I have strong feelings for this guy. We have been hanging out together for about a month, but have know each other longer. I have a strong feeling that he cares about me but wont admit to it. I can ask him and he will change the subject, but not before he smiles and touches my face. We both call each other to see how the other one is doing. I would do anything for him. How do I win him over so he will admit he has feelings for him.
2006-12-02 03:03:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, the thing with guys is sometimes they have difficulty talking about their feelings. Many times they will show how they feel by their actions. I know that sucks because as girls we like to hear how they feel about us, but unfortunately that's what they do. Whatever you do, don't ask him how he feels about you again. If he his showing you through is actions, he may begin to feel insulted that you're asking and eventually he may stop talking to you as much. Let things flow for a bit, and he may come around.
2006-12-02 03:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by glittergirl9221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he already feels how you want him to, but theres something about it either your involved or he is or whats the age difference or does he have an ex w/kids something is there, anyways w/my boyfriend/pretend husband I say us being pretty much best friends prior to getting involed was and is a great perk I mean great so I would say when you just keep doing what your doing hanging out eventually things just happen and building a base w/feeling w/o the physical is even more beneficial but again I wonder about how he changes the subject and gives you that gesture there must be somthing in the way or a fact that cant be over looked as to why it wouldnt be possible in his opinion, also have you ever tried kissing him w/o bringing up anything serious prior to? Just be aware that if you do it might not become anything more than that like dont build yourself up w/o uderstanding what may or may not come of it thats where talking eventually comes into play just not as first dont get me wrong communication is the key but it just sounds as if it either turns him off or for whatever reason doesnt get you the kiss sorry for rambling Good Luck KIMBUR
2006-12-02 11:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't do anything unless he is willing to express his feelings toward you. You need to give him his space because he is taking things slower than you and you want to push him into something he doesn't want to do. The best thing you can do is to give him time and if he grows to really love you he will let you know in his own way. Would you want some guy to push you into something you don't want to do?
2006-12-02 11:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't push it or you'll push him away, he has given you the answer but you just don't get it, back off, he's the introvert type, very difficult to express his feelings for you, everytime you brings up the subject he felt squirmish, it'll come a time where he will avoid you altogether just so that he wouldn't had to answer your question
2006-12-02 11:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already won him over.
His smile and caress should let you know that...
2006-12-02 11:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say you got him. if he is smiling and caressing your face then he is telling you without telling you.
2006-12-02 11:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by mark j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋