I have love this guy for 2 years and I still love him and his leaving to Mexico. Should I tell him before he lives or because I dont tell means I really dont love him like I say I do? Please help me.
2006-12-02 02:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him you have got to tell him. It doesn't matter if he is moving or not. If you don't say it...the moment may pass you by and you will never find it again. Es mas importante!
2006-12-02 02:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, breathe and now take a deep breath....Relax
Don't you think it should not be this hard....so here's the thing...you have some soul searching to do.
Why do you really need to tell him.....if you've got this 2 year thing, were you going with him, in a relationship...and he does not know, ....soul searching......is needed.
You have a Right to a ROCKING RELATIONSHIP.....and both of you need to redefine your needs and wants.....talk everything over..before you get into any relationship.
Your needs must be addressed:
1. What about who works
2. What about who cleans the bathroom...after you share living quarters.
3. What about working - and ....putting each other first?
4. What about family - where do they fit in ...after the I do's.
5. What about friends..........same as #4
6. What about your dreams to complete both of your educational goals.......both remember.
7. What about saving money - what goals for both
8. What about spending money - what are the goals here?
9. What about love.............how do each of you handle rejection....yes....by the world....if you have a bad day?
10. How do you handle ....breakups......do you turn to others...or back to each other.......will you make it a habit...to discuss everything.....before you go to bed at night...and not in the bedroom...?
11. There is no perfect time.....and don't confuse leaving for Mexico time with what needs to be discussed now.
12. Have you made your peace with GOD - where does GOD come into this relationship? GOD loves challenges...so go ahead give your future and faith ...to GOD....ask GOD to bless you and all of your dreams.
YOU have a right to a ROCKIN RELATIONSHIP...now go for it!
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2006-12-02 02:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have had a relationship with him as a bf for 2 years then it is ok to tell him. If you have not been his gf for 2 years then it is not ok to tell him. It would be a moot point.. doesn't matter...because you didn't act on your feelings before now... it would be senseless to embarrass yourself in front of someone you never see again.
You should be able to express your feelings, it sounds like you are a bit shy... Perhaps next time you meet someone that you are attracted to you can tell them while they are still present in your life....
2006-12-02 02:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he s leaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaving u r 2 late try 2 forget his love and 2 consider him ur friend cuz if ll keep loving him u ll suffer cuz u wont be able 2 leave him
don't miss understand me i just don't want u 2 hurt ur feelings
if he s not moving out then go tell him that u love him now!
2006-12-02 02:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by :\ MaRio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. He's leaving. Does he have a girlfriend? If so then no. He may feel the same way. take a chance if he's leaving tell him because you may never get the chance to again.
Good Luck.
2006-12-02 02:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him- life is too short. At least u will not live in regrets. But please don't expect him to say it back. It's okay. You are doing this for yourself.
2006-12-02 02:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by J*LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him otherwise he may never know how you truly feel.
2006-12-02 02:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by jackrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go he.
2006-12-02 02:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by diadea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋