2006-12-02 02:50:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She'll come into your life when you least expect her...
2006-12-02 02:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by live*laugh*love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want it straight, Dude? Perhaps you are looking at the wrong women. Do you go straight for the beautiful woman, or do you notice her friend in the corner sitting alone? Does the lady of your dreams have to be blonde and skinny? How about that cute plump redhead just waiting for you to ask her to dance? Do you dance? Dancing is like foreplay for women. If you don't, learn!
Also, take a very good look at yourself or ask a trusted friend to critique your appearance. Clean fingernails, good white teeth (invest in Zoom whitening), skin, clean shave, fresh shower and aftershave; nice pressed clothing, moderate style, shiney shoes...I know it all sounds superficial, but the truth is we only have one chance to make an impression so we don't want to blow it. Women like a man to be clean and fresh and nicely dressed.
Try looking outside of the club scene. What would women be interested in? Book signings, art shows, yoga, pilates class, pottery; tennis class; what would a woman be looking to do in her spare time? You might be the only guy in the group...not a bad place to be. And remember, NETWORKING works!!! You may not meet "her" on the first round, but perhaps the one you meet has a sister or a cousin. Don't be afraid of going on a blind LUNCH date. That way, you've only spent an hour of your time, you have a one-on-one setting to get to know a woman and you both have an out..."oh, I have an appointment at 1:30"...make sure you buy...but this is definitely the way to start looking and do some alone time with a woman without the awkward first-blind-date thing.
Now...be your "real" self. Ask her a lot of questions about who she is and what her goals in life are. Keep it real. Don't try to impress, just be yourself and think positive. Also, have a couple of good jokes on hand (nothing risque') cause women think a sense of humor is sexy.
OK...that's my best advice: if you really want to find a quality woman to spend your life with, you're going to have to invest in yourself first. Good luck to you and thanks for asking this question. Most men would be afraid to ask....godloveya, honey.
2006-12-02 11:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wellcome to the club bro, If it was so easy to find true love, then life would be a piece of cake. In my personal opinion love is understanding between people . What you see as guys havin girlfriends well its just a way to try to find your soulmate but there is a lot of diff in findin ur soulmate and ur love
So just hang on their u will find ur love .Till then enjoy!
2006-12-02 10:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Uzair(Stormshadow) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, don't rush love.
When it's time for you to find someone to love, it'll happen... don't try to speed the process up or most likely you'll have a clash with disaster.
2006-12-02 10:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by StarChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me a call: 701-858-9276
I could use a good man !
2006-12-02 10:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't we all looking for someone "perfect",don't worry your time will come. Good Luck-
2006-12-02 10:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to wait for it, It will come
2006-12-02 10:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by smile_a_lot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋