I met a girl, we had a good conversation, exchanged phone numbers and so I sent her a msg asking her out. She replied back she's busy this weekend.
Standard excuse or what? She's a bit shy as well. Please advise? Should I move on? thanks.
2006-12-02 01:58:47 · 15 answers · asked by Vince 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try actually phoning her and speaking to her, you might have better luck. To be totally honest I wouldn't accept an invite out from a guy by text cos I wouldn't know if he was being serious or not which is probably what she was thinking at the time as well.
Good luck.
2006-12-02 02:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by debs1701 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look you can't just say "wanna go out?" boring, bloody boring. Please you oughta Jazz it up a little, excite her, Tempt her. What good would a movie trailer be if all it was was a bit of text saying, "see this film". Persuade her and don't take no for an answer, Standard woman thing to resist men, Like a test. So pursue it, sell it and tempt her with the prospect of a great night out with you.
2006-12-02 02:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you asked her out this weekend and she's busy, usually a girl will suggest another time if she is interested. Maybe try one more time for another day and then let it go if she still is "busy".
2006-12-02 02:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and bit and then ask again, if she's 'busy' the second time then I'm sorry to say its time to move on. We've all been there.
2006-12-02 05:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by NM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's really busy, or like you said shy?
You should ask a group of friends that you and her know to go out together, maybe she will agree? cause it may be kinda awkward for her.
2006-12-02 02:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by woohoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there, ummm she is either afraid a ***** a **** or actually a really nice chick or has a boyfriend and is too afraid to admit it because she likes you and so would think your reaction would be bad
2006-12-02 09:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by 53779j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be an excuse, I'd move on, she has your phone #. Give it a week or two, then give her another chance, why not?
2006-12-02 02:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe suggest a different day? but it does sound abit blunt....she didnt suggest a day? if you really like her then ask again but dont worry if she does not take up the offer! you are probably lovely and it wont take you long to find another! x
2006-12-02 02:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you say an alternative date?
If so then by the sounds of it she is not interested in you, but if you didn't, then maybe she has already got other plans!
2006-12-02 02:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask if she's free the following weekend. If she blows you out again, you'll have your answer.
2006-12-02 02:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋