My guy friend told me that he likes me and I'm not sure how I feel about him. I like him a lot as a friend but I don't know if I really feel 'that way' about him. I'm not sure what to do.
2006-12-02 03:14:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cute avatar... anyways
if you are not sure on how you feel about him... then there is a chance that you like him right?....
i think you also like him "that way" but you are just afraid to lose your relationship to him as a friend...well he said that he like you and if you do you will have a bf and a friend at the same time... so there wouldnt be a big risk here since he like you....
well, you could also like him but do not like the commitment...
if you feel that you like him... ask your self in the mirror "will i be happy if he becomes my bf?"
2006-12-02 03:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Angelo H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say the dreaded "LIsten.. I think it would be better if we were just friends." As much as guys hate to hear that, it has to be done. You don't want to drag him into a relationship you aren't happy or comfortable with! Sit him down and tell him. Just be friends. Let him know that you aren't on the market.
2006-12-02 11:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Wetawd!!NRR! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you value his frienship too much and you don't want to screw that up. If you get into a relationship it will definately change the dynamics of the relationship you guys have right now, and if something happened where you broke up you probably wouldn't have him as a friend anymore.
2006-12-02 11:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not sure, stay his friend and get to know him better and then you can make a better decision later on about if it would work or not. This way you keep the friendship alive and if you make the choice later on, it will be your choice and not his.
2006-12-02 11:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look kiss him if you feel magic and love is in the air then go for it, if not tell him that it is not going to work but we can still be friend and nothing will change!!!
2006-12-02 11:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tony R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, but i gave him a chance and it worked out! i love him so much and he is so good to me! but u shoul rly think about it first if u go out with him and decide u dont like him and break up with him it could riun ur friendship (that also happened t me b4) so take ur time and think 1st!!!
2006-12-02 11:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by NiCoLe i love my Chi cena! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him he really want to jeopardize ur friendship over his feelings. tell him that u don't see him as a bf, but only as a friend.
2006-12-02 11:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should think about it for a while then decide if you lik him like him or just as a friend then tell him calmly and nicly.
2006-12-02 11:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by pinky5063 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋