what attracts you most to someone. how they look. talk. smile. how rich they are. how kind they are. who they are. i think that honestly, we all look on the outside first and say "hey theres someone who looks like a person who i want to be around alot" and then we get to know them more. and then we decide if theyre really as cool as we thought and sometimes theyre not and sometimes theyre awesome. do you agree?
2006-12-02 03:45:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Physical attraction is typically the initial draw to wanting to meet an individual.
It doesn't matter who you are, there has to be something physical about a person that makes you want to step up and introduce yourself. Once you've had a chance to get to know that person, only then can you decide whether or not they're worth the time to be with. We can't look at a person from across the room and make a decision if they're someone we'd like to get to know or not. It's virtually impossible. Some people call it "shallow" because there is so much emphasis on *looks*; however, when meeting someone for the first time, usually it's a physical feature that draws you to them first, >then< you start conversing and getting to know. It's part of the chemistry, and it's usually a physical chemistry.
2006-12-02 03:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um when i met the girl i'm currently i love with, i wasn't immedeaitly atrraected to her physically..... We were in english class.. I started talkingg to her and found out that whe was really smart. Then as we talked more we realized some things we had in common like a Fanatical devotion to the pope....er Monty Python..... and we just kept talking and i thnk for me the physical part came later. She is one of if not the most beatiful girls at my school, or at least thats how i see her. So basically i found out that she was nice, smart, fun, funny, Sweet, and Caring. I love her as a person looks and all. i wouldn't blame beauty for my current infatuation, i'd blame eating Charts......
Good luck falling in love
Oh and yes i don't agree with some of her opinions but she is nice and we don't argue about them we're still friend even though we don't agree on everything.
2006-12-02 12:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋