I am 18 but everyone says that I am very mature for my age. I have never had a boyfriend and I ve never been truly in love. I was always working hard in school and home helping my parents.
Four years ago I met him. He is almost older than my father (47), my professor and a priest. I have a great respect to him because he achieved so much. He is perfectionist, I am too. Everyone loves him, I would like to be loved that way too. He is also very handsome. I do not think that I am in love. I would never dared to think that sth could happen between us. I would never ever even admit my feelings and no one knows about them. But every day it gets harder to live that way. I feel guilt and shame. I am lost. Why I cannot be normal like other people my age?
2006-12-02 02:11:49 · 6 answers · asked by Veronika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you are infatuated with this man. You sound like a good girl so dont stress yourself out so much. Its normal to have a crush on someone older that you admire. That doesnt mean you will act on it. My advice to you is to find something to occupy your time and distract yourself from this situation. good luck.
2006-12-02 02:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by jenkins_nichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a normal girl, infact your above normal! You go to school, and work hard, and still find time for helping your family. Shoot, anyone would be proud to be dating you, including me :] Forget that 47 year old guy and enjoy your life. You will find someone one day. No need to feel bad about your life, your an achiever and thats perfect to me.
-James
2006-12-02 02:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you but your have normal feelings just like every girl in teh world. It's called wanting a man just like Dad. It might just be a phase but it will pass but if not talk to him and let him know how you feel. you can't get him or you in trouble because both of you are adults. SO go talk to him and maybe he might tell you what to do. But like I said maybe it's a phase, but you never knonw. There have been times where young women have nmarried older men and younger guys have married older women. But all you have to do is talk to him and get out in the open between you and him. Probably will get a huge load of your shoulders.
2006-12-02 02:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is normal for a teen to love someone from afar, just wait because getting involved in a older relationship can be stressful, I am proud of you that you work hard in school, and love your parents enough to help them, which means youre not selfish or irresponsible good qualities..
2006-12-02 02:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by braider27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are okay.One day you will have a boyfriend as women have.Try to have many friends.Good luck.
2006-12-02 02:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that 47 years old guy!!!!
2006-12-02 02:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋