My bestfriend is having a affair with my boyfriend but,she does know that i know.what should i do?
2006-12-02 03:12:51 · 21 answers · asked by tamara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love, it's a really terrible thing that they have done to you! be thankful that you know what type of people they both really are and get rid of them both as soon as possible. they will both just weigh you down and steal the sparkle in your personality and trust me, nobody is worthy of that!
2006-12-02 03:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two very close people betraying you in such a bad way!
Cut both people from your life, neither deserve your friendship and love.
They both sounds like backstabbers who think of no-one but themselves, this is on the ultimate betrayals. Move on and find true friends and a partner who want you and only you.
Dont let this continue and the longer this goes on the more you are going to be hurt.
All the best!
2006-12-02 03:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by benn26k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront the both of them, and after that kick them both 2 the curve. You don't need anyone like that in your life. Sweetheart, they're plenty of of good looking men out there, and are willing 2 be with a woman like you. You shouldn't call her your best friend because best friends don't do things like that, and anyone that hurts you don't deserve to have you as a friend, just picture her doing that 2 you again. My best advice leave them both alone.
2006-12-02 03:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by keshh23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so i would confront them both together just to see what they would say id say something like so do you have something you need to tell me to my bf and then look at friend and say or maybe you want to tell me some thing and then i would just walk away dont tell neither that you know just to se if they would tell you and as far as the relationship with the two of them hey my sister slept with mine bf and i had all kinds of emotions but i held them all in granted we didnt talk for bout 6 months but i did forgive her but dont trust her for nothing i dont leave anyone with her ever and as far as your bf get rid of him he will do it again he is a dog and you deserve far more better then a jerk who wants to destory your life and your bestfriends life and who may have got something ajax wont take off maybe not from your friend but maybe someone else.if he will cheat with your best friend he has more than likely cheated with someone else and will do it again im so sorry i do understand and i pray you leave the jerk and make your self a better person goodluck
2006-12-02 03:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by harleygirled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend that you've got an itch down below and say you'r going to the doctors. The next day say you've been to the doctors and it looks as if you've caught something from him, dump him like a hot potato and then not only will he be single he'll tell her he's got something. they'll both be at the doctors asking for tests worrying what the other has given them!!!!!
2006-12-02 05:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance say "have you got something to tell me"?if she says no you know she doesnt value your friendship and walk away, she will be expecting a reaction but by not giving one will do her head in even more. if she says yes and then tells you everything, take it from there and see how you go. As for the fella kick him straight in the ba**s
2006-12-02 04:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by skin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she aint no best friend then is she!!!!...id scratch her eyes out then knock her to the end of next week..but you aint me so u probably wont want to resort to violence so the non violent way of dealing with this is to just start ignoring her,be really off with her when she calls and just start dropping " i no what your up 2" hints into the conversation briing up a senario when your together say to her something like " god i dont no wot id do if i found out you were sleeping with my boyf..if that did happen id make your life hell..you would never do that to me would you..."and watch her face..then id dump the boyf GOOD LUCK xx
2006-12-02 03:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by greyhound mummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her, and end the friendship obviously she was not a good friend in the first place, and as for the boyfr
iend dump him too
2006-12-02 03:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by LORI M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose the friend and the boyfriend!! its that simple, you deserve better. don't go putting all the blame on the best friend like most people do, they are both at fault here. and don't go taking the boyfriend back because {you love him} if he could cheat on you with your best friend knowing you might find out then he will do it again.
2006-12-02 03:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give them an opportunity to be caught together (preferably in bed) and then gather all my mates together and go catch them at it..I woulg get some to video record it and then I would "give them both a beating ".
2006-12-02 03:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by kimknowsbest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋