More background of the man.....grew up in a household environment where there was a lot of cussing, at the kid (him) also! He thinks it is ok (he says he grew up with it) to cuss at his 8yr old daughter! I mean the harsh kind, i.e., "get the F*** out of here and if you miss your ride, don't come the F*** back in here - You better walk the F*** to school!" He was angry at her (I think he's just an angry person - but only to the people he's suppose to love - the neighbors get talked to better - they get jokes, smiles, flirts, etc.) His temper is short and out of porportion to things. He's too defensive, too suspicious, has trusting people issues - particularly women, gets too hostile, he's too confrontational, too damn hard! Even on his minor daughters to which most dads get soft (they may cuss you and me out, cuss like a sailor, but not to or around daddy's baby) I don't like it, I told him and we had an argument! It's alway an argument if I disagree with him! His threats -just words?
2006-12-02 03:07:16 · 5 answers · asked by HotSista 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If this man can be nice to the neighbors, he can be nice to his family if he wants too. This man is a mean bully and it's going to get to the point where he'll start hitting and brutalizing you and the children. This man has a lot of issues to deal with and may need some professional help. There isn't anything you can do to change him. He'll have to want to change and get help if needed. There is always going to be an argument when you open your mouth to him. He's not interested in you or anything you have to say. It's up to you to protect your children since their father doesn't give 2 hoots about them. Please, TAKE YOUR CHILDREN AND LEAVE THIS MAN RIGHT NOW. Your children are going to be a nervous wreck, have no respect for themselves or you, be resentful towards you (they are going to feel that you should have done something than allow them to be treated this way). They'll not know how to have a healthy relationship with guys and as adults, they'll have the same problems their father does. Do you want this for your children? Of course not. So, take your children and get out right now. No excuses. Go to a shelter if you have to. You and the children will be better off there than living with this man.
2006-12-02 04:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is verbal abuse and it will only get worse with time, and it is just as hurtful as the physical kind of abuse. He is a bully and should be put in his place. You need to get those kids away from him and him out of the house.
2006-12-02 11:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes what's from the mouth come from the heart. not everyone threats people when they angry. so go figures
2006-12-02 11:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, i just left someone like that, and i'm alot happier
2006-12-02 11:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by letgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not, be careful!
2006-12-02 11:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by LORI M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋