Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

make you bitter, or does it make you a stronger person?

2006-12-02 02:13:54 · 14 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

I have love this guy for 2 years and I still love him and his leaving to Mexico. Should I tell him before he lives or because I dont tell means I really dont love him like I say I do? Please help me.

2006-12-02 02:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex lef me las mnth. She saying how she doesnt luv me and want to muv on. afte 2 wks of acting out we meet for diner and she sayin shes scared n wants to move on. After we kiss n cry n say bye. a day after she calls n tells me how much she missd me. So we get bac 2gether n the whole week she tells me stuff about marraige and movin in with me which was are intent be4. she goes to see her friend 4 de wk n when she coms bac the distance from before is bac. On thanksgvn after dinner she ask me if i am mor in luv then her. sayin she now wants 2 muv on. I call her friday she says she dosnt feel the same and only cam bac 2 see if she can force herself 2 luv me. I dont undrstand. y say all that stuff n not mean it. Is she confused wil she call me . or is it al ovr. should i call her 2nite. she is online should. can i tlk 2 her then. I truely luv her n miss her i want there 2 b something. i tlked 2 her freind n see dosent have any answers 4 me. should i try and talk to the friend agan? man!

2006-12-02 02:13:34 · 7 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm perplexed. Been dating a guy for about a month but lately he's been sending me mixed signals. We dated twice & had the most amazing dates /connection. Then he went off for 2 weeks on holiday. On his holiday, he could not stop texting & calling me. When he got back, he went all distant. So I backed off. He started pursuing me again.
I have reached my boiling point. For two nights, he could not stop asking me about my plans for the weekend. Yet he never did ask me directly if I wanted to go out.

When I told him of my plans, he wondered if we would ever get to meet up. Today, we actually agreed to meet up. He asked me to suggest what we should do. I did. He then said that it will now depend on his work & he cannot confirm yet. I know he is a workaholic but it is Saturday for god's sake. Oh & he only communicates with me through text.

I know he likes me but why is he doing this? Guys, I'd like to hear your honest opinion. Should I just leave. He's such hard work. x

2006-12-02 02:12:47 · 4 answers · asked by J*LO 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 but everyone says that I am very mature for my age. I have never had a boyfriend and I ve never been truly in love. I was always working hard in school and home helping my parents.
Four years ago I met him. He is almost older than my father (47), my professor and a priest. I have a great respect to him because he achieved so much. He is perfectionist, I am too. Everyone loves him, I would like to be loved that way too. He is also very handsome. I do not think that I am in love. I would never dared to think that sth could happen between us. I would never ever even admit my feelings and no one knows about them. But every day it gets harder to live that way. I feel guilt and shame. I am lost. Why I cannot be normal like other people my age?

2006-12-02 02:11:49 · 6 answers · asked by Veronika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just waved back and walked away.

2006-12-02 02:09:22 · 10 answers · asked by sklincky 1 in Singles & Dating

Help For Christimas?
I'm a single mom and I just Lost my job does anyone know where i can find help to buy my two kids christmas presents? one is a girl 5 yrs old and a boy 9 yrs old

2006-12-02 02:08:49 · 7 answers · asked by mom of two 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-02 02:07:45 · 19 answers · asked by thetruth 2 in Singles & Dating

first i am 14 years old and my friends in the summer were having sleepovers, that i didn't know about till one of them (she is my neighobor) had all of them outside playing a game. well i just happen to walkoutside and all of my friends are there at her house. the feeling of your friends have a sleepover without you is something that makes you think if they are really your true friends. so i kinda figured out that all fo them have had sleepovers befor so i feel left out to what they are doing without me in the summer and i don't know what to do about it.

2006-12-02 02:06:47 · 7 answers · asked by armenianbum90 2 in Friends

after she said she wanted to go on a break, then she wanted to finish cos i was hurt and pestering her.
i am going to leave it for a while and give her some space.
how should i suggest a date or to meet up somewhere?
how will i know she is interested again?
she said she is coming to my house at xmas i feel that this is the perfect time for reconciliation. she has said she still loves me.
before we broke up she said she was thinking that i should see someone else and see if i felt any regret. i didnt see her point.
when the break started at the weekend she said we could see anybody we wanted. i said i didnt want to, she said "if she met someone she met someone". but i dont think she would do it intentionally! and she said she isnt going to.
how am i meant to feel??

2006-12-02 02:06:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night, one minute he was fine and then the nest minute he was really distant. I tried all night and this morning to reach out to him, but he was more or less like whatever with a pat on the head. He went to work early (unusual) just gave me a kiss on the cheek and left. I had a minor issue last night myself, and it did not involve him whatsoever and I sincerely apologized for acting like a brat but he is still giving me the cold shoulder. He gets like this every so often, more often lately, at least once a week. He is a great man, everything I could dream of, and I know he is not cheating or anything. What should I do?

2006-12-02 02:05:35 · 8 answers · asked by jenkins_nichole 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, okay, heres the thing, my bf hadnt talked to me in 3 weeks, turns out his internet had been down. Then 2 days before he came back I kissed my best friend, because I thought me and Sam were over, right. So when Sam got back online, I told him that I had kissed Charlie. He was mad, obviously, then he found out I'd sent naked pics of me to some guy and he dumped me. This was all while he was gone. My world has shattered. Would you have dumped your gf if this was your situation? What do you think I should do? He's considering taking me back but doesnt know if he can trust me.

2006-12-02 02:05:35 · 12 answers · asked by Baby Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont want to hurt him. but i still want us to be friends. the problem is that i see him every day bc he sits next to me in class. i dont want it to be akward to be broken up and seeing each other everyday. but i dont think this relationship to go on any longer. when should i break up with him? at school or our next date? How long should i wait to start talking to him again?

2006-12-02 02:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 02:05:05 · 4 answers · asked by Egyptien 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 02:04:13 · 22 answers · asked by braider27 2 in Singles & Dating

married for 14 years,seperated for one year, refuses to talk about any kind of reconciliation but won't file for a divorce either and lives a double life having boyfriend live in marital home,threatens 12 year old son with having to live with dad if he doesn't act accordingly, uses the word betrayal openly , allows the son and the 23 yr old step daughter to get involved in our problems and make things personal between them and I.moves in five other grown adults into the marital home and refuses to let me know if their sharing expenses or not.aside from sick, what kind of person is this? oh and according to her I'm dead now and there are not any memories or history of the last 14 years together, and because of her feelings her whole family has shunned me and I'm a stranger now. won't even acknowledge me in public with a simple hello. and Yes I have filed for a divorce and can't wait for it to be finalized,I'm going after everything legally,including my son before he's too brainwashed!!

2006-12-02 02:04:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 02:03:26 · 3 answers · asked by braider27 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 02:02:54 · 19 answers · asked by you should have signed out 2 in Family

I really like this guy, and he likes me, but, I want to know if these feelings I'm feeling for him are love, because it feels like it, but i've never been in love. And I'm confused....gee thanx!

2006-12-02 02:02:29 · 12 answers · asked by sweet_as_sugar_ox 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 02:02:21 · 7 answers · asked by braider27 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 02:02:06 · 6 answers · asked by you should have signed out 2 in Family

he read the answers so far and got irritated.he said go on line and ask the people did your ex husband love you since he beat you in the head? of coarse i know that answer. no excuse he was drinking and on drugs and took his anger from his past out on me. not that i ever wanted to hang out all my dirty laundry on q@a i guess he wants to make himself the better man. however since he had me do this let me inform you he and his mom always feud. call each other names and they both turn on me at times together. she once hit me in the back because she always sticks up for her son and i told her he can stick up for himself. he was in bed and had a few and came out and said dont you ever hit my mom. id never dream of hitting anyone her age. for that matter noone at all. ive been called by him *****,idiot,whore,player,ect,ect and told to get out and when i pack up to go he says if you leave dont ever come back. which if i do i wont come back. she causes the problem by interfering all the time.

2006-12-02 02:01:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-02 02:00:10 · 24 answers · asked by braider27 2 in Singles & Dating

I have never been married before, but my boyfriend of 2 years was married once before. We talked about marriage the other day, and he wants to cut everything out. he wants a simple family wedding, and no recepction. His first wedding (I believe) was a full blown wedding. Anyway I am not okay with this. I don't want a full blown wedding, but I would like something. So if you have been married before give me your opinoin on what you would do if you were to get married again.
This would be my first marriage. Is he being respectfull of me?

2006-12-02 02:00:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a friend,who wants to know what boys think about her really and i want to help her too. She is a real fleart,she is having crushes every 5 seconds. she's cool n cut, she is a very chiled out person, she loves speed n soft music, she is very soft , frankand jolly, she loves n rspects men from the bottom of her heart and can do any thing for them except(sex and making out). she is a boylover sort of person.She want's to have a real affear.PLZ HEPL HER.

2006-12-02 01:59:21 · 11 answers · asked by Nusrat 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl, we had a good conversation, exchanged phone numbers and so I sent her a msg asking her out. She replied back she's busy this weekend.

Standard excuse or what? She's a bit shy as well. Please advise? Should I move on? thanks.

2006-12-02 01:58:47 · 15 answers · asked by Vince 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 01:58:14 · 10 answers · asked by Oh bella Italia! 2 in Friends

2006-12-02 01:58:08 · 11 answers · asked by maydy217 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-02 01:57:25 · 35 answers · asked by murugan r 1 in Weddings

Shoould I just let things run natural and not feel obligated that
it has to have sparks or that I have to kiss her. I guess I will
know how the date went - I will be able to sense it.
If it goes wel- but no romantic sparks- does that mean it
won;t be any ? Does a woman have to have sparks on the
1st date? or just a nice time.? If we just have a ncie time-
should I ask to kiss her on the cheek ? or just a hug??

2006-12-02 01:54:28 · 3 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating