I suspect my wife of cheating because everytime I try to have sex with her?

Question

she just rolls over and tells me she doesnt want to and tells me to go find someone else. I know she met other guys and ladies on the internet chat rooms and went to meet them leaving me at home studying and taking care of my 4 kids. Now i am all horned up and no way of sexual relief what should I do. lincoln ne

I forgot to put yrs behind that 1 1/2

Answer 1

then go find someone else....she doesnt respect the relationship anymore.

Answer 2

Apparently she doesn't have any respect for the relationship, especially if she's telling you to find someone else. So, I would do just that. Get a divorce and find somebody better that will treat you the way you should be treated.

Answer 3

You need to talk to family lawyer ASAP; you need to start crossing your T's and dotting your I's.

You need to start compiling proof of her cheating and how she neglects the children. When the time comes you will have all the proof for the judge to see that she is a cheat, a bad mother, a no good wife. Start saving your money for your children.

Answer 4

From a single mom, sex is important. If you suspect it go with your instinct. Now its up to you to want to confront her about it, and I am sure that if you love her you might go that route. Then again I would never allow someone to disrespect me in such a manner, and although moving on from someone you love does hurt sometimes it is best. Or just tell her to fu(k herself and go screw someone younger and hotter. Good luck.

Answer 5

Why not both of u seek for help like counselling ,maybe u will find the root to the problems and one advice that i would like to give u that is ,do not accused someone without knowing the truth,very bad!

Answer 6

you needs to have a talk with her and find out what is going on. ask her why she is telling you to go find someone else.

you should also ask to meet these people she met from the chat rooms. you need to involve yourself in her life to see what has happened and what is going on...

Answer 7

if you want to stay in this relationship thantry talking to her or going to couple councelling
if you don't tell her that you are fed up with all the going out and leaving you with all the hard work with watching you children
tell her you want a divorce because you need somebody that can fully appreciate you

Answer 8

If your wife is doing these things then don't you think the marriage is over? Your primary responsibility is to your children and so you should think of them and not yourself or your own gratification. Ask your wife if she still loves you and get it over. If she doesn't then file for divorce and get custody of the children. Obviously she only thinks of herself and no one else.

Answer 9

It seems to me that u have other problems besides that she doesn’t want to sleep whit u. how did u reach there is the thing u should be asking ur self. i don’t think ur relationship is working normally. i don’t defend her. she should try to talk to you and see what she can do about the things that she obviously doesn’t like in her marriage. if she is cheating its too late to fix it. u should have paid attention before the things reached this level.

Answer 10

Sounds like it is time to consider divorce, painful yes, but not as painful as the years of dysfunction with someone you will learn to hate.

Answer 11

Talk to her about it, get couples counseling, or seek an attorney and then you can go your own way and have sex freely with whomever chooses to be your partner.