Shoould I just let things run natural and not feel obligated that
it has to have sparks or that I have to kiss her. I guess I will
know how the date went - I will be able to sense it.
If it goes wel- but no romantic sparks- does that mean it
won;t be any ? Does a woman have to have sparks on the
1st date? or just a nice time.? If we just have a ncie time-
should I ask to kiss her on the cheek ? or just a hug??
2006-12-02 01:54:28 · 3 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How you feel is how you feel. Don't try to force anything.
For me, I typically know on the first date if there is any 'spark' but sometimes it's iffy so a 2nd date typically clears that up (unless he felt no spark on the first date and doesn't desire a 2nd).
Just relax, plan to have a good time regardless, and go with the flow...if you have a nice time, even if there is no spark or you are unsure, then consider a 2nd date.
Chemistry can grow between people...it's not ALWAYS there at the get go...I'm quite sure I've let guys go due to lack of immediate spark/chemistry, that could have had something down the road...and that's a shame, but I tend to be impatient and if I'm not feelin' it don't want to waste anyone's time.
I hope you have a great date, and at the very least, make a new friend.
2006-12-02 02:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two connect let the sparks fly. Sounds like your both young so you will enjoy it. If it don't turn out that good a kiss on the cheek would be nice to end a date.
She will be flattered
2006-12-02 10:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make you get along with her seeing eye dog.
2006-12-02 10:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by kd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋