature and childish to do that, and that our friendship must not have meant that much to her, and I told her that i felt she had just been using me. After I wrote that, she wrote a letter back to me saying that she wanted to meet and talk through our issues. I was still pretty upset about the blog, so I brushed her off and told her I needed some more time to let things boil over and now she has an even worse blog up in which she just ripping me apart

2006-12-02 03:40:09 · 9 answers · asked by Vanessa P 1 in Friends

i am wondering what can i get my 13 year old boy....friend
not boyfriend we are not a couple just friends. but what can i get him for christmas?what do 13 year old boys like for christmas

2006-12-02 03:39:50 · 8 answers · asked by singlebabygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

i wear a size dd and im 18...i was wondering if i should get a breast reduction....i do not have back pains yet...would it be better if i got one now to avoid getting back pain?

2006-12-02 03:39:45 · 11 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl thats hott and it seems that im allways thinking about her. and when i talk to instant messager im thing that shes mad at me and i ask her friends and i ask her and they say shes not. am i over reacting or is this a sign of love or what?

2006-12-02 03:39:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When looking at a guy, does his abs matter? If he has his shirt on, how can you tell if he has good abs?

2006-12-02 03:39:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi, i'm thinking about this big time, my sister would be coming with me and we love the idea

can you tell me more about life there

thanx

2006-12-02 03:37:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Iv left my Job, Home, Friends and Family to move abroad with my partner. He gone away for 2 weeks and I feel all alone cause I know no one. There is a time difference of 9 hours so talking to friends back home is difficult, but I dont really want to tell them I so miserable at the moment.
Im bored of looking at shops and dont like drinking alone (not many people speak english) any ideas?

2006-12-02 03:36:51 · 18 answers · asked by benn26k 3 in Friends

is it similar to a cunnilumpkin?

2006-12-02 03:36:17 · 3 answers · asked by dinob 1 in Friends

if a woman/wife has dedicated her life to loving her husband/man why does he feel it is necessary to cheat on her rather than ending it with her before moving on?

2006-12-02 03:35:35 · 19 answers · asked by ayquechula 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend loves me and i love him, alot! but we r in 9th grade..he tells me that he isn't ready until iam..thats respecful..but how do i know if hes just sucking up..hes a really nice guy even way before we talked about having sex..he tells me how he loves me and he wants to grow old with me..and i say the same..is it all a joke..or could it be real????

2006-12-02 03:35:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships