Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

I'm going to Sweden next week to visit my kids. I'm going to stay at a friend's flat. We've known each other for 5 years now and met occasionally, like once a year and, yes, had sex. I was once in love with him and wanted a life together but he never really committed. He keeps on saying he couldn't commit because of problems he has had with family and work. We like each other and get on well though so no pressure. On the other hand, I have been chatting with two other Swedes and they both are interested in meeting me next week. What shall I do? My friend no 1 is taking time off to be with me and I am only staying 5 days. Of course I will be seeing my grown up kids, 20 and 17 but as my kids study, I will only be able to do it when they are not in school or studying. I am at the same time very curious about these other two blokes. Bloke no 2 phones me regularly and bloke no 3 is very sweet and spends a lot of time playing poker with me online.

2006-12-02 03:03:46 · 5 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 03:03:42 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have strong feelings for this guy. We have been hanging out together for about a month, but have know each other longer. I have a strong feeling that he cares about me but wont admit to it. I can ask him and he will change the subject, but not before he smiles and touches my face. We both call each other to see how the other one is doing. I would do anything for him. How do I win him over so he will admit he has feelings for him.

2006-12-02 03:03:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need the ideas urgently as wedding on the 4 Dec

2006-12-02 03:01:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Just wondering how many females are in same boat as me

2006-12-02 03:01:30 · 8 answers · asked by six7foru 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When i think of him i get this feeling in the pit of my tummy and i love that feeling it makes me wanna smile and keep smiling all day. love or lust ?

2006-12-02 02:59:54 · 30 answers · asked by I_luv_my_kids<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who's just absolutely stunning. She has this full, long dark brown hair with the most beautiful curls... with that tinge of red in the sunlight. Huge limpid dark eyes, and long lashes, full lips and the most beautiful white smile. Her skin tone is perfect and she has a beautiful tan in the summer. She has a great curvy body, a very optimistic personality, sense of humor, she is so smart, and absolutely positively TALENTED. It sounds stupid, but it seems as if she puts sexy into whatever she does... the thing is, no guys will tell her they like her. Of course, she doesn't believe everything I said about her, but I tell her all the time that she's a great person and shouldn't change and a lot of the guys look at her but are probably just too scared to talk to her. What should she do?!

2006-12-02 02:59:34 · 13 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4 in Friends

What should I do.. OK my boyfriend and I haven't kissed yet and we both want to, but right when get leans in he always laughs or something. We have been dating for almost 4 months. If u guys and girls can give me some advice that would be great.THANKS
and we have gone on dates to movies and he still doesn't kiss me.. We have been holding hands but thats it. Help me please.. Thank-you

2006-12-02 02:57:48 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley P 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to ask this boy but i don't want to do it if boys don't like it oh and he is thinking about going out with my friend so i need answers quick before sunday the third of december kkk thakyou very much

2006-12-02 02:57:32 · 18 answers · asked by lovelife24 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 02:56:44 · 15 answers · asked by Fabulous Chick 1 in Friends

i have a best friend, i don't want her to get hurt again, I'm sure she doesn't want too, I always give her advice about not to go out with married guy but she doesn't want to listen to me. She said she knows what she doing, she been hurt before and left her with two kids with separate father. she said she is smart enough to handle this game. she said to me its alright to go with married guy beside is just a game she will not take it serious about having relationship with married guy. I'm just worried about my friend I don't know what kind of mind that she have she is gone crazy! no matter what advice I gave her nothing happen she still going what she want to do. Please help me with my friend I don't want her to fall down. tell me what a good advice to pin in her head.

2006-12-02 02:56:09 · 26 answers · asked by Chimelle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is insane! We have been married for two years. Recently... over the last two months our sex life is cutt down to once a month now... if I am lucky. I have confronted him with this and he is stating that he doesnt have a sex drive. He even got mad at me and said, " Is all you care about is sex?" As a woman... that makes me feel so damn low. He says that I dont make him feel like a man. I am 9 mos pregnant and he is out of work... and yeah stress may play a part of this... but he isnt so stressed that he doesnt enjoy all the activities that he used to. What happened is that I told him I was tired of doing all the work in bed. I told him that I was tired of giving the oral sex, and being the one on top, and having to get myself off. I have never had oral sex from this man... and NO ... I am not unclean or unshaven. When we do have sex... he can hardly hold back. So what in the hell is wrong? He swears to God he isnt masterbating... and I know he isnt cheating and no PORN! WTF?

2006-12-02 02:56:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anna Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

as i asked b4 im likin sum1 but dont no if the like me im too afraid to ask them if they like me.we are good friends.he always hangs out with mea and my friends and usually walks mea to mi bus but mi friends have told him b4 that i like him but he says he doesnt like mea.does this mean somthin.help please i need answers fast

2006-12-02 02:55:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and for how long?

2006-12-02 02:55:13 · 22 answers · asked by bullet_to_the_brain 4 in Singles & Dating

would you be mad or flattered if you find out you're being stalked by the person you know loves or likes you?

2006-12-02 02:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by imb 1 in Singles & Dating

from front or behind, which is the best?

2006-12-02 02:53:31 · 24 answers · asked by boogyman 1 in Singles & Dating

ive started this for like 2 or 3 days. itsloike blood idk tho. idk if im just getting my period. but my mom doesnt no wuts wrong eiter. ive never got my period and she just thinks its tht. well i hte the doctor. please email me!im scared!!

2006-12-02 02:53:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're both teenagers, he's 16 n i'm almost 15. He's emo n liks rock. He basically dresses in black almost everyday. It's always hard gettin a boy somethin 4 christmas. We've ony been goin out for about a week. He's already told me he loved. N also asked wat I was doin 4 christmas. So wat should I get him?

2006-12-02 02:53:12 · 19 answers · asked by only1emochick 1 in Singles & Dating

come on down and get on line

2006-12-02 02:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 02:53:03 · 12 answers · asked by nobody w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 02:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by jlw78418 2 in Singles & Dating

she just rolls over and tells me she doesnt want to and tells me to go find someone else. I know she met other guys and ladies on the internet chat rooms and went to meet them leaving me at home studying and taking care of my 4 kids. Now i am all horned up and no way of sexual relief what should I do. lincoln ne

2006-12-02 02:51:31 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm beginning to see that most people define it differently, and it is a very personal thing, but also it is a generally used term that everyone seems to think means something different. So what is your personal definition of it?

2006-12-02 02:51:11 · 13 answers · asked by Decade 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 02:50:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

umm yea

2006-12-02 02:50:52 · 4 answers · asked by toridykhouse 3 in Family

I have a friend who's just absolutely stunning. She has this full, long dark brown hair with the most beautiful curls... with that tinge of red in the sunlight. Huge limpid dark eyes, and long lashes, full lips and the most beautiful white smile. Her skin tone is perfect and she has a beautiful tan in the summer. She has a great curvy body, a very optimistic personality, sense of humor, she is so smart, and absolutely positively TALENTED. It sounds stupid, but it seems as if she puts sexy into whatever she does... the thing is, no guys will tell her they like her. Of course, she doesn't believe everything I said about her, but I tell her all the time that she's a great person and shouldn't change and a lot of the guys look at her but are probably just too scared to talk to her. What should she do?!

2006-12-02 02:50:51 · 4 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4 in Singles & Dating

So I have been having an afair with a drunk, a disrespectful person. He is my ex boyfriend, I was forced to tell my hubby a couple months ago bcz this affair guy was threatening me that he was gonna come to my house so I ended up telling him. Then after I told him the affair guy said that he would have never told my husband, so he squirmed his way back to me, I dunno how but he did. He swears that he would never tell my hubby that it can just be our seceret. But now Iam so stuck, I do have ALOT of feeling for this guy, I think I love him, but I also love my hubby too, we have 2 kids together and he is a had working person, never treated me wrong! Can someone please help me out here, Iam not sure what is wrong with me HELP!!!

2006-12-02 02:49:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It happens all the time. People blame others for what they fail to admit in themselves. What sort of things did you get a lashing for which either at the time or later in retrospect became so obvious that was actually their own problem?

2006-12-02 02:49:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance has an old friend that he used to be really close to but they rarely even talk anymore. Reason is because the guy is sort of a self centered prick. He is the type that talks behind peoples back and thinks hes better than everyone. I really dont want him to be invited. But I think my fiance feels badly because there are other friends from that circle that will for sure be invited. Not to be a Bi*ch but I am not sending an invitation. But how should I tell my fiance nicely that there is no way in heck this guy is getting invited?

2006-12-02 02:48:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-02 02:48:39 · 14 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating