2006-12-02 02:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by jlw78418 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been together 4 yrs, any nothing is going right, for the last 6 months i dont ever want to see him.
2006-12-02 02:54:51 · update #1
Tell him the truth " Baby , I am not happy anymore and things have to change" and let him know that you will always be there for him as a friend... Just tell him that and then forget about what you have just done.. Don't think about it after otherwise you will stress about it ,and probably call him right back.. Tell him the truth about how you feel and then go somewhere alone and get your mind right!..that will make you forget about it all for the the meantime.. and if you dont know what Get ya mind right means.. you will have to ask somebody.
2006-12-02 02:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well no matter what he's probably going to be hurt, unless he feels the same way you do. Tell him you still want to be friends and you care about him a lot but that you just feel things should be different. Good luck
2006-12-02 10:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by ELW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was committed to the relationship you can'tnot hurt him.
You must be honest and forthright and not beat around the bush.
he can deal with and will deal with one blow, but if you torture his soul with inuendos and games you will destroy him.
There is no easy way to part... you must be truthful and tell him it is over . You do not have to give any further explanation. .. if you do, he will turn those over and over in his head again and again...
If you do not love him anymore then tell him that...
Make a clean break and say the truth.... Don't drag his heart around the block...
He will be hurt but he will get over it quicker if you are truthful ...
2006-12-02 10:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no possible way that you aren't goin to hurt him on this one. Nice job hanging in for 6 whole months without liking him.
2006-12-02 10:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible.
2006-12-02 10:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by lacallistapknya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not really a way to do that, unless he gave up before you did.
Just approach him and respectfully say that you think it's time you both moved on with your lives and saw other people.
Good luck.
2006-12-02 10:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is really no why to do it without hurting someone, but you could try to get him to do it. still that is wrong but hey if you want to spare his feelings then it is going to be really hard.
2006-12-02 11:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by mark j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, either way, it will be hurt. Just tell him that you want to be friends.
2006-12-02 10:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Webballs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres no way to tell him without hurting him. just let him go
2006-12-02 10:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by wofford1257 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna hurt. But if it has to be done, then quit stalling.
2006-12-02 10:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋